(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Soooooo last night at around 11:00 my parents caught me smoking weed in the bathroom. I'm sort of happy though because they were either going to figure out I smoked through my music or another way. But the thing that really got to me was them saying it's a sin and I can go to hell for it. By the way I'm Agnostic but they don't know. How can I go to hell if people back in those days use to smoke weed? Plus I'm not going to smoke weed forever. My dad use to smoke weed and gang bang when he was a young adult so for him to say that is hypocritical. They do not understand that I'm a teenager that is growing up. I'm suppose to fuck up. These are the years that I'm going to fuck up. It's normal. Now I can see if I was doing crack...that's a different story. But anyway, I got caught smoking weed. And the worst part was, I was high while all of this was happening haha. I also had to fight my dad while being high. But I think my parents over reacted. Now my parents don't even trust me anymore. How do I gain their trust back? What can I do to make them believe in me again? According to them, I'm a disappointment.

whos care,dont be a puss about it

Take another toke from the bong...that should help my friend..=)

You got caught last night, right? So that's why you're still feeling guilty and all of those other nasty emotions. Time, my friend, is what you need. Let this issue go and your parents will do the same. All it takes is time and all will heal.

"Agnostic"

Wow that's pretty sad, smoking weed is one thing but openly admitting to being a person that can't pick a side in Religion vs Having a Brain argument, is shameful. I criticise my parents all the time for worshipping a fucking wizard in the sky, Religion is a curse on this planet and all those weak minded individuals that follow it blindly (Note I said blindly you can follow religion healthily, but those individuals that threaten to kill you over insulting their religion need to be removed from this planet because there's no place for people that are that brain damaged here) should be removed from existence. I fucking hate religion.

In regards to your problem, apologize asap and things will go back to normal soon enough if they're reasonable human beings. Also I don't smoke weed and have no intention of doing so but I guess most parent assume it's some kind of gateway drug to doing heroin or something and probably give you a hard time because of not understanding how harmless it is.

Being a teenager does not mean you should use that as an excuse for your mistakes worse idea.
Learn from them , that's the point of being a teenager learning from life mistakes a young age and not making the same ones later on.
Your dad is not being hypocritical only if he said he never smoked it would he be , he knows what happens when you go down that path. Does not want you to follow him and make the same mistakes.
End of the day they want the best for you.

My advice ditch the weed you tried it or cut back depends how much you smoke it.
Trust is going to take time to heal if you don't quit the weed , if you quit now it heal quicker.

There young son is trying and growing up , also making mistakes they did. So give them a break it won't be until you are older your get that.

Firstly, Marijuana was only made illegal within something like the last hundred years. It was heavily used throughout history, much like hemp and the ordeal with modern rope being invented. The guy made people believe hemp was bad and all that just to sell his own product.

Marijuana is much the same in some retrospect.

Just give yourself some time, if they tell you its a sin or crap like that, just say that you don't believe in religion; say you are agnostic and that you want them to stop throwing religious text at you because you are your own person and do not want that criticism. Promise them that you will get rid of the weed you own and that you will no longer do it around them, or to secure your relations, say that you will wait until you are adult. A few years won't kill you; besides it will become legal in more states in the next few years.

Just remember this, you are living under their roof; respect them, if they don't want you to smoke it, just don't. I understand it might sound frustrating but is smoking something worth putting your relationship between you are parents at risk?

Im 16, I smoke all the time. My parents said to me the other day "if we raised you and the worst you did was smoke a little weed here and there, i think we did a pretty good job as parents." She knew i was stoned when she said this driving home from my friends house.