So the girl that I like, I have got to known her for a very long time, 1 in a half month.
She's a cute girl not gonna lie, her personality is just amazing. For this time that has gone by everything has gone smoothly. No problems nothing since we are dating we don't have a reason to be fighting.
So she has told me everything about her life about the good times and the bad times...
she says she likes me alot and I like her back.
So far she has been sweet to me, her bestfriend has talked to me and i made a promise to her saying that i shall never hurt her while I'm dating her or with her.
Yesterday December 26 of 2012 we were talking over the phone... we stayed up till 4 am in the morning.
At some point she asked me about my ex and I told her everything that happend and how my ex girlfriend dumped my ass, in wich left me in a bad mood/depresion. (not the bad kind)
Finally she told me about her 2 ex bf's in wich I heard everysingle thing that they did to her...
they raped her... and I was shocked on how a girl thats 15 years old can get raped by two of her best friends.
Yep, the 2 ex's are her two bestfriends. *Shocker*
Even though, I told her: "Thats in the past right now... you need to focus on me".
She replied: "Yes i have to"
I asked her... if she still loved one of them...
She replied:
Yes... I'm sorry...
Continues here:
It broke my heart hearing those words... I bursted into tears...
I said if she still liked me...
She replied: "yes... I do... very much"
I said: "How can you like me while loving the other..."
She replied: "... idk... I'm sorry..."
I Confesed: "I don't like you... I love you..."
She replied:
I don't feel the same way
By that time I knew what i had to do...
I told her to meet me in the mall... where I shall proof to you how I could make her forget about him...
She said ok...
I shall update this once I come back from the mall... Wish me luck fellow mates.
One thing I forgot to say: I forgot to mention that the other guys don't give a shit about her
UPDATE #1
I just woke up and I'm motivated, I'm just ready to go see her and ask her the big question.
UPDATE #2
We couldn't meet up... I told her that we were gonna see the 1st of january. (thats when I'm pop the question to her) Until then.
Update #3
A desition has been made by myself, (she does not know) if she dosen't give me the awnser I want, I shall leave then... even if it will hurt like a bitch... I still need to carry on and find me someone that will take the love & care that I will give to that person.
(To the people that don't know this, it's kind of obvious, the question I'm gonna ask is if she's willing to be my fellow mate "gf")
UPDATE #4 Since deadmau5 is comming to Puerto Rico, I'm planning to go with my best friend BUT bring her where we shall have fun toguether. And maybe, just maybe she shall forget about the guy.
FINAL UPDATE #5
SHE DECIED TO GO WITH ANOTHER GUY AND STILL LOVING ANOTHER.
In my entire life i've have expirience alot of pain. She was a nice girl until I found out the truth about her. She still did not feel the same way as I did. TO the NGU user's that were saying good luck and everything thanks for that. And to the user's that said that i should find another girl thank you too. I didin't listen to them so for that I'm sorry. Thing is that by that time I wasen't listening, I was listening to my heart and by that time my heart said to go for it. Meanwhile my brain was saying don't go for it. But at the end shit happends.
I wanna thank eveybody who took their time to read this and understand me and help me along the way, and for those who have expierieced the same thing I did all i got to say is, just keep on moving as time progress you shall find somebody better than the last one. Right now exactly 29th of december at 1:29 am I'm feeling like shit. I chatted with her over facebook and told her everysingle thing she told me, but the only diference is that I told her off, Basically I told her that the other guy dosen't give a shit about you and that I do. And other stuff. But it's to much since i've been chatting over since I got home. From 7:25 Pm - 1:29 am i've been chatting with her.
Well guys I hoped you enjoyed this thread if not i'm sorry but it dosen't mather at this point, so yeah.
Peace out mates.
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Just goes to show that it dosen't allways end like you expect.
Sorry to hear about the final outcome... Don' worry man, there's plenty of other women out there and your still young, you still got a long life to live buddy, try to live it to the fullest. Don't Cry over a girl that didn't feel the same about you, i went trough the same thing, but i realized she could care less about me and so i moved on, but right now i have another problem..... its just how life is... Just live life by the day.
Originally posted by Andy
Play the song while reading.
So the girl that I like, I have got to known her for a very long time, 1 in a half month.
She's a cute girl not gonna lie, her personality is just amazing. For this time that has gone by everything has gone smoothly. No problems nothing since we are dating we don't have a reason to be fighting.
So she has told me everything about her life about the good times and the bad times...
she says she likes me alot and I like her back.
So far she has been sweet to me, her bestfriend has talked to me and i made a promise to her saying that i shall never hurt her while I'm dating her or with her.
Yesterday December 26 of 2012 we were talking over the phone... we stayed up till 4 am in the morning.
At some point she asked me about my ex and I told her everything that happend and how my ex girlfriend dumped my ass, in wich left me in a bad mood/depresion. (not the bad kind)
Finally she told me about her 2 ex bf's in wich I heard everysingle thing that they did to her...
they raped her... and I was shocked on how a girl thats 15 years old can get raped by two of her best friends.
Yep, the 2 ex's are her two bestfriends. *Shocker*
Even though, I told her: "Thats in the past right now... you need to focus on me".
