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12-28-2012, 01:48 AM
#1
DinoFreak
I'm le back
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So the girl that I like, I have got to known her for a very long time, 1 in a half month.
She's a cute girl not gonna lie, her personality is just amazing. For this time that has gone by everything has gone smoothly. No problems nothing since we are dating we don't have a reason to be fighting.
So she has told me everything about her life about the good times and the bad times...
she says she likes me alot and I like her back.
So far she has been sweet to me, her bestfriend has talked to me and i made a promise to her saying that i shall never hurt her while I'm dating her or with her.
Yesterday December 26 of 2012 we were talking over the phone... we stayed up till 4 am in the morning.
At some point she asked me about my ex and I told her everything that happend and how my ex girlfriend dumped my ass, in wich left me in a bad mood/depresion. (not the bad kind)
Finally she told me about her 2 ex bf's in wich I heard everysingle thing that they did to her...
they raped her... and I was shocked on how a girl thats 15 years old can get raped by two of her best friends.
Yep, the 2 ex's are her two bestfriends. *Shocker*
Even though, I told her: "Thats in the past right now... you need to focus on me".
She replied: "Yes i have to"
I asked her... if she still loved one of them...
She replied:
Continues here:
I said if she still liked me...
She replied: "yes... I do... very much"
I said: "How can you like me while loving the other..."
She replied: "... idk... I'm sorry..."
I Confesed: "I don't like you... I love you..."
She replied:
By that time I knew what i had to do...
I told her to meet me in the mall... where I shall proof to you how I could make her forget about him...
She said ok...
I shall update this once I come back from the mall... Wish me luck fellow mates.
One thing I forgot to say:
I forgot to mention that the other guys don't give a shit about her
UPDATE #1
I just woke up and I'm motivated, I'm just ready to go see her and ask her the big question.
UPDATE #2
We couldn't meet up... I told her that we were gonna see the 1st of january. (thats when I'm pop the question to her) Until then.
Update #3
A desition has been made by myself, (she does not know) if she dosen't give me the awnser I want, I shall leave then... even if it will hurt like a bitch... I still need to carry on and find me someone that will take the love & care that I will give to that person.
(To the people that don't know this, it's kind of obvious, the question I'm gonna ask is if she's willing to be my fellow mate "gf")
UPDATE #4
Since deadmau5 is comming to Puerto Rico, I'm planning to go with my best friend BUT bring her where we shall have fun toguether. And maybe, just maybe she shall forget about the guy.
FINAL UPDATE #5
In my entire life i've have expirience alot of pain. She was a nice girl until I found out the truth about her. She still did not feel the same way as I did. TO the NGU user's that were saying good luck and everything thanks for that. And to the user's that said that i should find another girl thank you too. I didin't listen to them so for that I'm sorry. Thing is that by that time I wasen't listening, I was listening to my heart and by that time my heart said to go for it. Meanwhile my brain was saying don't go for it. But at the end shit happends.
I wanna thank eveybody who took their time to read this and understand me and help me along the way, and for those who have expierieced the same thing I did all i got to say is, just keep on moving as time progress you shall find somebody better than the last one. Right now exactly 29th of december at 1:29 am I'm feeling like shit. I chatted with her over facebook and told her everysingle thing she told me, but the only diference is that I told her off, Basically I told her that the other guy dosen't give a shit about you and that I do. And other stuff. But it's to much since i've been chatting over since I got home. From 7:25 Pm - 1:29 am i've been chatting with her.
Well guys I hoped you enjoyed this thread if not i'm sorry but it dosen't mather at this point, so yeah.
Peace out mates.
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Just goes to show that it dosen't allways end like you expect.
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12-28-2012, 04:06 PM
#22
DinoFreak
I'm le back
Originally posted by NeedaBlazeSoon
hey OP guess what? she's getting fuked by her exes as we speak, she will say it's rape if she gets caught.
dump and move on.
dump and move on.
