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I haven't really posted a new thread on here in a while but I am kinda in need for some serious advice. So basically, me and this girl have began talking since the middle of this year due to prom. I am fully aware that she likes me but Im having a real hard time making a move. Most of my boys bust my balls about it right in front of us and they were busting my balls at our table at prom to try and get me to kiss her and she was fed up with it and just grabbed me and kissed right there. I was stunned that it had happened since this was my first real kiss. Now 2 month later (currently) we are still talking and hanging out and the most recent time we hanged out we watched a movie and all I did was put my arm around her and sorta cuddled. That seems the furthest I can go without getting nervous af to make a move. I honestly dont know when the time is right/if she is ok with it. Just asking for some tips. Thanks

It all depends on the kind of girl she is. Does she want these "fairy" cute moments or is she another normal girl who likes a shy guy or a girl who likes someone to straight up and not waste the time?

Either ways, just ask her out on a date. Don't mention any social media. Take her out on dinner , kiss her on cheeks or lips but not those heavy kiss till she asks for it. Of course you should be comfortable too. It's only about two people being together. Don't let any of your friends peer pressure and I promise you'll be a real man

She isnt the fairy type at all and we are both pretty awkward honestly. Few weeks ago I took her to lunch and it was a pretty good date, it just ended fast because I ended up inviting some people over my crib without having any alone time (realized it was a mistake afterwards). Thanks for the advice man

Simple af,.

Step 1.) Meet her parents. This will make you less nervous about doing stuff

Step 2.) Go to the movies,beach, ect. Maybe even bring some friends if you want for the first time.

Step 3.) time to make a move. Kiss her or make out

Step 4.) Buy her something *cough* Big teddy bear and Chinese food

Step 5.) Get the pussy.


Ta-da Haha goodluck with it all man. Just loosen up. She is probably as nervous as you

Just relax you done most of the hard work

Try to do some light stuff firstly,
Like Kingnoor said.
Then slowly build it up until you get a date where you can actually kiss her on the lips.
Then meet her parents, (like Sacrificing said) this will take a load off your shoulders. (Try and give a good impression aswell) (Also don't be nervous once your having a dinner or something with her parents, always try to act confident and be a little bit of a comedian.)
Then after this (if you're of legal age, of course) bring condoms to your date, just in case, and try to make some moves to go to the next stage in your relationship.
If she doesn't stop then you don't stop and you carry on and then you get sex. (Try and do it somewhere comfortable)
After this, you shouldn't be nervous around her.
If you have trouble during these ' phases ' then try and steel yourself in the inside and do it without thinking (nothing stupid though.)

Hope this helps

Girls love a guy who is confident and interesting.

That being said, although you feel nervous make sure you come across as confident (don't go overboard and seem cocky) and take her out places that isn't a cinema date/dinner. Ask her to come out to a country park, some event, to the lake etc. If she's still making the effort with you after two months it is more than likely she is still into you, it's just down to you to make the move if she too is quite awkward.

Don't try to buy her with nice things, girls notice this and is a big red flag.

Also, here's a pro-tip: Do some research on body language and human behaviour (specifically female behaviour towards men.)

Anything else just quote me, best of luck man!

Thanks for the nice reply! Ill be sure to let you know if I have any questions. Thanks bro.

I've always just been myself and go along with whatever floats her boat.

I just slip girls roofies and have my way to their heart