Originally posted by Kaspa
"You never forget someone you just learn to live without them"
We all deal with things in different ways. I personally like to keep myself busy with things like gaming, anime and TV shows. It's good to keep your mind off things. I'm assuming you own a console being on NGU and that's probably what I'd recommend. Play some CoD or something with a group of people so you can communicate about other topics.
I'm sorry for your loss friend.
What's wrong with you?
Thanks man, I appreciate it
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Originally posted by HD
sorry for our loss mate ..
all i can say is think of all the good things ye did.
i dont know him/but id say hed want you to move on. he'd prob love to see ye messing the whole time haveing a laugh

he will always be with you .maybe not beside you. but in your heart mate . chin up dont know how your going to like this post but anyway. its wat i did and still doing when my cuz died in a car
Thanks man & sorry about your cousin bro.
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Just try to remember the Good times you had with him and try to remember for the good stuff not by that he killed himself, and eventually you will move on, yeah from time to time you will remember him and you will miss him and you might even cry, but that is how life is, and that's how use humans are we forget and move one.
Sorry for your loss, and I'm speaking from experience, My Grandpa passed away this summer while i was on vacation visiting him. He died cause he fell down and hit his head and had internal bleeding in his brain, he was in a comma, and on life support, but they disconnected him.
And before some idiot comes and tells me why we disconnecting if we loved him? We disconnected him because if he were to wake up which he had the %10 chance of he would be completely paralyzed, and my grandpa hated being taken care of, he felt that he was useless and also when my grandma died the year before he told her to come for him in a year while he fixed his paper, and no he is where he wants to be, Hopefully
Thanks man, and I would have done the same for mine, but hes in a better place now. & I appreciate you taking the time to comment.
---------- Post added at 01:32 PM ---------- Previous post was at 01:31 PM ----------
Originally posted by ResistTheSun
With time it be easy to move on that may sound like a heartless thing to say but it true.
Grief is a process which takes time to get over, it worse if the person is closer to you. We each have are own way of dealing with it, at some point each person has to deal with it part of life.
My advice is to remember the good times, and what you liked about him. Also talk about it feel like talking to a friend about it. Bottle it up won't make it easier, does hurt going to.
Your friends are the best people along with family, keep around them.
Don't think I need to answer your question my post hints to the answer.
Keep your head up.
Thanks RTS & I appreciate the respect, you have been nice to me ever since I joined NGU thanks bro.
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Originally posted by Tokin
only bitches commit suicide /end there so many other ways to deal with things
Yea it was selfish but you dont have to call him a bitch! he was my best friend you faggot!
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Originally posted by futcoins4sale
think of the good times bro and youll learn to accept the fact he is gone instead of just repressing memorys
Thanks man.
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Originally posted by smartaxe
I'm so sorry for your loss hun
I've never been personally effected by loss due to suicide, but I know how it feels to lose someone unexpectedly. It may be hard to understand now, but you'll move on at your own pace. I'm here for you if you want to talk<3
ok thanks, I appreciate it
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Originally posted by 92
I'm very sorry for you're loss, especially since I was almost in the same situation.
A very close friend of mine tried to take his own life last week using his mediation, luckily he had people in his house that found him and got him to hospital, but it was a close call he is only 20.
My advice is try to think about/ remember all the good little things in life (which people always forget), like laughing with friends, being close to family, hobbies, and any small thing that makes you smile. I believe that by doing this you can also see the same in other peoples lives like that of your best friend. I know it sounds cliche but if he was your best friend he would have wanted you to be as happy as you could be even with his passing.
Thank you bro & sorry bout your friend glad hes ok
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Originally posted by Just4Hax
All I've lost so far are both my grandmothers. One through cancer, the other a car accident. Needless to say, I can't compare these to the loss of a best friend. I myself suffer from Anxiety and Depression, so I do understand emotional pain.
All I can say is that things will get better, and if you need anyone to talk to just PM me.
thanks bro, I appreciate it
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Originally posted by ClutchlikeLBJ
dont hurt yourself over him, just think about the good times and hang out with ur other friends and family who make u happy
ok thanks man
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Originally posted by Tokin
im not its simple only people do commit suicide are stupid and to afriad to get help, theres nothing wrong with just talking to someone and getting some stuff off your chest
I agree & thats what hurts me the most, he never even talked to me about it