Post: What would you do in my position
06-02-2011, 06:09 AM #1
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Im 17 and a junior in high school and Iv been getting caught up excessively that its getting out of hand. I got arrested at school a few weeks ago for possession of marjuana after I got done selling to the homies and It was just crumbs. I lost all my trust from my dad and mom and family. Iv been trying to get trust back after my arrested back 2 years ago when I stole their truck. I am still awaiting my court date but I so far just got asigned some drug classes which is ok. After that everything went back to normal kind of. My parents were still letting me go to "track" after school.(I got kicked out of track and now I just hang out in that time) so I was still happy and shit. Its all went to shit this past weekend when I got drunk and high on shrooms. Everything went to shit, especially when my sister found me on the side of my street picked me up, and then called my mom and they tried to drug test me and then called the cops on me and they were in my room. The storys really long but it was ****en crazy. That weekend cost me like $200 because I lost my phone which hurts me because I had so much shit on it. Im no longer able to stay after school. Im still selling bud and want to get rid of my stock to buy a new phone. I still get high and buzzed at lunch. My grades are decent besides the 1 high F i have. My family thinks im a loser and I don't know what to do from here. Im not susicidal at al so don't think Im thinking that shit cuz people who do that are just pussys. I'm also pissed at myself because the bitches I accually like are all anti drugs and won't go out with me cuz of the shit im in right now. I just want advice. Im planning on running away June 8 (last day of school) and until my court date. I really don't know though cuz my moms friend also lined me up with a job interview tomorrow at mcdonalds. Im really confuzed especially with other shit thats also going down in my life.

EDIT:

Damn Im reading this and its almost gonna be a year and damn shit just got worse to where Im at like I could write a story. But damn this aint shit to the last 2 months. But the bright side is reguardless of the bullsh*t I have to go through Im still on track to graduating
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06-04-2011, 05:45 AM #20
x420XP
Utter Perfectionist
Originally posted by cookies420 View Post
I just want to know what would you do in my position

Im 17 and a junior in high school and Iv been getting caught up excessively that its getting out of hand. I got arrested at school a few weeks ago for possession of marjuana after I got done selling to the homies and It was just crumbs. I lost all my trust from my dad and mom and family. Iv been trying to get trust back after my arrested back 2 years ago when I stole their truck. I am still awaiting my court date but I so far just got asigned some drug classes which is ok. After that everything went back to normal kind of. My parents were still letting me go to "track" after school.(I got kicked out of track and now I just hang out in that time) so I was still happy and shit. Its all went to shit this past weekend when I got drunk and high on shrooms. Everything went to shit, especially when my sister found me on the side of my street picked me up, and then called my mom and they tried to drug test me and then called the cops on me and they were in my room. The storys really long but it was ****en crazy. That weekend cost me like $200 because I lost my phone which hurts me because I had so much shit on it. Im no longer able to stay after school. Im still selling bud and want to get rid of my stock to buy a new phone. I still get high and buzzed at lunch. My grades are decent besides the 1 high F i have. My family thinks im a loser and I don't know what to do from here. Im not susicidal at al so don't think Im thinking that shit cuz people who do that are just pussys. I'm also pissed at myself because the bitches I accually like are all anti drugs and won't go out with me cuz of the shit im in right now. I just want advice. Im planning on running away June 8 (last day of school) and until my court date. I really don't know though cuz my moms friend also lined me up with a job interview tomorrow at mcdonalds. Im really confuzed especially with other shit thats also going down in my life.


Hmmm.

What I would do is get up at about 4am, go into a forest and take some more 'shrooms Winky Winky
06-04-2011, 06:49 AM #21
Originally posted by X View Post
Hmmm.

What I would do is get up at about 4am, go into a forest and take some more 'shrooms Winky Winky


You would proablly die as those mushrooms are poisonious
06-05-2011, 01:13 AM #22
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Originally posted by TornadoCreator View Post
OK. After reading this thread I was going to answer with the stereotypical "STOP BREAKING THE LAW ASSHOLE!". But I decided to give this a proper response. The thing is you're not going to like it but it has to be said.



