(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); ok so ive never had a gf and ive been rejected 48 times :cry:

I need some advice on what to do etc, im not exactly good at talking to girls but im nice. I act tough (even though im not), im overweight (play bball and afl football) and i act gansta when im not.

Well dude jus be yourself you will find the right girl i finally did yesterday. I have had many gfs before her but her is the right one. anyways just give it time ur time will come

Shut your dumbass up, if you "date" a girl under the age of 15 its not real, thats just those dumb things the faggets (AKA popular kids) do to make them seem cool. When you can actually go places without having your mommy and daddy taking you guys there then its a girlfriend...

Well I do go places without my mum or dad so

why would you make that your avatar, gtfo ngu!

You've been rejected 48 times? Wow, get some swag on yourself, wear nicer clothes and act better and cooler.

Ah, wow. I'll try to help out.

Most of it has to do with confidence on your part. When you DO finally get up the courage to ask her, you should be completely confident almost to being cocky. I know when I was younger, someone would come up to me and be all like, "Hey Tay, I'm *insert* and I think you're pretty cool. I'm heading out to go see that new movie *insert movie* with a few friends and was just seeing if you wanted to tag along." (With friends is a more "safe" environment to hang out with, and they'd be your friends, so don't really ask if HER friends want to come along, let HER ask if it's ok for her friends to come.)

Also, MAKE SURE YOU HAVE FRIENDS GOING!!! You'd be super creeper #1 if you have no friends show up ("Oh, um..they all had other plans come up..." riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight...creeper).

Be super sure with yourself, almost as if she SHOULD say yes. And don't even LET a "no thanks" or anything let you down. Don't even SHOW it. If she says no, just play it off like it's no biggy and follow up with something like, "Oh, cool. No problem, just wanted to see if you'd be up for it. Maybe another time then. Oh hey, what's your number btw? Just so later on maybe we can do something else."

Don't "ASK" for her number, just kind of assume she's going to give it to you anyway. (Asking is saying, "Can I get your number?" -- NOT asking in a way is saying, "Oh, what's your number, btw?" - I can't explain it, but there's a big difference between asking permission and just asking for it as if you expect it to be given). And if she doesn't give it to you, or gives you an excuse about not having one, then let it go, cause she won't be that interested in you. (It's like two strikes, you're out)

But either way, play like it's not a big thing. Whether you get her information or not.
For some reason, that really made me interested in boys when I was your age.

Just remember, it's all about confidence. Be sure of yourself! --> You're awesome, and everyone else knows you're awesome, and you know everyone knows you're awesome!

And LOOK at her. Don't look down at your toes and mumble into your tummy when you talk to her ^^

1. dont try to be somebody your not
2. meet girls
3. ????
4. sex

what i did a lot when i tried to get a girlfriend, was to be funny, and just be myself.. it worked like 90% of the time.. if it doesnt, then i guess that girl just isnt into your type :/

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oh! & i forgot.. this really fat, ugly, piece of shit faggot! that nobody likes has a girlfriend, and shes not bad!!! so i know you can get one! just talk 2 them, and try to get to know them, and be sweet <3

The only advice i can give you is don't act like a total different human being around a girl that you like. Cause probably one day you'll succeed that way and get a girl, but it's probably not the girl you would of wanted to be dating in the first place. It's important that you pick a girl who suits you best too. And not desperately trying every girl in the hope of succes, because you have been rejected 48 times, and i think this is what you're doing right now. From personal experiences i can tell you, you can better wait and let it happen than trying so hard. Just let it happen dude:y: Don't be so hard on yourself you'll get there. Your still young, it will happen eventually.