Originally posted by JimErased
Although I agree with what you saying about the report/block/delete functions on facebook, when a bully really gets in your head it can wreck your confidence for life. In primary school, I was bullied and my confidence greatly suffered from then on. I get really nervous meeting new people and I tend to look down a lot and never talk just out of, well, being scared what people think of me really, I would do anything to get all those attributes back but I just can't. I mean I was too young to even know what suicide was, but if it got it now, I probably would take my life no matter how selfish it is, you are made to feel scum, unwanted, you are made to feel that you are in the wrong.
My primary school was small, to say the least, there was 56 people and 6 of those were in my year. There was really no way of getting out of it for me, but one day I came across a thing called violence, solved everything :p. Punched the main guy who bullied me on the nose, haven't got it since. Seriously nothing gets done, unless YOU get it done.
I'm sorry to hear that,
My friend was bullied in primary school by just one person for just a few days but It stuck with him ever since. He was called chubby, fatty etc you know some stupid, silly names. We told the teachers, So they punished him till he stopped. We tried to comfort him but it had such an effect on him, It ate away at his mind. Do they think I'm fat... 2 years later he stopped eating for a few days. They had to check him into rehab for a while and get him therapy. He's OK today Thankfully. Still a bit shy but healthy.
I can not even imagine how it must feel to be bullied, Even just name calling can eat away at you for a long time.
What phoebe went through was horrific, and the sad thing is that it will happen again...
I would like to thank everyone who voiced an opinion against bullying. Or shared a story of how negative bullying is, Hopefully you've changed someones mind about it. Who knows maybe even stopped a bully.
I posted my opinion on Phoebes death before all the posts got deleted. If this thread is still here in the morning and I feel the urge to post it again I will do so, But for now I bid you adieu