(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); I dont know why im sharing this but wtf here it goes.I just got a phone call from my real dad 20 years since he last saw me i dont remember him but hes adament he wants to met me,but im not sure if i want to meet him were the fck has he been all my life.Im 21 btw and this has my head spinning i dont know what to do should i hear him out or should i beat the shit out of him my head is fcked up has anyone ever dealt with a situation like this id like to hear some opinions b4 i make a decision well thats about it thanks for reading and plz be nice as my head is really fcked up and im thinking of fcking his head up well thats about it plz leave genuine responses or dont respond at all thanks guys.

Just want to thank everyone for posting their nice comments and personnal experiences means alot.

I would say defiantly go meet him. Hear him out, see what he has to say.

im sure he has explaining to do...

i hope he tells you the truth what happened .. and where was he while you were growing up ...

Lmfao @ the majority of replies tellin the guy to beat the crap out of his father..
Jumping to conclusions without first knowing the story makes no sense at all..lol

Humans,as we are, like closure regardless if people like it or not or don't want to admit.
There are just too many questions and not enough answers in our lifetime.
And so we come to share in your crossroads..
You have 2 options....

1)Agree to meet him but bring along a family member(preferably someone close your fathers' age or his seniority).Bringing someone along will act as a witness(if you will) for what your father has to say.Don't let your emotions be the leader upon meeting him,hear what he has to say first.Prepare some questions you want to ask beforehand.

2)Tell him you're happy with your life and don't wish to meet.

If you do meet him,I sincerely hope it will bring closure for you.
Good luck bud.

Thanks alot m8 ive gotten so many positive replies,cant reply to all them but il try my best thanks again

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Ye thats what was my first reaction i think i might phone him and if he mumbles il tell him to gtfo lol

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Thanks m8 think i might give it ago im glad your sis got her situation sorted and is happy now.

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Sorry to hear that thanks for your advice

It's got to be hard for you mate,
I'd do If I were you I would want to know who my dad was...

In my opinion you should meet him, there a many people out there that want to know there dads but never will you have a opportunity to meet him, dont pass it up you might regret it.

Yeah meet him.
If you dont you will be later like :FU: :FU:

Originally posted by KingEric2011

I dont know why im sharing this but wtf here it goes.I just got a phone call from my real dad 20 years since he last saw me i dont remember him but hes adament he wants to met me,but im not sure if i want to meet him were the fck has he been all my life.Im 21 btw and this has my head spinning i dont know what to do should i hear him out or should i beat the shit out of him my head is fcked up has anyone ever dealt with a situation like this id like to hear some opinions b4 i make a decision well thats about it thanks for reading and plz be nice as my head is really fcked up and im thinking of fcking his head up well thats about it plz leave genuine responses or dont respond at all thanks guys.

Just want to thank everyone for posting their nice comments and personnal experiences means alot.

"An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind" a very wise man said that once, just because your biologically father abounded you doesn't mean you should to, never fallow in someones footsteps always make your own, this is your chance to change your history your future, this will be in your mind forever don't leave it to chance. Meet him, hear him out, say your part and leave him with something to think about. If he can go the extra mile to confront you first (which takes a lot balls) i think you can go that one centimeter.

Goodluck.

Do you want to see your real father?

Beating him up wont solve anything, You must talk with him, After all this could be your only chance.