(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Soooooo last night at around 11:00 my parents caught me smoking weed in the bathroom. I'm sort of happy though because they were either going to figure out I smoked through my music or another way. But the thing that really got to me was them saying it's a sin and I can go to hell for it. By the way I'm Agnostic but they don't know. How can I go to hell if people back in those days use to smoke weed? Plus I'm not going to smoke weed forever. My dad use to smoke weed and gang bang when he was a young adult so for him to say that is hypocritical. They do not understand that I'm a teenager that is growing up. I'm suppose to fuck up. These are the years that I'm going to fuck up. It's normal. Now I can see if I was doing crack...that's a different story. But anyway, I got caught smoking weed. And the worst part was, I was high while all of this was happening haha. I also had to fight my dad while being high. But I think my parents over reacted. Now my parents don't even trust me anymore. How do I gain their trust back? What can I do to make them believe in me again? According to them, I'm a disappointment.

Its better than alcohol which I drink a lot of! Tell your parents that your going through a hard time and weed relaxes you. Your parents are bound to over react a bit I mean If I saw my kid drinking as much as me I would go ape shit! Our children are more important than ourselves, thats why they over reacted!

First off, your father is not being hypocritical whatsoever when he says he's disappointed in you for smoking weed. He WAS into weed and gangbanging. Not IS. WAS. In no way is that being hypocritical. All he is doing is looking after his son, trying to help you not make the same mistakes he did.

Also, as Pichu stated, you're living under your parents roof. Respect your elders. Going without weed is not a big deal at all. You have no mental/physical dependence with marijuana, as they don't exist.

I really dont know how to help you, but to say that you should quit smoking...lol

My parents don't care so much about smoking weed, as much as they worry about what the weed is laced with.

I feel your pain man. My dad smokes everyday (he doesn't know I know) and when I got caught he screamed at me.

It is what it is. My father found out I smoke with weed (smoke with cigarettes- Boondocks) when I was 13 yrs old. Couldn't yell or punish me because I was going to do me. If I was your pops, I wouldn't be mad because you smoking but more upset you were hidden it.

This happened to me, I just started rolling blunts and going outside, much easier.

As was previously said, weed does have negative effects. Mainly involving the brains functioning ability. I know its hard to appreciate effects of things when they take years to become apparent, but remember once it happens its impossible to cure. Also, if your parents dont agree with it, then for me that means you stop. not just do it behind their back, thats disrespectful. just stop, its not worth risking a relationship with your parents over, and in fact they'd think more of you for kicking the stuff.

Also, remember what you've said. teenagers are meant to make MISTAKES, but you learn from them. I completely agree, not just teenagers, everyone makes mistakes. the point is, you learn from it, and in this case that means you stop using weed. otherwise you havent learnt anything at all.

In case you cant tell im very anti-weed, one of my best childhood friends was alienated from everyone because of that stupid drug. It takes a stronger person to say, my friends and family are more important than a few minute high. its a waste of money and never leads to anything good. Just stop now before you do any serious harm, to your friends or to yourself.

i expect groans for that above comment, i know a lot of you guys on this site worship weed..... sad fact indeed....