(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Long story short, I was dumped a week before christmas eve with my first girlfriend, would of been together 4 months on christmas eve. She was the first person i really felt a connection with and it was shattered, turns out she cheated on me and she treated me so shit when she broke up with me I now know she isnt worth it.

Its been about a month and a half ish since then and I am so much better than I was, I was so depressed and sad all day every day for 3-4 weeks. It's still upsetting to me but not as bad as it was, just wondering how long some of you guys hurt for when you had that first horrible heart break, just feel like I've dragged it on but I'm not sure if it's normal for some people or not really.

For me she wanted a kid and to get married ( i just turned 18 ) and i said hell no. She made threats (become a nun), cry, and like all girls move on. This is going to sound like something off misc, it might be to soon, but i will say it to you anyways. It makes me mad knowing a good guy (like your fine self) only has tears on his eyes , while she has a cock in her mouth, and another one in her ass. The best thing you can do is find someone who likes you, not because you want to get back at her, but to prove a point that you can do it. You don't neccesarly need to fuck just say hi my name is ____, go clubbing (eurbrahs), or simply do something productive. Hate to bitchslap you like that man but truth is you have 2 hands and 2 feet, so do something productive.

That's probably the best advice I've had, I might be seeing some girl next weekend, idk if anything would come from it but never know. It is still kinda painful thinking what this ex did after all she said, and I always felt she was more serious about me than I was her, fuck me was I wrong, she is involved with the wrong sort of people now who are probably going to use her, her mum works at my school and I talk to her sometimes, her mum thinks I was a good lad and isnt happy her daughter
1. Dumped me (and so close to christmas)
and 2. cheated on me.

All I can try to do is convince myself I'm fine (cause really I am) and get on with things, it all gets easier in the end and I think this experience will build my character, make me more weary in the future.

Personally i think once your past the age of 14 i think we all experience some form of heartbreak, rejection, or embarrassment. I've had girls who i had all the chances in the world to say hi, don't do it, see them with someone who is a clear douchebag/doesn't deserve her. Honestly, it was completely my fault, and thats what hurts the most. Sometimes when im stuck in traffic i ponder these things ( i hate it). However, going back to you. I feel that you shouldn't just jump to 1 girl, i feel you should just stock up on as much as you, build old bridges if you have to (not with your recent ex of course). Im sorry for asking but do you workout, participate in a team, etc? Do some of that, best thing to do is to see people and change up your environment. Also, How old are you?

Started going gym 2 weeks ago
Play football on a sunday (actual football not handegg)
16, will be 17 in october, starting A levels in september

I've never been one to be seen as someone girls would be involved with I think, I'm one of those people who gets friend zoned and the girls say "oh you'd make a great boyfriend" but most of us probably get this one time or another :p

I think this experience was as painful as it was for m because it was the first connection i had with someone, not as if I expected it to last forever but I expected a break up to not come for a much longer time and for it to be a more mutual thing

Go more often to the gym and take pre workout before you go. Also, anything you want to get into like coding, mixing, etc?

I am hoping to go gym at least twice a week after school but because the school football season is starting the training and matches are on 2 of the days I can go to gym out of the 3. But I plan on staying busy, I edit You must login or register to view this content. and run an editing team You must login or register to view this content.

I was pretty sad for like 1 week but i got over it, i said to myself its not worth being sad for a girl that doesn't feel the same for you

yea i just remember you edit :p

I'm currently in phase 2 of this. But for me it's been pretty bad, 6 years of my life down the drain and I'm 3-4 months into the breakup. It sucks but whatever, I'm young and I can get it in any day. No need to be depressed about it, shit changes and I'm not the only person in the world who's had a bad breakup.