(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Long story short, I was dumped a week before christmas eve with my first girlfriend, would of been together 4 months on christmas eve. She was the first person i really felt a connection with and it was shattered, turns out she cheated on me and she treated me so shit when she broke up with me I now know she isnt worth it.

Its been about a month and a half ish since then and I am so much better than I was, I was so depressed and sad all day every day for 3-4 weeks. It's still upsetting to me but not as bad as it was, just wondering how long some of you guys hurt for when you had that first horrible heart break, just feel like I've dragged it on but I'm not sure if it's normal for some people or not really.

It was kind of sad, but you know, there are plenty of girls out there. If one girl is not for you then go get another one. Just go up to a girl and say "Hi" and off you go :p

Tbh, my first was a girl i was with for 3 years. I broke up with her... It was pretty easy for me cos i was ready to move on... she stalked me for weeks after though >.>'

As for Na's advise, i prefer the direct route. Go up to a girl, shout secks pl0x in her direction. if she doesnt slap you or run, she's a keeper.

Dude she cheated on you!!! I find the best way to get over a girl is to hate them and be angry! You should be relieved shes not in your life anymore she treated you like shit!

Now that your heartbroken you can either go three ways
1.Let your heart get stronger and learn from mistakes!
2.Rebound and try and find a replacement for that girl , because you "NEED" a girl there even though you don't
3.Start having a black heart and don't build feelings for girls because only 1% of them are nice, AND HAVE FUN!

I went from number TWO and then changed to number THREE mainly because my ex was violent and my other ex was a cheat so I really hate girls at the moment. You want to be number ONE when your a bit older

Hope it helps!

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Just thought I'd throw this out.. I was and am listening to some chillstep while reading your post and the replies. Definitely made it even more depressing.

But she cheated on you.. she's a slut you shouldn't have worried about it bro. It's the story of life, you learn to love and to live. Everyone everywhere works hard and struggles to maintain a relationship to only have it fail in the end. It's something to expect in life. This is something I learned after my second girlfriend. Good luck bro, there is always more out there. :p

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Lol not going to lie but that is exactly how I feel nowadays when relationships go south... time to game lol.

I feel like number 2 is my best option atm but I don't think it will happen. I've just been really depressed over it all, far better now and as soon as South Park: The Stick of Truth is out, I won't care at all haha.

Yeah i know, worst part was she didn't tell me she cheated, I was told by a friend we both share, the ex left me hanging saying "see how we both feel in a month" if I didn't have this shared friend, I'd over never known the truth and chances are, still feel so depressed. This ex since then has gone out her way to try make me feel guilty or bad, and its kind of worked but its not worth it, she smokes weed now and I can't be doing with that sort of thing, she also hangs round with some proper cunts now, gone down hill so much since she cheated on me, her loss haha

If you want number two go on dating sites! Some have fit girls on them!

I'm only 16 as it is, so that isnt an option haha, I'll just try get my GCSE exams done and see how I go

God I miss those days! You shouldn't be worrying about girls your age!! Concentrate on your exams, go to gym , Raise money for charity, learn a new instrument , learn a new language , try martial arts, WHEN YOUR 18 GET PISSED AND GO CLUBBING!. KNOWLEDGE AND SKILLS ARE POWER!