Boo Hoo, I want to run away... You sound like a little child.

You are a pathetic thief, drug dealer, no good pathetic waste of space and unless you want that yo be your legacy you WILL listen to me now.

1. Stop with the drugs. It doesn't make you the big man, it doesn't make you cool. All it does it f*ck you up. There's a reason none of the girls like you. It's because you're pathetic. The reason they're anti-drugs is because they have a shred of intelligence.

2. Stop stealing shit. If you where my kid you'd be on the streets by now. You're lucky your parents give a crap about you. At 17 you should either be looking for a job, have a job or be working on your education so that you can pay your own way in this world. Not stealing peoples trucks. Do you want to end up in prison being raped by a big guy while he calls you 'Jenifer'... because that's where you're heading.

3. How about you stop worrying about stupid shit like your phone or your "stock" and get your life in order. You're 17 and already a pathetic loser with a criminal record and likely no future at this rate. How about you pull your life around while you've still got a chance to change that. You know, go to this interview at McDonalds. Try to actually get the job. Earn some money. Pay your way. Have some self-respect. Have some respect for other people. Stop getting "high" to get through the day and show some responsibility... maybe then the occational girl will see the good in you, but honestly, there has to BE good in you for them to see it, and I'm not seeing it. Go on prove me wrong.

4. Learn to write. You can't spell, you can't use grammar, you can't use paragraphs. While I know my English skills are poor yours are pathetic. It may not seem important to you but I think it'd be a good idea for you to learn basic literacy before you graduate. Unless you want to be an unemployable bum for your entire life.

5. Stop lying and stop "hanging out". Is that really the best thing you can come up with. Lying so you can stand around on the street corner with other losers and take hallucinogens until your brain has a small seizure.... really. This is your idea of fun? Why not try to get a hobby, because that's truly pathetic.

So there you have it. Five things you need to do to make your situation better. But your question was. "What would you do in my position?" and honestly, I'd probably have a breakdown after realising what a complete failure and utterly pathetic peice of crap I'd managed to become all before the age of 18, and probably be contemplating throwing myself of the nearest bridge... but then I hold myself to high standards and you don't come anywhere close to them.

Now, you can take this as the advice it's intended to be, or you can be offended at it. Your choice. I however, have done you the biggest favour ever. I've just let you see how the rest of the world sees you... PATHETIC. How about you change that.

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Again, I was going to leave this response at that, but I noticed you replied and I need to address some of what you said.




Then f*ck you. You're a waste of space and quite frankly a horrible human being if you think that's a good goal. I hope you get locked up like you deserve.



How about you get a job instead then, you f*cking moron.



You don't deserve a summer vacation. You've done nothing to take a vacation from. You deserve prison and quite frankly if you "run away" like the pathetic little child that you are, I hope your family outright disowns you because they deserve more than a pathetic trouble causing drug peddling criminal leaching from them like you are now.



You're not going to have any kids. To have kids you need a few things. You need a woman who will actually want to have sex with you, enough money to be independent, and enough integrity that the mother of your kids will want to stay with you or at least let you see your kids. Quite frankly this shows just how immature you are.

You don't want to be "some kid with no life". Well how about you experience life then? So far you've stolen vehicles, ****ed about on street corners and had a lot of self-induced seizures from drugs. WELL F*CKING DONE! You've done nothing.

Have you travelled to other countries. Learned a trade. Fallen in love. Seen any of the modern wonders of the world. Become engrossed in a good book/film/game. Developed a meaningful hobby. Built something with your own hands. Learned a foreign language. Formed an opinion on politics, philosophy and religion. Nurtured an artistic flare in yourself or anyone else. Had a truly deep friendship. Shared your time with someone in need just to see them smile. Maintained a home. Formed a family. Saved a life. Comforted someone as they died. Took the time to appreciate nature. Studied something just for the pleasure of learning...