She got fuck by one of them in the past. Your not helping right now. Thats your thinking, but what about my thinking? Idc if she got fucked by that time I didin't knew her. Now she told me that she still loves one of them and it hurt my heart but what if I try to make her forget about the guy? If I don't ever come up with a conversation about our ex's then she shall forget slow and slow...
Also i forgot to mention that the other guys don't give a shit about her.
12-28-2012, 04:48 PM
#23
DiJiTaLGoDz
Former Staff
Originally posted by Andy
She got fuck by one of them in the past. Your not helping right now. Thats your thinking, but what about my thinking? Idc if she got fucked by that time I didin't knew her. Now she told me that she still loves one of them and it hurt my heart but what if I try to make her forget about the guy? If I don't ever come up with a conversation about our ex's then she shall forget slow and slow...
Also i forgot to mention that the other guys don't give a shit about her.
Also i forgot to mention that the other guys don't give a shit about her.
sloots gon sloot.
never trust a girl that says she loves a guy who raped her. listen to yourself, kid. smh
12-28-2012, 06:04 PM
#24
Mr.Kane
Greatness
Originally posted by Andy
Play the song while reading.
So the girl that I like, I have got to known her for a very long time, 1 in a half month.
She's a cute girl not gonna lie, her personality is just amazing. For this time that has gone by everything has gone smoothly. No problems nothing since we are dating we don't have a reason to be fighting.
So she has told me everything about her life about the good times and the bad times...
she says she likes me alot and I like her back.
So far she has been sweet to me, her bestfriend has talked to me and i made a promise to her saying that i shall never hurt her while I'm dating her or with her.
Yesterday December 26 of 2012 we were talking over the phone... we stayed up till 4 am in the morning.
At some point she asked me about my ex and I told her everything that happend and how my ex girlfriend dumped my ass, in wich left me in a bad mood/depresion. (not the bad kind)
Finally she told me about her 2 ex bf's in wich I heard everysingle thing that they did to her...
they raped her... and I was shocked on how a girl thats 15 years old can get raped by two of her best friends.
Yep, the 2 ex's are her two bestfriends. *Shocker*
Even though, I told her: "Thats in the past right now... you need to focus on me".
She replied: "Yes i have to"
I asked her... if she still loved one of them...
She replied:
Continues here:
I said if she still liked me...
She replied: "yes... I do... very much"
I said: "How can you like me while loving the other..."
She replied: "... idk... I'm sorry..."
I Confesed: "I don't like you... I love you..."
She replied:
By that time I knew what i had to do...
I told her to meet me in the mall... where i shall proof to you how I could make her forget about him...
She said ok...
I shall update this once I come back from the mall... Wish me luck fellow mates.
One thing I forgot to say:
I forgot to mention that the other guys don't give a shit about her
UPDATE #1
I just woke up and I'm motivated, I'm just ready to go see her and ask her the big question.
I was dumped 2 weeks ago, I loved this girl she was my first relationship and it was serious, we were almost together for 4 months and we never fought and we had fun, always said we loved each other. She dumped me and I feel distraught, heart broken and depressed, as words of advice, if she doesnt feel the same way please dont feel attached, loosing that person who is the first and last thought you have every day is the worst possible feeling and it is not an easy process.
I'm 16 and you're probably 15/16, just take those words on, and I hope for the very best.
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12-28-2012, 10:17 PM
#25
DinoFreak
I'm le back
Originally posted by Mr.Kane
I was dumped 2 weeks ago, I loved this girl she was my first relationship and it was serious, we were almost together for 4 months and we never fought and we had fun, always said we loved each other. She dumped me and I feel distraught, heart broken and depressed, as words of advice, if she doesnt feel the same way please dont feel attached, loosing that person who is the first and last thought you have every day is the worst possible feeling and it is not an easy process.
I'm 16 and you're probably 15/16, just take those words on, and I hope for the very best.
I'm 16 and you're probably 15/16, just take those words on, and I hope for the very best.
