Post: I Think I Love My Best 'Girl'Friend
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10-20-2009, 01:22 AM
#1
NanuGama
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She Used To Like Me Last Year While She Was Going Out With Some Dou**e. But Now I'm Like A Little Brother Type of Guy But I think I'm Like That Will All Girls For Some Apparent Reason.
I Think About Her A Lot.
I Love To Be With Her.
Sometimes I Would Literally Fell The Love/Feelings I Have For Her.
And, It Would Hurt When I Try To Deny It Because She Most Likely Won't Go Out With Me and That I Would Tell Myself I Gotta Move On. She Said She Was Happy Being Single Because She Goes Out With The Wrong Guys.
10-20-2009, 06:22 AM
#11
Won-derWoman
Brute
If she is your best friend, she will hear what you have to say and it shouldn't change your friendship. I know it is hard, but tell her how you feel and see what she says. If she only wants to be friends, then you have to decide if that is enough for you.
Once you date a best friend of the opposite sex, it is hard to go back to being friends when the relationship is over. Sometimes, being best friends is good!
Once you date a best friend of the opposite sex, it is hard to go back to being friends when the relationship is over. Sometimes, being best friends is good!
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10-20-2009, 10:02 AM
#12
Vegas
Viva Las?
Originally posted by elfmotat
That's why you gotta avoid the friend zone at all costs. Because once you're put into the friend category, you're going to have a hard time getting her to think of you as anything else.
My advice is come right out and say it. Tell her how you feel first (otherwise you come off as a coward), and then ask her how she feels about you. Easier said than done, I know, but but you're only option at this point is to be frank.
My advice is come right out and say it. Tell her how you feel first (otherwise you come off as a coward), and then ask her how she feels about you. Easier said than done, I know, but but you're only option at this point is to be frank.
Follow his advice. Ruck up the courage and do it.
10-20-2009, 06:37 PM
#16
xinfectedsoulx
Daddy's home.
Originally posted by another user
I think if she is your best friend, maybe keep it like that. If you ask here you might be stuck in the friend zone (Urban Dictionary: friend zone) and then no doubt your friendship won't be as strong as it is now. If you like her as a good close friend, keep it like that. If you want more, she might so no and you might not be as good as a friend as you are now. The thing about girls is that work in mysterious ways in which only a girl will ever understand. In my opinion, many of the people telling you to ask her out are only 14/15. I have no idea what age you are but I'm also guessing around 14-16 in which case you are not 'ready' to settle down cos you are still too young. Being friends with an ex doesn't work very well. Just think about your friendship, and how long you have been good friends. Basically, you'd be better off going out with someone you have only just met (couple of months) and keep you best friend a best friend. But that's just my opinion.
I wrote that before I saw this thread on another persons thread. Asking out a good friend is an awkward thing to do. Like Outsider said, once you ask out a good friend, no matter how close friends or how long you have known each other, it doesn't matter. All that gets thrown out the window what you ask them out. Then all of a sudden you will find you are not seeing each other any more. Read what I quoted, that's the only thing I can say.
10-20-2009, 06:57 PM
#17
AgentJon
Former Staff
Originally posted by NanuGama
I Think I Love My Best Friend Who Is A Girl.
She Used To Like Me Last Year While She Was Going Out With Some Dou**e. But Now I'm Like A Little Brother Type of Guy But I think I'm Like That Will All Girls For Some Apparent Reason.
I Think About Her A Lot.
I Love To Be With Her.
Sometimes I Would Literally Fell The Love/Feelings I Have For Her.
And, It Would Hurt When I Try To Deny It Because She Most Likely Won't Go Out With Me and That I Would Tell Myself I Gotta Move On. She Said She Was Happy Being Single Because She Goes Out With The Wrong Guys.
She Used To Like Me Last Year While She Was Going Out With Some Dou**e. But Now I'm Like A Little Brother Type of Guy But I think I'm Like That Will All Girls For Some Apparent Reason.
I Think About Her A Lot.
I Love To Be With Her.
Sometimes I Would Literally Fell The Love/Feelings I Have For Her.
And, It Would Hurt When I Try To Deny It Because She Most Likely Won't Go Out With Me and That I Would Tell Myself I Gotta Move On. She Said She Was Happy Being Single Because She Goes Out With The Wrong Guys.
Why do you capitalize every word?
10-20-2009, 07:18 PM
#18
elfmotat
Rᵤᵥ - ½gᵤᵥR ∝ Tᵤᵥ
Originally posted by xinfectedsoulx
I wrote that before I saw this thread on another persons thread. Asking out a good friend is an awkward thing to do. Like Outsider said, once you ask out a good friend, no matter how close friends or how long you have known each other, it doesn't matter. All that gets thrown out the window what you ask them out. Then all of a sudden you will find you are not seeing each other any more. Read what I quoted, that's the only thing I can say.
Absolutely true, but it seems to me like he's fed up with just being friends. In the end you gotta weigh your options. Is going out with her worth the risk of your friendship? You gotta decide.
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