Post: What should i do? :S
07-31-2013, 08:08 AM #1
xRaZor912
Bounty hunter
(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Okay there's this girl that I've met a few months ago. We exchanged numbers and started talking. Over the past few months we've grown close to each other. She tells me that I'm her best friend. So close that she trusts me with everything and has told me a lot about her life. She would talk to me about her problems and I would help her solve them. We would normally have text conversations a few days apart. Over the past few weeks, she's been messaging me literally everyday! Every morning she would say "Good Morning" to me. That's fine but then throughout the day we would be texting each other. It has been distracting me from my studies since I go to school. The thing is that I end the convo by saying I'm busy and stuff but she always brings up something to start another convo. Like I would end the convo then a few hours later she would say "Oh I saw you today" or something. Also every time she texts me I try to ignore but I regret it and text her back. This is kinda getting annoying but I'm afraid if I tell her that the texts are annoying she might get angry at me and never text me again! I kinda have some feelings for her and want to take the relationship further but she's always telling me how she doesn't want to be in a relationship. Two weeks ago she was like to me 'I got a boyfriend" I said congrats and stuff but she would keep texting me. I told her that she should ease on the texting in case her boyfriend says something but she was like "no, it's okay his fine with it". A week ago she texted me in the morning but I didn't reply and then she sent me another text saying that she broke up with him. But then, that guy kept on harassing her. I told him off. She told me it was the wrong thing to to get into a relationship and she shouldn't of got into one in the first place. But then when I consoled her she told me "I would be a good boyfriend", does this mean she's interested in me? What should I do? Keep on texting? Ask her out? :confused:
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xVandal
07-31-2013, 08:27 AM #2
xVandal
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I say just be her boyfriend and enjoy her but be cautious. Also, if she was texting you "Good morning" everyday I am pretty sure she was into you and was a hint she wanted something more with you. I should know because I've experienced something similar.
07-31-2013, 08:44 AM #3
xRaZor912
Bounty hunter
Originally posted by xVandal View Post
I say just be her boyfriend and enjoy her but be cautious. Also, if she was texting you "Good morning" everyday I am pretty sure she was into you and was a hint she wanted something more with you. I should know because I've experienced something similar.

Thanks bro! Smile Yeah I would like to but the problem is that I've never had a girlfriend and I don't know how to ask her out :L and I appreciate your reply! Smile
07-31-2013, 09:27 AM #4
chaosx6
~*`Chaos Is Power`*~
Originally posted by xRaZor912 View Post
Thanks bro! Smile Yeah I would like to but the problem is that I've never had a girlfriend and I don't know how to ask her out :L and I appreciate your reply! Smile


With something like this you should ask her out straight up because it does seem like she is into you. If you don't tell her how you feel you maybe heading into the friends zone and that's probably something you don't want. So just be upfront with her and tell her how you feel.

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Cory
07-31-2013, 10:31 AM #5
ask her out. then when you're done listening to her bitching there'll be a little reward for ya
07-31-2013, 01:58 PM #6
iZigg
Banned
I have a feeling that you're already in the "friend zone"... Or she thinks you're gay...
07-31-2013, 07:07 PM #7
Throne
Banned
Okay, you're not sure? What you want to do is ask her to the cinema? Just say, have you seen that... I dunno.. Despicable me 2 or whatever.. if she says no, say it looks good, we should go see it..

Also a line I like to pull is "Have you got a number for your parents?" "yeah why" "So I can thank them for bringing someone unbelievably gorgeous into this world".. I use it both as a conversation opener, and on normal girls I've talked to before.

I once used that on my bus driver. She was an absolute worldie. She was beautiful, started texting her but didn't get anywhere.

Good luck bro!
07-31-2013, 07:26 PM #8
Originally posted by xRaZor912 View Post
Okay there's this girl that I've met a few months ago. We exchanged numbers and started talking. Over the past few months we've grown close to each other. She tells me that I'm her best friend. So close that she trusts me with everything and has told me a lot about her life. She would talk to me about her problems and I would help her solve them. We would normally have text conversations a few days apart. Over the past few weeks, she's been messaging me literally everyday! Every morning she would say "Good Morning" to me. That's fine but then throughout the day we would be texting each other. It has been distracting me from my studies since I go to school. The thing is that I end the convo by saying I'm busy and stuff but she always brings up something to start another convo. Like I would end the convo then a few hours later she would say "Oh I saw you today" or something. Also every time she texts me I try to ignore but I regret it and text her back. This is kinda getting annoying but I'm afraid if I tell her that the texts are annoying she might get angry at me and never text me again! I kinda have some feelings for her and want to take the relationship further but she's always telling me how she doesn't want to be in a relationship. Two weeks ago she was like to me 'I got a boyfriend" I said congrats and stuff but she would keep texting me. I told her that she should ease on the texting in case her boyfriend says something but she was like "no, it's okay his fine with it". A week ago she texted me in the morning but I didn't reply and then she sent me another text saying that she broke up with him. But then, that guy kept on harassing her. I told him off. She told me it was the wrong thing to to get into a relationship and she shouldn't of got into one in the first place. But then when I consoled her she told me "I would be a good boyfriend", does this mean she's interested in me? What should I do? Keep on texting? Ask her out? :confused:


Just tell her the truth. If she's a good person she'll except it. Although, if she's like my ex then she'll do what she does best, which is be a bitch and hold a grudge to the day you die. If that happens just accept it and move on, she wasn't the right one anyway.
08-01-2013, 07:17 PM #9
xVandal
Do a barrel roll!
Originally posted by xRaZor912 View Post
Thanks bro! Smile Yeah I would like to but the problem is that I've never had a girlfriend and I don't know how to ask her out :L and I appreciate your reply! Smile


No problem, with my first girlfriend I just asked her straight up but I would do it in person not by text. You can do it by text but in my opinion in person is better.

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