(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); ok so ive never had a gf and ive been rejected 48 times :cry:

I need some advice on what to do etc, im not exactly good at talking to girls but im nice. I act tough (even though im not), im overweight (play bball and afl football) and i act gansta when im not.

Mate theres no right or wrong answer anyone can give you as all girls have different taste's and opinions

but dont try to be what your not, if your putting on a false front girl's will generally see through it pretty quickly and this ruins your chance's so do what you do best and dont try to be the people you hang around with! who wants to go out with a clone

if you do manage to get a girl and start dating try and avoid situations where your not going to be talking like the cinema.

try and do something you can do together like ice skating or bowling. Don't get to competitive though lol thats not the image you want to give off ^_^

If possible try and do something there into so your showing your taking an interest in their life and thats already a good starting point to be working on building up a relationship

I hope you can take some of this advice and use it your advantage mate and I wish you all the best in your hunt ^_^

dont act gangsta and try and slim down

Stop being things you're not would be the first step.

Nobody can love you till you love yourself!

Its simple but yet difficult.. Girls are all different.. Just like u have ur preferences, so do girls.. Shit I was a all state QB, and all state pitcher, and I had many girls.. But there were some hot ass chicks that did not like me, or people who played sports and that were popular.. I could never figure it out then, but thats just the way it was.. So yes, even I was turned down by girls too..

But 1st things 1st.. U have to find ur identity.. Are u chasing the wrong girls?? What I mean by wrong girls, is, are u chasing the girls that are the best looking girls in ur school?? If so, then u have to step ur game up, and be sharp in every aspect.. Dress well, keep urself well groomed, be outgoing, have confidence in urself to approach any girl and hold a good steady conversation with them.. Understand the girl u are chasing, get to know her, her likes and dislikes.. Get her to smile, a smile can go a long ways... To some guys this is easy, and some guys have to work hard on this..

To me, its all about exposure.. What u are exposed to in life makes u who u are... If u are not exposed to girls or popular lifestyle, then u feel like a outsider.. For me, I was exposed to the popular lifestyle at a young age, so it came to me natural..

But I have taken some who were overweight and not popular and exposed them to my highschool life and they did just fine.. They became popular, and they fit right in.. But at 1st everyone would question me, why did I hang around the "dorks", and I told them because they are cool in thier own way, just get to know them, and u will see.. I know alot of guys in high school who were overweight and not good looking who were popular, so its possible.. U just have to maintain urself to a higher standard, self grooming, clothes, and personality.. Bottom line, is find urself, then find the girl..

get off NGU. you see what im talking about , you have a rep star on ngu but no girlfriend. gotta get your priority str8 1st

PROTIP: Get off of NextGenUpdate, and talk to girls more.

just touch their private stuffs i got GFs 48 times for doing that :p

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wow gay? (usually?)?? did you get a gay guy like that? just asking (no offense)

Ahhh try acting chill and cool around them. Crack some jokes. Clothes are important aswell dude. I usually wear Normal Shirts not Emo/Gothic pictures or anything like that,Basketball shorts, Chuck Taylors or Nike/Jordans shoes or slippers depends on how i feel, my Elite Nike Socks and Sometimes my NY hat.Oh and Your Hair try getting parts "lines on the side of your head" as most people call them. That is 150% SWAG. Thats me. Dress like you feel comfortable. Make sure you go for girls that are easy. Try to get in a fight and win so you can get some reputation around school.

You need to talk to my little friend Ol' Mr. Hennessey...
Lol actually bro, im not saying get her drunk and take advantage :pedo: but if your going on a date, or goig o try ur luck at asking a girl out have a couple swigs of whiskey or vodka or something you know bro. It takes the nervousness stress away, and boosts confidence dramatically man.
No shit before any of you flame, if you have troubles, try this =D