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https://www.facebook.com/MouseLopez// One basic truth can be used as a foundation for a mountain of lies, and if we dig down deep enough in the mountain of lies, and bring out that truth, to set it on top of the mountain of lies; the entire mountain of lies will crumble under the weight of that one truth. And there is nothing more devastating to a structure of lies than the revelation of the truth upon which the structure of lies was built, because the shock waves of the revelation of the truth reverberate, and continue to reverberate throughout the Earth for generations to follow, awakening even those people who had no desire to be awakened to the truth. The acquisition of knowledge doesnt mean youre growing. Growing happens when what you know changes how you live. You cant have good ideas unless youre willing to generate a lot of bad ones. A good idea without action is worth nothing. Change is often resisted when it is needed the most. 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If youre waiting for the perfect conditions, ideas or plans to get started, youll never achieve anything. Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing. Putting something off makes it instantly harder and scarier. You cannot change what you refuse to confront. If you keep doing what youre doing, youll keep getting what youre getting. The harder you work, the luckier you will become. Kindness and hard work together will always carry you farther than intelligence. Lots of successful people have failed as many times as they have succeeded. Failures are simply lessons that help you prepare for next time. Being successful is a journey, not a destination. To be successful does not mean you have to dominate others; it means you have to dominate your own potential. Your success isnt just about you. Its about how you positively impact the lives around you. Being busy and being productive are two different things. Being happy and being successful are two different things. You have every right to be happy, but its up to YOU and only YOU to exercise that right. Everyone you meet is better than you at something. We all have different strengths. What worked for someone else might not work for you. When youre worried about what others think of you, youre really just worried about what you think of yourself. The bad news: nothing is permanent. The good news: nothing is permanent. You dont have to settle. Its simply a choice you make every day. If you dont like your life, then its time to start making changes and better choices. Theres no such thing as risk free. Everything you do or dont do has an inherent risk. No matter how smart you are, you will make mistakes. Problems, when they arise, are rarely as painful and hurtful as the process of fearing them. Confusion isnt a bad thing. It means youre growing and thinking. Just because you can doesnt mean you should. In the beginning, you need to say yes to a lot of things to discover and establish your goals. Later on, you need to say no to a lot of things and concentrate on your goals. Even if it doesnt cost any money, its not free if it takes up your time. No matter how you make a living or who you think you work for, you only work for one person, yourself. Money makes life easier only when its yours free and clear. The stress of financial debt can change a person. The fewer possessions you own, the more you will use and enjoy them. Life is not easy, especially when you plan on achieving something worthwhile. There is good reason why you should wake each morning and mindfully consider what and who you will give your day to: Because unlike other things in life - love, money, respect, good health, hope, opportunities, and many more - time is the one thing you can never get back once its gone. Cutting your losses is often better than the alternative. We sometimes do things that are permanently foolish just because we are temporarily upset. Screaming at people always makes things worse. Everyone likes a person who gets straight to the point. First impressions are oftentimes inaccurate judgments of a persons true character. When youre up, your friends know who you are. When youre down, you know who your friends are. If someone wants you in their life, theyll make room for you. You shouldnt have to fight for a spot. When someone truly loves you, they dont ever have to say a word. You will be able to tell simply by the way they treat you over the long-term. We rarely lose friends, we usually just figure out who our real ones are. Just because one person doesnt seem to care for you, doesnt mean you should forget about everyone else who does. Family isnt always blood. Theyre the people in your life who want you in theirs the ones who would do anything to see you smile and who love you no matter what. Good looks attracts the eyes. Personality attracts the heart. In human relationships, distance is not measured in miles but in affection. Two people can be right next to each other, yet miles apart. Being nice to someone you dislike doesnt mean youre fake. It means youre mature enough to control your emotions. If you arent happy being single, you wont be happy in a relationship. You have to create your own life first before you can share it with someone else. Whenever you hate someone or something, you are giving that person or thing a piece of your heart. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. Its better to be alone than to be in bad company. Saying no to right people gives you the time and resources required to say yes to right opportunities. When you stop chasing the wrong things you give the right things a chance to catch you. You can raise the bar or you can wait for others to raise it. Either way, its getting raised. In life you get what you put in. If you want love, give love. If you want friends, be friendly. If you want money, provide value. It really is this simple. Cynicism might seem warranted at times, but its never useful. Everyone dies, some sooner than later, and often unexpectedly. To know this means you are alive, with a chance to make the time you have left count. You are in competition with one person and one person only yourself. You are competing to be the best you can be. Trying to be somebody youre not is a sure path to self-hate, and a waste of the person you are. Its better to be disliked for who you are than to be liked for who you are not. Giving up doesnt always mean youre weak, sometimes it means you are strong enough and smart enough to let go. Sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things clearly. You cant make the same exact mistake twice. The second time you make it, its no longer a mistake, its a choice. Not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck. You never have to deal with more than one moment at a time. Many of the greatest lessons we learn in life we dont seek on purpose. You have to fight through some bad days to earn the best days of your life. A harsh fact of life: Bad things do happen to good people. Regardless of the situation, the sun rises the next day and life goes on. You never know how strong you really are until being strong is the only choice you have. We end up regretting the things you did NOT do far more than the things you did. We meet no ordinary people in our lives. If you give them a chance, everyone has something amazing to offer. Every passing face on the street represents a story every bit as compelling and complicated as yours. People are not as beautiful as they look, as they walk, or as they talk. They are only as beautiful as they love, as they care, and as they share. Silence is often the loudest cry. So pay attention to those you care about. Making one person smile can change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. Blowing out anothers candle
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