Post: Would you share a bed with your best friend?
12-02-2011, 03:30 PM #1
ant599
Broz b4 h0ez
(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Tomorrow I'm going to spend a night abroad with a few friends.
One of them is a girl whom I've known for 6 years now. In the past there have been chances for us to be in a relationship but I couldn't see her more than a friend so nothing has happened so far.

Given that tomorrow she's coming with me and my friends [she has never met any of them before] she said that she wanted to sleep with me, meaning that she wanted us to share the same hotel room.
She said "Obviously, we'll sleep together ... "
In the past, I remember sharing the same bed with her, over at her apartment.. but we used to watch TV or work on the computer and play C0D ...
and she thinks it's normal to do it again.

I don't wanna do this again. I mean...I don't feel comfortable about sharing a bed (and a room) with a girl who's not my partner, no matter how close we are as friends.
I don't want to leave her alone and I'm afraid she'll say "I came with/for you and now you're leaving me to go to your other friends?"
How do I respond to this?
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12-04-2011, 02:30 AM #29
Pichu
RIP PICHU.
Originally posted by xinfectedsoulx View Post
There is nothing wrong with it. Would you do it with a guy friend? If so, there is no difference (apart from she's a girl). Stop being a bitch and do it. You're less of a friend for thinking about leaving her on her own with people she doesn't know.


I agree.

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To be honest, I don't care if I sleep in the same bed with a guy or girl (Close friend), as long as nothing affectionate is being shown it's all cool.

If she starts to show affection just let her know gently.
12-04-2011, 08:08 AM #30
420
Kush Friendly
Originally posted by Gaia View Post
Compare that situation to Africa, everyone shares the same bed :carling:


if by bed, you mean aids, then.. yes.
12-04-2011, 11:54 AM #31
Gaia
Former Staff
Originally posted by 420 View Post
if by bed, you mean aids, then.. yes.

I meant India :whistle:
12-04-2011, 05:48 PM #32
RavagedBoom
Sing My Guitar
Originally posted by Gmote View Post
Tomorrow I'm going to spend a night abroad with a few friends.
One of them is a girl whom I've known for 6 years now. In the past there have been chances for us to be in a relationship but I couldn't see her more than a friend so nothing has happened so far.

Given that tomorrow she's coming with me and my friends [she has never met any of them before] she said that she wanted to sleep with me, meaning that she wanted us to share the same hotel room.
She said "Obviously, we'll sleep together ... "
In the past, I remember sharing the same bed with her, over at her apartment.. but we used to watch TV or work on the computer and play C0D ...
and she thinks it's normal to do it again.

I don't wanna do this again. I mean...I don't feel comfortable about sharing a bed (and a room) with a girl who's not my partner, no matter how close we are as friends.
I don't want to leave her alone and I'm afraid she'll say "I came with/for you and now you're leaving me to go to your other friends?"
How do I respond to this?


Just share the same bed. Don't try and get away from her. Clearly shes in a tough spot; She is in a hotel room, with strangers, and you as her only friend. She isn't shy but scared of all the things that could happen. Every women is scared of sexual abuse. Let her sleep in the same bed as you. If she makes a move turn to her and tell her that you respect her as a beautiful individual and that you don't want to do anything. A little flattery will help.

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12-05-2011, 10:23 AM #33
Munky
League Champion
Stop posting on NGU and hit it already.
12-05-2011, 11:10 AM #34
Originally posted by Munky View Post
Stop posting on NGU and hit it already.


This ^
I approve Awesome face
12-05-2011, 11:30 AM #35
byGary
Banned
I'm guessing your gay? bang her you fag. Also come onto the internet for RL advice is sad Happy

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12-05-2011, 07:41 PM #36
Qalar
Big Daddy
if she's Ugly Then Cover The Face And F**K The Base Winky Winky
12-06-2011, 05:44 PM #37
Originally posted by Gmote View Post
Tomorrow I'm going to spend a night abroad with a few friends.
One of them is a girl whom I've known for 6 years now. In the past there have been chances for us to be in a relationship but I couldn't see her more than a friend so nothing has happened so far.

Given that tomorrow she's coming with me and my friends [she has never met any of them before] she said that she wanted to sleep with me, meaning that she wanted us to share the same hotel room.
She said "Obviously, we'll sleep together ... "
In the past, I remember sharing the same bed with her, over at her apartment.. but we used to watch TV or work on the computer and play C0D ...
and she thinks it's normal to do it again.

I don't wanna do this again. I mean...I don't feel comfortable about sharing a bed (and a room) with a girl who's not my partner, no matter how close we are as friends.
I don't want to leave her alone and I'm afraid she'll say "I came with/for you and now you're leaving me to go to your other friends?"
How do I respond to this?

try it on with her, if u want to be with her obviously. u either get laid or feel uncomfartble with her. either way, its up to u

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