Post: Best friend killed himself......Its hard to move on.
04-24-2013, 02:46 PM #1
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(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Well my best friend killed himself over a girl. They dated for 6 years and she cheated on him and she got pregnant, thinking it was his kid. Turns out it wasn't. He was so mad and upset he killed himself and now hes gone, and ita hard to move on, if you lost someone close, ow did you move on? I need help please :cry: R.I.P Jacob
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04-25-2013, 01:00 AM #20
Kaspa
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Originally posted by Tokin View Post
im not its simple only people do commit suicide are stupid and to afriad to get help, theres nothing wrong with just talking to someone and getting some stuff off your chest


There's a suicide thread where you can express your opinion. You must login or register to view this content.

This isn't a thread where your views on suicide matter though, the poster isn't asking for your opinion on the subject and it's nothing but a disrespectful comment.
04-25-2013, 03:42 AM #21
Just4Hax
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Originally posted by Tokin View Post
im not its simple only people do commit suicide are stupid and to afriad to get help, theres nothing wrong with just talking to someone and getting some stuff off your chest

As someone who has depression and anxiety... you're wrong about the issue.

It isn't about being afraid or intelligence, it's being in intense pain and feeling as if there is no way out. Claiming that one should be rational is very challenging when times aren't allowing you to think properly.
04-25-2013, 07:33 AM #22
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This type of thing takes time. It won't stop hurting but as the days go on remember him, that's all you can do. Hang in there.
04-25-2013, 03:04 PM #23
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Originally posted by Kaspa View Post
"You never forget someone you just learn to live without them"

We all deal with things in different ways. I personally like to keep myself busy with things like gaming, anime and TV shows. It's good to keep your mind off things. I'm assuming you own a console being on NGU and that's probably what I'd recommend. Play some CoD or something with a group of people so you can communicate about other topics.

I'm sorry for your loss friend.



What's wrong with you?


Thanks man, I appreciate it

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Originally posted by HD View Post
sorry for our loss mate ..

all i can say is think of all the good things ye did.
i dont know him/but id say hed want you to move on. he'd prob love to see ye messing the whole time haveing a laugh Smile
he will always be with you .maybe not beside you. but in your heart mate . chin up dont know how your going to like this post but anyway. its wat i did and still doing when my cuz died in a car :(


Thanks man & sorry about your cousin bro.

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Originally posted by l
Just try to remember the Good times you had with him and try to remember for the good stuff not by that he killed himself, and eventually you will move on, yeah from time to time you will remember him and you will miss him and you might even cry, but that is how life is, and that's how use humans are we forget and move one.
Sorry for your loss, and I'm speaking from experience, My Grandpa passed away this summer while i was on vacation visiting him. He died cause he fell down and hit his head and had internal bleeding in his brain, he was in a comma, and on life support, but they disconnected him.
And before some idiot comes and tells me why we disconnecting if we loved him? We disconnected him because if he were to wake up which he had the %10 chance of he would be completely paralyzed, and my grandpa hated being taken care of, he felt that he was useless and also when my grandma died the year before he told her to come for him in a year while he fixed his paper, and no he is where he wants to be, Hopefully



Thanks man, and I would have done the same for mine, but hes in a better place now. & I appreciate you taking the time to comment.

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Originally posted by ResistTheSun View Post
With time it be easy to move on that may sound like a heartless thing to say but it true.
Grief is a process which takes time to get over, it worse if the person is closer to you. We each have are own way of dealing with it, at some point each person has to deal with it part of life.
My advice is to remember the good times, and what you liked about him. Also talk about it feel like talking to a friend about it. Bottle it up won't make it easier, does hurt going to.
Your friends are the best people along with family, keep around them.

Don't think I need to answer your question my post hints to the answer.
Keep your head up.


Thanks RTS & I appreciate the respect, you have been nice to me ever since I joined NGU thanks bro.

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Originally posted by Tokin View Post
only bitches commit suicide /end there so many other ways to deal with things


Yea it was selfish but you dont have to call him a bitch! he was my best friend you faggot!

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Originally posted by futcoins4sale View Post
think of the good times bro and youll learn to accept the fact he is gone instead of just repressing memorys


Thanks man.

