Post: Do you think this girl likes me?
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10-13-2009, 10:16 PM
#1
ScooterDAshooter
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Alright guys, I really like this girl.
We barely see each other, we see each other once in 2 weeks. We go to different highschools. She's a sophmore in highschool and I'm a freshman. Well we've been texting at 10:30 in the night, and we kinda flirt with each other. :p
She asked me if I wanted to go to the movies and see Paranormal Activity, but I said that I didn't want to see Paranormal Activity, but I do want to go to the movies with her. She seemed a bit disappointed and she said that if I got scared I could cuddle with her lol.
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What should I do? Should I try to kiss her while watching the movie? When should I ask her out? Now or when we've gone on a few 'dates'? What's the next step?
Your opinion means a lot to me and I hope to see a lot of responses :p. Thanks.
10-16-2009, 07:25 AM
#58
ShAdoW_RiDa
Former Blue Mod
Maybe in the upcoming years?
10-16-2009, 08:21 AM
#60
u|K Frank
Climbing up the ladder
im trying to get a girl at the moment, i like her alot, first im going to find out if she likes me by asking my friends to talk to her, then if its a yes then thats when ill make my move, number first then a date to the movies and then dinner but the only thin thats sucks is i have to pay (man code - you have to pay, open doors etc) lol.
10-16-2009, 09:00 AM
#62
xXviciousbumXx
At least I can fight
ok first off you can not puss out on anything you do and make things awkward. Dont over indulge your self in the movie and forget shes there. Take things slow and go with the flow. Make sure you PAY FOR HER TICKET! it might mean losing an extra 10 dollars but its the right thing to do. Make sure you smell nice and look presentable because i dont know what you normally do lol.
Somethings you might want to realize about girls is that they will never make the first move ever! another huge thing that you should not do is ask her to do anything as in the sense of DO NOT ASK HER IF YOU CAN KISS HER! girls want the guy to take control even though in the long run the girl will always take control.
If you got balls the penis in the pop corn would be quite funny but definately not first date material lol. Start off before the movie talking about something you both like and then just go with the flow till the movie starts. When the previews start then put your arm around her. It will be very comforting to her especially during a scary movie. If you manage to hold hands then by all means do so. Girls want to feel protected by their man especially on the first date because girls basically size the guy up and see what their getting themselves into to or rather whats getting into them =D
During the movie just relax and do not look like your actually scared of the movie and make sure if she looks scared to comfort her and get closer to her. If possible lift up the armrest in the middle of you two if you really wanted to cuddle.
Making out in the theater is not necessary. I find it awkward and uncomfortable but you can give it a try later on in future dates. When the movie is towards the end, this would be the best time to make your move if you choose too.
There are little signs that girls give away that you have to notice if you want to be sure she wants you or you want something form her and youll know she wants it. I find that when a girl wants to kiss you she will look at your lips often but not too often and occasionally she would bite her lip. Also if she seems to like walking close to you it means she feels safe with you and that is very good potential for you.
I suggest after the movie walking together to an ice cream parlor (if in walking distance) or even a pizza place for italian ices. If your too young to drive this is a good spot to wait for your parents to pick you up. or if your walking then its a nice thing to eat on the walk home.
When you get back to her house to drop her off, make sure you walk her to the door. this is where the first kiss usually happens on a date. I suggest walking with her hand in your hand and when you get to the door you say something like "I had a really fun night tonight and i hope we can do it again?" Make sure you smile and look into her eyes. If she says something like "I had a really great time to" this would be the time to go in for a kiss. preferably a shorter one (about 5-10 seconds no tongue) like i guess an approval kiss then lean back out.
I would suggest leaving like that. a great thing to know is ALWAYS LEAVE THE GIRL WANTING MORE! by doing this they will think of you more and WILL be wanting more in the future. plus its better to get your first make out with this girl in a more private place that will mean more to you if you ended up dating for a while.
All in all just be yourself and nothing can go wrong. She likes you for you so dont try and be who you think she would like. Lastly make sure you trust your guy instincts. If you feel like the time is right to do something like put your hand in her hand or on her leg or to make a move to kiss her, chances are it is the right time.
I hope this helped and have fun enjoy the experiences of a woman and always remember DONT BE A FOOL, WRAP YOUR TOOL!
p.s. on the second date if you choose to pursue bring her a rose or something like that girls dig shit like that.
Somethings you might want to realize about girls is that they will never make the first move ever! another huge thing that you should not do is ask her to do anything as in the sense of DO NOT ASK HER IF YOU CAN KISS HER! girls want the guy to take control even though in the long run the girl will always take control.
If you got balls the penis in the pop corn would be quite funny but definately not first date material lol. Start off before the movie talking about something you both like and then just go with the flow till the movie starts. When the previews start then put your arm around her. It will be very comforting to her especially during a scary movie. If you manage to hold hands then by all means do so. Girls want to feel protected by their man especially on the first date because girls basically size the guy up and see what their getting themselves into to or rather whats getting into them =D
During the movie just relax and do not look like your actually scared of the movie and make sure if she looks scared to comfort her and get closer to her. If possible lift up the armrest in the middle of you two if you really wanted to cuddle.
Making out in the theater is not necessary. I find it awkward and uncomfortable but you can give it a try later on in future dates. When the movie is towards the end, this would be the best time to make your move if you choose too.
There are little signs that girls give away that you have to notice if you want to be sure she wants you or you want something form her and youll know she wants it. I find that when a girl wants to kiss you she will look at your lips often but not too often and occasionally she would bite her lip. Also if she seems to like walking close to you it means she feels safe with you and that is very good potential for you.
I suggest after the movie walking together to an ice cream parlor (if in walking distance) or even a pizza place for italian ices. If your too young to drive this is a good spot to wait for your parents to pick you up. or if your walking then its a nice thing to eat on the walk home.
When you get back to her house to drop her off, make sure you walk her to the door. this is where the first kiss usually happens on a date. I suggest walking with her hand in your hand and when you get to the door you say something like "I had a really fun night tonight and i hope we can do it again?" Make sure you smile and look into her eyes. If she says something like "I had a really great time to" this would be the time to go in for a kiss. preferably a shorter one (about 5-10 seconds no tongue) like i guess an approval kiss then lean back out.
I would suggest leaving like that. a great thing to know is ALWAYS LEAVE THE GIRL WANTING MORE! by doing this they will think of you more and WILL be wanting more in the future. plus its better to get your first make out with this girl in a more private place that will mean more to you if you ended up dating for a while.
All in all just be yourself and nothing can go wrong. She likes you for you so dont try and be who you think she would like. Lastly make sure you trust your guy instincts. If you feel like the time is right to do something like put your hand in her hand or on her leg or to make a move to kiss her, chances are it is the right time.
I hope this helped and have fun enjoy the experiences of a woman and always remember DONT BE A FOOL, WRAP YOUR TOOL!
p.s. on the second date if you choose to pursue bring her a rose or something like that girls dig shit like that.
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