Post: Do you think this girl likes me?
10-13-2009, 10:16 PM #1
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Alright guys, I really like this girl.
We barely see each other, we see each other once in 2 weeks. We go to different highschools. She's a sophmore in highschool and I'm a freshman. Well we've been texting at 10:30 in the night, and we kinda flirt with each other. :p
She asked me if I wanted to go to the movies and see Paranormal Activity, but I said that I didn't want to see Paranormal Activity, but I do want to go to the movies with her. She seemed a bit disappointed and she said that if I got scared I could cuddle with her lol.

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What should I do? Should I try to kiss her while watching the movie? When should I ask her out? Now or when we've gone on a few 'dates'? What's the next step?

Your opinion means a lot to me and I hope to see a lot of responses :p. Thanks.
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10-20-2009, 01:58 AM #128
knsu <3
Porn is for winners?
Originally posted by tA.DiNeRo View Post
ok for real. im a pro at this



if she says yes to make more plans, that means she had a good night and is into you. when she is about to leave give each other a Hug. then after that come up with a remark like "ohhh, thats all your going to give your boyfriend after our first date." then she will be like OMG how cute and then you go for the kiss.



perfectly put right there dinero that does work XD
10-20-2009, 02:59 AM #129
+Sfx Krush
Childish Gambino <3
how far is the movies from were u live? u able to walk?
10-20-2009, 03:12 AM #130
applerockin2
Error… Cat invasion!
if there is always people hovering around ask them to go do something that always used to happen to me and eventually it just bugged me so much that i asked them if they could go hang out somewhere else when im with her and when shes not with me me thats when they know to hang out with me
10-20-2009, 03:17 AM #131
Originally posted by tA.DiNeRo View Post
ok for real. im a pro at this

first off your and idiot for turning her down to a movie, a scary movie even. In a scary movie people get the urge to just grab for something and girls especially look for that masculine someone where they feel can protect them.

so call her/ text her back and tell her you want to see the movie and even if your scared she might think its cute and give you some sentimental loving.

dont ask her out just yet.... when the movie are over ask her what she wants to do. Girls like to feel like they have that kinda power but what ever they say, try and put your word into it, just so you dont become a bitch.

reach for her hand while you guys are walking and pretend that you are cold or something. lol it works

walk her home and when she is about to go ask her when she wants to do this again some time or ask when the next time you guys could hang out.

if she says yes to make more plans, that means she had a good night and is into you. when she is about to leave give each other a Hug. then after that come up with a remark like "ohhh, thats all your going to give your boyfriend after our first date." then she will be like OMG how cute and then you go for the kiss.

Right there you get some action and basically asking her out at the same time. haha
it works all the time bro, im telling you

this girls seems into you but try not to talk about age or grade or anything that will bring up the fact that you are younger than her.

im a junior in Highschool and i went out with a senior so its ok. You can trust me when it comes to girls cause i elp out my friends all the time when it comes to this stuff.

keep your head up and dont be too nervous because you my friend, have just got a girlfriend Smile


I'm a girl so I have a little different insight than some guys here.

From the quote above:

His first comment is correct. She made the first move and you rejected her. If you really like this girl, as you say, then go and see whatever movie she wants to see.

Also, even the most reserved girl will want to hold on to a guy during a scary movie. I can't watch a scary movie and not hang on to a guy or move closer to him. (I get scared)

Don't push yourself on her or force a kiss. If she is having a good time, she will flirt with you and move close to you whenever she can. Pay attention to her body language and go with it.

Don't be afraid to ask her questions. A girl will know you are interested and think you are caring if you ask her questions about herself and her life.

As the date is winding down ask her if she had a good time. If she says yes, (you'll know if she means it), tell her you had a really good time too and you would like to see her again.

At the end of the date at the very least, give her a hug. There aren't many girls I know of who don't like a good hug.

If by some chance a kiss does work out. PLEASE DON'T STICK YOUR TONGUE DOWN HER THROAT or move your tongue quickly around in her mouth like a madman. Be slow, gentle, and passionate. Also, don't smash your teeth against hers. A kiss is very important.

Of course, I could say more, but I think I covered what you asked. If you have more questions, feel free to let me know. I'll be honest.