She replied: "Yes i have to"
I asked her... if she still loved one of them...
She replied:
Yes... I'm sorry...
Continues here:
It broke my heart hearing those words... I bursted into tears...
I said if she still liked me...
She replied: "yes... I do... very much"
I said: "How can you like me while loving the other..."
She replied: "... idk... I'm sorry..."
I Confesed: "I don't like you... I love you..."
She replied:
I don't feel the same way
By that time I knew what i had to do...
I told her to meet me in the mall... where I shall proof to you how I could make her forget about him...
She said ok...
I shall update this once I come back from the mall... Wish me luck fellow mates.
One thing I forgot to say: I forgot to mention that the other guys don't give a shit about her
UPDATE #1
I just woke up and I'm motivated, I'm just ready to go see her and ask her the big question.
UPDATE #2
We couldn't meet up... I told her that we were gonna see the 1st of january. (thats when I'm pop the question to her) Until then.
Update #3
A desition has been made by myself, (she does not know) if she dosen't give me the awnser I want, I shall leave then... even if it will hurt like a bitch... I still need to carry on and find me someone that will take the love & care that I will give to that person.
(To the people that don't know this, it's kind of obvious, the question I'm gonna ask is if she's willing to be my fellow mate "gf")
UPDATE #4 Since deadmau5 is comming to Puerto Rico, I'm planning to go with my best friend BUT bring her where we shall have fun toguether. And maybe, just maybe she shall forget about the guy.
FINAL UPDATE #5
SHE DECIED TO GO WITH ANOTHER GUY AND STILL LOVING ANOTHER.
In my entire life i've have expirience alot of pain. She was a nice girl until I found out the truth about her. She still did not feel the same way as I did. TO the NGU user's that were saying good luck and everything thanks for that. And to the user's that said that i should find another girl thank you too. I didin't listen to them so for that I'm sorry. Thing is that by that time I wasen't listening, I was listening to my heart and by that time my heart said to go for it. Meanwhile my brain was saying don't go for it. But at the end shit happends.
I wanna thank eveybody who took their time to read this and understand me and help me along the way, and for those who have expierieced the same thing I did all i got to say is, just keep on moving as time progress you shall find somebody better than the last one. Right now exactly 29th of december at 1:29 am I'm feeling like shit. I chatted with her over facebook and told her everysingle thing she told me, but the only diference is that I told her off, Basically I told her that the other guy dosen't give a shit about you and that I do. And other stuff. But it's to much since i've been chatting over since I got home. From 7:25 Pm - 1:29 am i've been chatting with her.
Well guys I hoped you enjoyed this thread if not i'm sorry but it dosen't mather at this point, so yeah.
Peace out mates.
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Just goes to show that it dosen't allways end like you expect.
Mas bien hermano. Tienes mucha razon. Gracias por el comentario.
Sorry to hear about the final outcome, it could of been worse.
My girlfriend of 4 months who dumped me a week before christmas, within the 2 weeks after that she got with one boy (who she cheated with while I was with her) and now things didnt work out between those 2 and yesterday she was meeting up with some other boy, these 2 guys are chavs and complete cunts, I was not told any of that by her, her best friend who is also one of my best friends told me and betrayal is the worst feeling in the world. She did not respect me enough after 4 months of saying I love you and ringing me just to hear my voice to give me a reason.
Girls are worse than boys in relationships, worse thing is it was my first relationship (I'm 16 if you dont remember my other post) and I have a feeling I will always remember this as it was my first experience and who i thought was a lovely genuine girl turned out to be a cheating slag
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Sorry to hear about the final outcome, it could of been worse.
My girlfriend of 4 months who dumped me a week before christmas, within the 2 weeks after that she got with one boy (who she cheated with while I was with her) and now things didnt work out between those 2 and yesterday she was meeting up with some other boy, these 2 guys are chavs and complete cunts, I was not told any of that by her, her best friend who is also one of my best friends told me and betrayal is the worst feeling in the world. She did not respect me enough after 4 months of saying I love you and ringing me just to hear my voice to give me a reason.
Girls are worse than boys in relationships, worse thing is it was my first relationship (I'm 16 if you dont remember my other post) and I have a feeling I will always remember this as it was my first experience and who i thought was a lovely genuine girl turned out to be a cheating slag
I'm still feeling sad about it, and thanks for caring mate.
But in this cruel world there good people and bad people.
I don't remember if it was stated earlier in this thread but, it is true girls do like assholes. Then they get pissed about how all the guys are the same, but hey at first it feels like you've been crushed by a train. But as time progresses you will become more stronger until eventually everybody will find the "one". So just wait everything comes with time. Good luck getting better man.
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Originally posted by Guzman
Sorry to hear about the final outcome... Don' worry man, there's plenty of other women out there and your still young, you still got a long life to live buddy, try to live it to the fullest. Don't Cry over a girl that didn't feel the same about you, i went trough the same thing, but i realized she could care less about me and so i moved on, but right now i have another problem..... its just how life is... Just live life by the day.
Everything you said was awesome advice to me and to the people that might also read this and have experienced the same thing.
Also this post also made think. YOLO.