Post: Mother-Son 7 years no speaking Help
07-26-2009, 03:22 AM #1
xsHoEx
Hurah!
(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Well, most of you here are probably new and most likely don't know remember me, like that matters at all, I have a question, well actually I need suggestions, about something I plan to do, which I hope can help me straighten out my life problems and what not.

Short story: I haven't talked to my mom in almost 8 years. 8 years ago me, my dad and step-mom, moved down from Baltimore (where I grew up) to the South. Just a few weeks ago, me and my mom moved out from my dad, don't ask why, just he is now back up north in Baltimore staying with his family and me and my step-mom (prac. my mom, i love her more than anything) have our own place together and everything is great. My dad, RAN INTO MY MOM, completely by accident the other day at her work, and she spotted him first. Obv, she wanted to know this and that, but him being my father and having respect for me, didn't tell her my personal life, especially since its been 8 years with no contact from her). He called me and told me this, and now I really want to call her. I've always wanted too, but I've never had a way until now(dad got her number for me, incase I did decide to want to call her). My parents never kept contact with each other after everything went down, so it's been complete silence for a LONG TIME! So, I contacted my cousin who lives up there, and is in touch with her, and he gave me her number, but I want her email first, to get things off slow, which I am getting her email tomorrow. I'm not worried about the email part, but when I do eventually call her, what do I say?
I can't exactly say "hi, MOM" or "i love you" i just cant. how do i start off a conversation with my mother who i have had NO CONTACT with for 8 years. I have no clue. This is why I need suggestions. I literally can not think of anything to start off, not even a HI
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07-26-2009, 01:55 PM #11
ShAdoW_RiDa
Former Blue Mod
Originally posted by DirtyDudeOnline View Post
My parents have never fought so I have NO clue what you are going through although I imagine it is very tough. To the best of my knowledge I say you talk to her through e-mail until you guys have broken the "surprised idk im confused wtfbbq awkward" barrier. Then call her and just start off with Hey it's ENTER NAME HERE, shes most likely going to freak out in excitement and just let the convo flow and take over from there.


Haha same.. My parents have never argued..

Oh and to the guy who made the thread.. Don't swear at people if they give you an idea! If you don't want their idea then don't say anything! Obviously you do want ideas,that's why you made the thread!
07-26-2009, 10:33 PM #12
RICHIE209
March 6, 2011.
Just ask her questions and stuff. Tell her how you really feel(sounds cheesy but hey, should work)
07-26-2009, 11:24 PM #13
Antones
Blood of Innocence
Go round you real mums and say hi
07-27-2009, 01:18 AM #14
Ask her if she plays cod

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