I've done EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THOSE THINGS! You've done how many? I'm willing to bet none. I have loads to tell my future children and I didn't need to be a petty drug peddling criminal to do it. You're a pathetic waste of skin and honestly, I hope this post makes you REALLY re-asses your life, because the fact that NGU is treating you nicely is only due to them fearing moderator flying up their ass for flaming you. You need to hear this. If you're doing this just so you have something to tell your kids... you kids will be ashamed of you.


why are you so ****ing awesome?
06-06-2011, 10:36 AM #23
shawn1997
I am error
Originally posted by cookies420 View Post
I just want to know what would you do in my position

Im 17 and a junior in high school and Iv been getting caught up excessively that its getting out of hand. I got arrested at school a few weeks ago for possession of marjuana after I got done selling to the homies and It was just crumbs. I lost all my trust from my dad and mom and family. Iv been trying to get trust back after my arrested back 2 years ago when I stole their truck. I am still awaiting my court date but I so far just got asigned some drug classes which is ok. After that everything went back to normal kind of. My parents were still letting me go to "track" after school.(I got kicked out of track and now I just hang out in that time) so I was still happy and shit. Its all went to shit this past weekend when I got drunk and high on shrooms. Everything went to shit, especially when my sister found me on the side of my street picked me up, and then called my mom and they tried to drug test me and then called the cops on me and they were in my room. The storys really long but it was ****en crazy. That weekend cost me like $200 because I lost my phone which hurts me because I had so much shit on it. Im no longer able to stay after school. Im still selling bud and want to get rid of my stock to buy a new phone. I still get high and buzzed at lunch. My grades are decent besides the 1 high F i have. My family thinks im a loser and I don't know what to do from here. Im not susicidal at al so don't think Im thinking that shit cuz people who do that are just pussys. I'm also pissed at myself because the bitches I accually like are all anti drugs and won't go out with me cuz of the shit im in right now. I just want advice. Im planning on running away June 8 (last day of school) and until my court date. I really don't know though cuz my moms friend also lined me up with a job interview tomorrow at mcdonalds. Im really confuzed especially with other shit thats also going down in my life.


I dont mean to be Disrespectful But you say ur not a Pussy Yet you're Ready to run away when things get hard, And thats a True wuss, You choose the easy way Wuss,Now if ur a Real man Get The **** up n Destroy ur drugs and start at McDonalds and you will regain everyone trust because you changed
06-06-2011, 07:09 PM #24
The question here is how ignorant your parents are. It's not that they're bad parents, but they seem like 100% anti-pot. People like this don't understand the real world at all. Every teenager is going to try something, and do stupid things. That's just the way it goes. I will say it sounds like you go a little overboard. Here's my suggestions:

1. **** shrooms.
2. Start being helpful. If this means helping around the house, helping other family members out, go for it.
3. Keep smoking private. I have the most fun smoking at night after 10 or so. Play some epic music, and hop on Call of Duty.
4. Start showing more interest in general. I don't know how to describe it, but don't be afraid to ask questions is what I'm trying to say I guess...

If your parents are still ignorant, then I really don't have anymore advice. I'd get my own place, and start over if that was the case.
06-10-2011, 10:41 PM #25
-Brad-
Xbox is great
Originally posted by cookies420 View Post
I just want to know what would you do in my position

Im 17 and a junior in high school and Iv been getting caught up excessively that its getting out of hand. I got arrested at school a few weeks ago for possession of marjuana after I got done selling to the homies and It was just crumbs. I lost all my trust from my dad and mom and family. Iv been trying to get trust back after my arrested back 2 years ago when I stole their truck. I am still awaiting my court date but I so far just got asigned some drug classes which is ok. After that everything went back to normal kind of. My parents were still letting me go to "track" after school.(I got kicked out of track and now I just hang out in that time) so I was still happy and shit. Its all went to shit this past weekend when I got drunk and high on shrooms. Everything went to shit, especially when my sister found me on the side of my street picked me up, and then called my mom and they tried to drug test me and then called the cops on me and they were in my room. The storys really long but it was ****en crazy. That weekend cost me like $200 because I lost my phone which hurts me because I had so much shit on it. Im no longer able to stay after school. Im still selling bud and want to get rid of my stock to buy a new phone. I still get high and buzzed at lunch. My grades are decent besides the 1 high F i have. My family thinks im a loser and I don't know what to do from here. Im not susicidal at al so don't think Im thinking that shit cuz people who do that are just pussys. I'm also pissed at myself because the bitches I accually like are all anti drugs and won't go out with me cuz of the shit im in right now. I just want advice. Im planning on running away June 8 (last day of school) and until my court date. I really don't know though cuz my moms friend also lined me up with a job interview tomorrow at mcdonalds. Im really confuzed especially with other shit thats also going down in my life.


