(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Long story short, I was dumped a week before christmas eve with my first girlfriend, would of been together 4 months on christmas eve. She was the first person i really felt a connection with and it was shattered, turns out she cheated on me and she treated me so shit when she broke up with me I now know she isnt worth it.

Its been about a month and a half ish since then and I am so much better than I was, I was so depressed and sad all day every day for 3-4 weeks. It's still upsetting to me but not as bad as it was, just wondering how long some of you guys hurt for when you had that first horrible heart break, just feel like I've dragged it on but I'm not sure if it's normal for some people or not really.

Sad to hear you were depressed. Heres an advice, if she ever tries to get you back, reject her. You deserve better! I've done some major mistakes in my life by taking a girl back 4 times, after getting heart broken each time. My depressions usually varied from 2-4 weeks. Being depressed sucks! Can't even concentrate at School etc!

The girl I were into was unbelieveable. Whenever I asked her to be with me, she always looked for an execuse not to be with me and I were never able to be with her alone. Her friends were always along.

One time she left me for some other dude, and I were stupid enough to have her back

Sometimes she ignored all my calls/messages and pretended to not be aware of them.

I remember this time we were out together and I had bought her a present. After I gave it to her, she left me to be with some other guys

After EVERY breakup SHE has been the one contacting me, only to let me down once more.

Damn :/ Being in the situation I was I understand why you took her back. I found out my ex cheated and still wanted to be with her, I think it was more the thought that I:
Wasn't there for someone when they needed me anymore & I felt I had lost a huge part of my life.

I think I'm glad I've had the experience, it will prepare me for the future regarding relationships but it has given me a bitter taste for them.

If she cheated on you she isn't worth your time anyway. She did you a favor letting you see what a skank she is now rather than a year down the line.

I was with a girl for about 2 years. It was probably one of the worst breakups imaginable for myself. It happened two days before the start of school for the year which made it worse because seeing her everyday after I broke up with her sucked. I've known her since I was like seven and was friend-zoned up until age fifteen when I finally got the balls to ask her out so really it sucked a lot more because if I'd broken up with someone before that I would go to her to talk about it and now I didn't have anyone. Well anyway it was depressing for like a month losing someone I'm that close to but afterwards I got over it.

I'm not glad I had it that early. I'm 17 and currently self learning web developent. At that time, I wasn't able to study at all.

I am pretty much fine now, still upsets me but I get on with things, I've got to start revision for my GCSE's soon so I'm not too bad for that

Mine was a week ago. I was with her for 11 months and 2 weeks. Her and I got into an argument the week prior to the breakup and she got real upset and broke up with me. I cried like a little bitch. She told me that she acted off impulse and didn't want to be without me. So I took her back... definitely shouldn't have. The last week we were together, she turned against my family and told me that she wouldn't ever go back over my house again because 'my parents weren't treating her right' (total bs) and I eventually broke up with her. I was tired of her shit. Yeah, it still hurts but I am not nearly as hurt as I was the first time. I went to church this morning and saw her. She was trying to piss me off. Just seeing her face made me sick. So I left. This happened not even an hour ago. It is going to hurt. You just have to try your best to get over it. I gave that girl a year of my life and she just tried to fuck it all up. Whatever. You'll be fine man.

My story is pretty similar to yours, but I just picked up an eighth and felt pretty good.