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I've been talking to this girl for a while, and I'm convinced I really like her. She's just an all around great girl. Shes not a slut, but she has an ex boyfriend who she will occasionally hook up with. She dated him for roughly 2 years. Anyways, 2 weeks ago, she hooked up with him again. They fucked. She thinks she's pregnant, she missed her period, and she took a pregnancy test that says she's pregnant. What should I do?

I've told her I'll be there for her no matter what, and all this other shit prior to this. I can't just go back on that. What should I do? I need to get over her, but I promised her I'd be there for her and care about her. I still want her, and I want a relationship with her, but I don't think I'm going to be able to get over the whole kid thing. Thats just too much for me.

What should I do, and what should I tell her to do? She hasn't told they guy that she thinks she's pregnant, and she doesn't want to. They got in a fight a few months ago, and it led to him beating her. I dont want that to happen to her again, but he needs to know.

She's an atheist, but she's still against abortion. I think that's the best way to go for her, she's too young to have a kid. Her life would be ruined. I feel so bad about all this, even though its not my fault, in any way, shape, or form.

EDIT: Thanks for all your responses. This isnt actually my situation, I thought saying it was mine would get more responses out of direct sympathy. Thanks guys, I told my friend some of your responses.

Ive had the same problem, my ex-x was pregnant with another guy and she was 3 months in when i started seeing her, as you did i had feelings for her and promised too that i would help her through this. Your story is exactly similar to mine and i had to try and let her go which was hard, but when the kids born i think you will slowly pull apart from them like i did. Tbh id do it as soon as possible because she will still have feelings for her ex, its a 50% she would stay with you in the end, i suggest to wait and see what happens, look for signs such as her discussing her ex to you, doesnt reply as much even when the childs not born and when she shows the most love to you through a message, because deep down it could all be a trick for jealousy. ask her questions now again, such as "are you speaking to your ex?" these questions tend to always get lied too, so try and get as much information as possible because if she is in fact still speaking to her ex then your chances of staying together will be low.

Dont worry to much about it man, chin up! in the end of the day your entitled to your opinions, i chose to stay with her until i found out she was getting back with her ex, but for all you know this girl could be telling the truth, she may have given up on her ex so all i can say is good luck pal, hope all ends well!

OP,

A child is a huge commitment. Judging by this post you don't look like one who is rich, wise in experience, ready to settle down , etc. Your blinded by your desire to be with this women, she has a child. This is a huge responsibility. Moreover, it is not your child. I know this is a hard fact to face both there are more women (yes i understand you can never get the 100%) get someone who will be with you 100% with no ties. P.S : people change with kids so the girl you love now may not be the same girl in a year. I hope i helped you .

She most likely still has feelings for him , even for all the crap he caused her.
She should tell her ex about the baby at the very least, even if she does it with her friends near by to feel safe. I would hate not being told about a kid my ex was carrying it would break me.

What she needs to do is have a abortion, get over that dirt bag and move on. Could always put the baby up for adoption but that would hurt her young heart. She not ready for a relationship with anybody else until she is over him. That may take months before she is ready for a relationship with you.

What you need to do is be honest with her that , you don't want to raise a kid yet. And it would break you not knowing about it yourself. Willing to wait until she is over him but right now she not ready for you. You're willing to be a friend and help her through this.

You're young never just "the one" but loads of people who could make you happy. A lot more fish in the sea so don't feel forced to go down a path with somebody.
Would hate to be in your postion right now , be strong you can get through this