Thank you mate, I'm currently 16.
12-30-2012, 03:56 AM
#28
Coqui
Former Staff
Originally posted by Andy
Play the song while reading.
So the girl that I like, I have got to known her for a very long time, 1 in a half month.
She's a cute girl not gonna lie, her personality is just amazing. For this time that has gone by everything has gone smoothly. No problems nothing since we are dating we don't have a reason to be fighting.
So she has told me everything about her life about the good times and the bad times...
she says she likes me alot and I like her back.
So far she has been sweet to me, her bestfriend has talked to me and i made a promise to her saying that i shall never hurt her while I'm dating her or with her.
Yesterday December 26 of 2012 we were talking over the phone... we stayed up till 4 am in the morning.
At some point she asked me about my ex and I told her everything that happend and how my ex girlfriend dumped my ass, in wich left me in a bad mood/depresion. (not the bad kind)
Finally she told me about her 2 ex bf's in wich I heard everysingle thing that they did to her...
they raped her... and I was shocked on how a girl thats 15 years old can get raped by two of her best friends.
Yep, the 2 ex's are her two bestfriends. *Shocker*
Even though, I told her: "Thats in the past right now... you need to focus on me".
She replied: "Yes i have to"
I asked her... if she still loved one of them...
She replied:
Continues here:
I said if she still liked me...
She replied: "yes... I do... very much"
I said: "How can you like me while loving the other..."
She replied: "... idk... I'm sorry..."
I Confesed: "I don't like you... I love you..."
She replied:
By that time I knew what i had to do...
I told her to meet me in the mall... where I shall proof to you how I could make her forget about him...
She said ok...
I shall update this once I come back from the mall... Wish me luck fellow mates.
One thing I forgot to say:
I forgot to mention that the other guys don't give a shit about her
UPDATE #1
I just woke up and I'm motivated, I'm just ready to go see her and ask her the big question.
UPDATE #2
We couldn't meet up... I told her that we were gonna see the 1st of january. (thats when I'm pop the question to her) Until then.
Update #3
A desition has been made by myself, (she does not know) if she dosen't give me the awnser I want, I shall leave then... even if it will hurt like a bitch... I still need to carry on and find me someone that will take the love & care that I will give to that person.
(To the people that don't know this, it's kind of obvious, the question I'm gonna ask is if she's willing to be my fellow mate "gf")
UPDATE #4
Since deadmau5 is comming to Puerto Rico, I'm planning to go with my best friend BUT bring her where we shall have fun toguether. And maybe, just maybe she shall forget about the guy.
FINAL UPDATE #5
In my entire life i've have expirience alot of pain. She was a nice girl until I found out the truth about her. She still did not feel the same way as I did. TO the NGU user's that were saying good luck and everything thanks for that. And to the user's that said that i should find another girl thank you too. I didin't listen to them so for that I'm sorry. Thing is that by that time I wasen't listening, I was listening to my heart and by that time my heart said to go for it. Meanwhile my brain was saying don't go for it. But at the end shit happends.
I wanna thank eveybody who took their time to read this and understand me and help me along the way, and for those who have expierieced the same thing I did all i got to say is, just keep on moving as time progress you shall find somebody better than the last one. Right now exactly 29th of december at 1:29 am I'm feeling like shit. I chatted with her over facebook and told her everysingle thing she told me, but the only diference is that I told her off, Basically I told her that the other guy dosen't give a shit about you and that I do. And other stuff. But it's to much since i've been chatting over since I got home. From 7:25 Pm - 1:29 am i've been chatting with her.
Well guys I hoped you enjoyed this thread if not i'm sorry but it dosen't mather at this point, so yeah.
Peace out mates.
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Just goes to show that it dosen't allways end like you expect.
Asi que eres de Puerto Rico? Que bien otro boricua mas aqui en NGU.
Fue triste lo que paso pero lo mas seguro el futuro va a ser mucho mejor y mientras, la vida debe continuar.
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