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Originally posted by smartaxe View Post
I'm so sorry for your loss hun:(

I've never been personally effected by loss due to suicide, but I know how it feels to lose someone unexpectedly. It may be hard to understand now, but you'll move on at your own pace. I'm here for you if you want to talk<3


ok thanks, I appreciate it

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Originally posted by 92 View Post
I'm very sorry for you're loss, especially since I was almost in the same situation.

A very close friend of mine tried to take his own life last week using his mediation, luckily he had people in his house that found him and got him to hospital, but it was a close call he is only 20.

My advice is try to think about/ remember all the good little things in life (which people always forget), like laughing with friends, being close to family, hobbies, and any small thing that makes you smile. I believe that by doing this you can also see the same in other peoples lives like that of your best friend. I know it sounds cliche but if he was your best friend he would have wanted you to be as happy as you could be even with his passing.


Thank you bro & sorry bout your friend glad hes ok

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Originally posted by Just4Hax View Post
All I've lost so far are both my grandmothers. One through cancer, the other a car accident. Needless to say, I can't compare these to the loss of a best friend. I myself suffer from Anxiety and Depression, so I do understand emotional pain.

All I can say is that things will get better, and if you need anyone to talk to just PM me.


thanks bro, I appreciate it

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Originally posted by ClutchlikeLBJ View Post
dont hurt yourself over him, just think about the good times and hang out with ur other friends and family who make u happy


ok thanks man

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Originally posted by Tokin View Post
im not its simple only people do commit suicide are stupid and to afriad to get help, theres nothing wrong with just talking to someone and getting some stuff off your chest


I agree & thats what hurts me the most, he never even talked to me about it
04-25-2013, 03:04 PM #24
xKtF
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Originally posted by Bichotes
Well my best friend killed himself over a girl. They dated for 6 years and she cheated on him and she got pregnant, thinking it was his kid. Turns out it wasn't. He was so mad and upset he killed himself and now hes gone, and ita hard to move on, if you lost someone close, ow did you move on? I need help please :cry: R.I.P Jacob


I try to stay focus on other stuff.And for these people saying just forget about him and move on that is fucking retarded.Don't forget him and just move on, try to not think of him much by staying busy doing something.When I was depressed with my friends death I would try my best to stay busy by doing other things.
These are some songs you may be interested in or maybe not, but worth a try.


and this



If you want to talk further just pm me I am here for you.Happy
04-25-2013, 03:05 PM #25
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Originally posted by LADY View Post
This type of thing takes time. It won't stop hurting but as the days go on remember him, that's all you can do. Hang in there.

Thanks lady

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Originally posted by INFINITYCL View Post
I try to stay focus on other stuff.And for these people saying just forget about him and move on that is fucking retarded.Don't forget him and just move on, try to not think of him much by staying busy doing something.When I was depressed with my friends death I would try my best to stay busy by doing other things.
These are some songs you may be interested in or maybe not, but worth a try.


and this



If you want to talk further just pm me I am here for you.Happy


Thanks so much bro, really appreciate it :happycry:
04-25-2013, 03:27 PM #26
JustCrazy
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Originally posted by Bichotes
Well my best friend killed himself over a girl. They dated for 6 years and she cheated on him and she got pregnant, thinking it was his kid. Turns out it wasn't. He was so mad and upset he killed himself and now hes gone, and ita hard to move on, if you lost someone close, ow did you move on? I need help please :cry: R.I.P Jacob


Hey bro. i saw you talkin about this in the shout box. Sorry for your loss. Its hard when someone is riped out of your life in an instant.

Im a country guy but this song will bring tears for sure but it may help.Let me know what you think and PM if you need to talk BRO and sorry agin for your loss.
04-25-2013, 07:39 PM #27
Toke
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Originally posted by Kaspa View Post
There's a suicide thread where you can express your opinion. You must login or register to view this content.

This isn't a thread where your views on suicide matter though, the poster isn't asking for your opinion on the subject and it's nothing but a disrespectful comment.


your saying this isnt a post about my views which is a opinion, then you say he wants my opinion which one is it
04-25-2013, 07:51 PM #28
Kaspa
MUDAMUDAMUDA!!!
Originally posted by Tokin View Post
your saying this isnt a post about my views which is a opinion, then you say he wants my opinion which one is it


Where did I say that? I linked you to a thread where your views would matter but that's all. I never said he wanted your opinion.

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