(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Sometimes, something happens that draws you up short and makes you realize how easy it is to misjudge situations in life. It's like a mental slap in the face, showing you how wrong you can be.

My life changed completely when my father died in an car accident.
It's still hard for me.. I know what I'm telling now is not exactly about the same thing of the topic but. yeah,
Btw if I'm going to my family or something we're always going with the bike. We are now a bit scared to go with our car.

Anything i do changes the way i look at life
The main thing has to be the death, one of them changed my view on happiness. I started to learn that happiness happens no matter what happens.

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It must of been hard for you man, I mean like if he had cancer you would sort of expected him to die and be ready but dieing in a car accident then that just puts a whole in your heart. I feel for you man.

The thing that changed about how I think is....What if this is just a dream? How would you know if it isn't or if it is.....

The only things i can think of right now that have made a massive change in my life are my granddad died then a week later my dad did then my cat, was the worse month of my life also the girl i love the life out of rejected me, its hard sometimes if you look at it in a negative way, i see it as what ever doesn't kill you makes you stronger and wiser.

I now know how easy it is to lose people that you love so quickly, i feel that I'm more mentally stronger than before experiencing death is hard but if you make it through your real character shines and shows people who you really are, the way i manged to keep to grips with myself is to keep it all bottled up and take the weight for my family.

I'm sorry for your loss. Also if somethings don't make sense I'm sorry.

when my mom and pops got divorced when i was 8 :cry: But fxck him. He was a duesch anyways :megusta:

When I was in middle school, a terrible rumor went around about me, (I'm not going to explain it on NGU, just because it wouldn't be appropriate) and it really made me this anti social, insecure kid. I would come home and sometimes i'd cry. I'd lock myself in my room and just kind of go into my own little world, and video games really helped me through this. For the next 2 years, I barely had many friends. I had the few who stuck with me, but not many, maybe 1 or 2 new friends came along the way.. I tried drugs (pot), used them for nearly a year.

3 years later, Once high school started, people still knew and remembered it. People i'd never even talked to before would come up and ask me about it. But weeks into HS, I kinda grew out of my shell. Stopped smoking, met some amazing friends, slowed down on the video games. Its gotten better, but still, not where I want it to be. I'm moving right now, and my parents want to stay in the neighborhood and I kinda have been trying to get them to move us out of the area and to a new school.. So its still effecting me, i'm very insecure.. But I can pretty much handle it now. I will go hangout with my friends, and I wont cry and stuff about it, but just in the back of my head, i have this weird feeling about it all.

Yes, this has DEFIANTLY changed my life. Both a positive and negative way. I can really handle the shit people throw at me now and stick up for myself, if its not related to "it"


There is also one other thing thats really changed me.

There was this girl, and me and her were like BESTFRIENDS through it all. Being me, I had feelings for her the whole time (Well, maybe a year and a half of the time). Yeah, we dated on and off, but it seemed like she never wanted it. Well, once HS started, she met a new guy.

This guy, she met through me. Me and him were friends at the start of high school, and they ended up dating. I was totally fine with it, being that I didnt like her. Well, he ended up saying to her: I will break up with her if you ever talk to Tyler(me) again. I totally forgot how I found this out, but I did. Well, she ended up ignoring me for the 3 months they dated. They broke up, and she expected to be friends with me again. Nope, not going to happen! It just showed the person she was. And I'm glad it all happened. This changed my whole perception on people.

Well i recently lost my godfather.. Then 08 i lost my grandma. In March my mom got in a car accident and can't remember me...

Your preparation and hard work means shit for the great companies, what I've learned from life is that the only way to be successful is to know successful people.