If all your gonna do is keep gettin buzzed and high, then stop asking for suggestions. You arent going to find a answer that involves keepin up the shit your doing. I did weed once and said screw this. Go get a hobby, like video games.
06-13-2011, 03:00 AM #26
Only stick with weed. Party a little less. Study a little more. No more stealing
06-14-2011, 04:44 PM #27
Im a **** up. I dont know why but I just keep ****ing up. Last day of school i packed and was still thinking about it and just decided to just go home and not run away. Next day i feel good and I go to my homies house and im suppose to be home at 2pm. I didnt want to go home yet so I went to another homies house and told my mom and next thing I know my dad calls the cops and they file me as a runaway so I say **** it and just decide not to go home for a few days. It was really fun I drank like crazy smoked hella weed n hash, thizzed and I ate showered partyed wit bitches. I only had $15 on me and I did all that. I was gone for 5 days. I decided to go home yesturday because I wasnt running away but just didnt want to go home for a few days. When I got home my mom was there and we went to get drug tested. I smoked just a few hours before my drug test too. I drank hella water. When it was my turn to go I passed that tested on every drug.I have 9 days before my court date for my **** up 2 months ago so well see what happens. Imma try to get my shit together and start fresh hopefully.
06-15-2011, 01:26 AM #28
Just4Hax
"I will speak ill of
Originally posted by cookies420 View Post
Im a **** up.

It is never good idea to feel bad for yourself.

Originally posted by another user
I dont know why but I just keep ****ing up.

Because of your actions you are committing. Stop doing illegal activities and act like a normal civilian. Live your life, stay inside the boundaries to a degree, show respect to others, etc...

Originally posted by another user
Last day of school i packed and was still thinking about it and just decided to just go home and not run away.

Good.

Originally posted by another user
Next day i feel good and I go to my homies house and im suppose to be home at 2pm.

Yet the thought of letting your parents know never went into your thick skull? :confused:

Originally posted by another user
I didnt want to go home yet so I went to another homies house and told my mom and next thing I know my dad calls the cops and they file me as a runaway so I say **** it and just decide not to go home for a few days.

You do realize they won't go looking for missing kids until it has been almost 24 hours correct? BTW just another example of how you treat your family bad and expect them to love you.

Originally posted by another user
It was really fun I drank like crazy smoked hella weed n hash, thizzed and I ate showered partyed wit bitches.

-__- This is not what you should be doing

Originally posted by another user
I only had $15 on me and I did all that. I was gone for 5 days.

Way to put your family in distress.

Originally posted by another user
I decided to go home yesturday because I wasnt running away but just didnt want to go home for a few days.

You are lucky that your family let you in.

Originally posted by another user
When I got home my mom was there and we went to get drug tested.

Which is expected

Originally posted by another user
I smoked just a few hours before my drug test too. I drank hella water. When it was my turn to go I passed that tested on every drug.I have 9 days before my court date for my **** up 2 months ago so well see what happens. Imma try to get my shit together and start fresh hopefully.

Look you have no time to get yourself together. Once you reach 18 you will go to jail or have your name ruined for the rest of your life.

It doesn't matter if you don't like living a normal life. The life you are living is going to crash, hard. I have no idea how you don't consider yourself an addict? If you are doing drug after drug, no consideration for your body or loved ones, and continue to do so, you are the definition of one.

Trust me, I'm not the guy to say this, not at all. You seem to be one of the people that truly needs a faith, at least until you get off your feet.

I would advise you to start following some type of guideline and Christianity would be a good one to follow. Whether you believe it or not isn't the case, it will help.

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