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10-20-2009, 03:20 AM #132
dansbmx
BAY AREA*925*STUNTIN
Bro mayB going a little far ahead but getting you d!ck sucked is the shit. man Stayin over at a girls house wit her in her bed doin all kinds off stuff naked you cant beat it its the best in the world. A couple things tho make sure she looks good and has a great body and most importantly IS CLEAN you defo dont want some stank ass b!tch but try dont fear rejection dont play it too slow it justy depends on the mood and your skills on how fast you can get in that shit but i turned out a few virgin's and they hella fine just be cool and real.
10-20-2009, 04:55 AM #133
xXviciousbumXx
At least I can fight
Seriously the next time you see her in person you need to have a heart to heart conversation with her. or mouth to mouth if you prefer =D If your around other people and are too scared to do it then use the classic line that has always worked in my opinion.

"Do you want to go for a walk?"

She will say yes and then you go for a walk and find a nice secluded place. you have several options here. you can watch for body signs of her getting turned on and you can go in for a kiss, you just stop randomly and be like i really like you and i want you to be my gf, or you can punch her in the face slip her a roofie then hijack a car and drive to las vegas, **** her, get married and then get her back home and tell her she just passed out and you stayed with her the hole time when she was unconscious!

If you want to be less extreme i just suggest walking with her hand in hand then turning to her, look into her eyes and kiss her. after that you tell her you really want her to be your gf and it was important to you that you said this in person because she is really important to you.

Lastly if your questioning whether or not you can do something with people around and shnit than you got to MAKE time for her. You gotta put the b!tch first.
10-20-2009, 05:31 AM #134
Originally posted by ScooterDAshooter View Post
Well I asked her if she was serious, and she was like
Her:yeah, you choose who you wanna date me or that other girl (theres another girl who likes me)
Me:I say you.
Her: Ask me out for real
Me: Will you go out with me
Her: Hmm I'll think about it

WTF she just turned the tables? :/

Do it over the phone not text. Doing it in person is best.

It seems like both yourself and the girl are very new to relationships, because you keep messing up, and she does nothing to help you out or lead you on.
10-20-2009, 12:47 PM #135
u|K Frank
Climbing up the ladder
Originally posted by ScooterDAshooter View Post
Well I asked her if she was serious, and she was like
Her:yeah, you choose who you wanna date me or that other girl (theres another girl who likes me)
Me:I say you.
Her: Ask me out for real
Me: Will you go out with me
Her: Hmm I'll think about it

WTF she just turned the tables? :/


shes playing hard to get, now just back off and wait for her to make the next move, dont eveb talk on msn to her let her say hi to you.
10-20-2009, 08:35 PM #136
knsu <3
Porn is for winners?
Originally posted by One View Post
Do it over the phone not text. Doing it in person is best.

It seems like both yourself and the girl are very new to relationships, because you keep messing up, and she does nothing to help you out or lead you on.


coltz actually got on XD ive never seen him in a recent post



Originally posted by derWoman View Post
I'm a girl so I have a little different insight than some guys here.

From the quote above:

His first comment is correct. She made the first move and you rejected her. If you really like this girl, as you say, then go and see whatever movie she wants to see.

Also, even the most reserved girl will want to hold on to a guy during a scary movie. I can't watch a scary movie and not hang on to a guy or move closer to him. (I get scared)

Don't push yourself on her or force a kiss. If she is having a good time, she will flirt with you and move close to you whenever she can. Pay attention to her body language and go with it.

Don't be afraid to ask her questions. A girl will know you are interested and think you are caring if you ask her questions about herself and her life.

As the date is winding down ask her if she had a good time. If she says yes, (you'll know if she means it), tell her you had a really good time too and you would like to see her again.

At the end of the date at the very least, give her a hug. There aren't many girls I know of who don't like a good hug.

If by some chance a kiss does work out. PLEASE DON'T STICK YOUR TONGUE DOWN HER THROAT or move your tongue quickly around in her mouth like a madman. Be slow, gentle, and passionate. Also, don't smash your teeth against hers. A kiss is very important.

Of course, I could say more, but I think I covered what you asked. If you have more questions, feel free to let me know. I'll be honest.


well thats great advice from a girl (possibly the best person you can get advice form on this site)

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