Post: Help Please
07-31-2013, 10:10 AM #1
(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Ok, well a short story to get you understanding where I'm coming from.

I've been recently talking to my ex (First love, she and I are first loves), anyways she just broke up with her bf of 3 years to try and get back with me. I buried the feelings I had for her a while back, but here recently they've came back up. Well, we continue to talk and she's depressed some over her recent breakup. (so all she wants is comfort right? ). Ok, so last night I didn't feel like going to see her; I was pissed off due to her not replying to me (she uses the excuse "I don't have wifi atm" ect), and I didn't feel like getting out at 12AM-2AM. Anyways, she starts crying and a guy named John (her friend, and my friend) and I have a decent chat on facebook about her (he was beside her). Finally, around the end of our chat he starts threatening me saying "I'm going to kick your ass when I see you", all because I didn't come down there to see her...

Yeah, well if you read that you see what I'm asking help for.

I'm 18 (an adult)
John is 14 (a minor)

If I fight a minor I will get arrested. Although, I did contact the police to see what could be done in this situation (I'm not a rat/nark/snitch or anything, I only talked to them to get some facts on what I can do), well they told me to avoid him, if he threatens me call them and file a report.
Also, if he hits me I can call self defense and lay his ass out. Happy

I'm not a fighter, I don't like to fight. I guess you could call me a wuss in fighting scenarios, because I feel like fighting doesn't solve anything. Anyways, what I'm asking is what should I do?
Go hangout with her (he lives down the road from where we hangout [also lives close to me] also risk going to jail by fighting)
Not talk to her anymore (lose a possible relationship)

I'm really stuck on this guys, I don't know what to do in this situation. Please refrain from trolling, I'm only wanting serious comments.

Thanks

EDIT: I'm going to stay away from him and her, and if he happens to start anything I'll just ignore him (else if he hits me, I'll lay his ass out), anyways thanks for the people that were seriously helping me decide what to do.
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07-31-2013, 11:06 AM #11
Richard.
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Originally posted by TheUnexpected View Post
Another picture I didn't put in up was him saying if I call the cops on him for fighting me, he'll get some of his friends to jump me. Gasphgodwhy: This kind of stuff honestly makes me want to move somewhere else. Although you can't run away from problems. I even asked him if he wanted to put it behind us, and he replied with something similar to "Hell no, I'm pissed off and we are going to fight". That's not his exact words, but similar.


Get a bunch of your mates then, I'm sure he'll back down when there's a load of 18 year olds up against him. He's proving he's more of a fag then he's coming across to be. "I'll get my friends because I'm a fag"

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07-31-2013, 11:24 AM #12
Originally posted by Richard. View Post
Get a bunch of your mates then, I'm sure he'll back down when there's a load of 18 year olds up against him. He's proving he's more of a fag then he's coming across to be. "I'll get my friends because I'm a fag"


Haha, true. Thanks for actually being cool. Most people here would just be a troll.

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Richard.
07-31-2013, 11:28 AM #13
Richard.
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Originally posted by TheUnexpected View Post
Haha, true. Thanks for actually being cool. Most people here would just be a troll.


Haha it's all good, not everyone on NGU is a dick Winky Winky :y:
07-31-2013, 11:32 AM #14
Originally posted by Richard. View Post
Haha it's all good, not everyone on NGU is a dick Winky Winky :y:


Very true, but alot are haha. Unfortunately...

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Richard.
07-31-2013, 11:54 AM #15
Richard.
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Originally posted by Shoes.
So wait you are worried because he'll come with another 10-14 year old kids and beat u? LOL, if id be you, the moment when they go to punching, i'd just be like bring it bitch. So then some nice matrix moves and there you go xD. As seen in movies usually he tells his mates to go first, and after u punched the hell out of them he usually runs away screaming like a girl xD. Thats the moment when u need to say: boo! LOL. So you'd get out of this fight like a boss :p
Seriously now, what i said above it was just joke, honestly i wouldnt even bother my time anymore with him. As for her, try to see if she really loves u or just plays with your mind.
I hope u do the right decision :y:


Or you could have a perfect fight, just like anchorman :y: Drack
07-31-2013, 07:17 PM #16
Throne
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Don't be bringing a knife to a gun fight.. take a motherfucking ak47.. beat that bitch.

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TheUnexpected
07-31-2013, 10:45 PM #17
Originally posted by Shoes.
So wait you are worried because he'll come with another 10-14 year old kids and beat u? LOL, if id be you, the moment when they go to punching, i'd just be like bring it bitch. So then some nice matrix moves and there you go xD. As seen in movies usually he tells his mates to go first, and after u punched the hell out of them he usually runs away screaming like a girl xD. Thats the moment when u need to say: boo! LOL. So you'd get out of this fight like a boss :p
Seriously now, what i said above it was just joke, honestly i wouldnt even bother my time anymore with him. As for her, try to see if she really loves u or just plays with your mind.
I hope u do the right decision :y:


LOL, I about cried I was laughing so hard haha. Yeah.

Originally posted by Shoes.
Are u sure hes even 14? By the way he talks... I would say hes at least 10. Anyway if i'd be u i'd ignore both, and move on. They dont deserve to waste your time. At least him, not sure about her but think so too.


Yeah, he's 14.
07-31-2013, 11:18 PM #18
Originally posted by TheUnexpected View Post
Ok, well a short story to get you understanding where I'm coming from.

I've been recently talking to my ex (First love, she and I are first loves), anyways she just broke up with her bf of 3 years to try and get back with me. I buried the feelings I had for her a while back, but here recently they've came back up. Well, we continue to talk and she's depressed some over her recent breakup. (so all she wants is comfort right? ). Ok, so last night I didn't feel like going to see her; I was pissed off due to her not replying to me (she uses the excuse "I don't have wifi atm" ect), and I didn't feel like getting out at 12AM-2AM. Anyways, she starts crying and a guy named John (her friend, and my friend) and I have a decent chat on facebook about her (he was beside her). Finally, around the end of our chat he starts threatening me saying "I'm going to kick your ass when I see you", all because I didn't come down there to see her...

Yeah, well if you read that you see what I'm asking help for.

I'm 18 (an adult)
John is 14 (a minor)

If I fight a minor I will get arrested. Although, I did contact the police to see what could be done in this situation (I'm not a rat/nark/snitch or anything, I only talked to them to get some facts on what I can do), well they told me to avoid him, if he threatens me call them and file a report.
Also, if he hits me I can call self defense and lay his ass out. Happy

I'm not a fighter, I don't like to fight. I guess you could call me a wuss in fighting scenarios, because I feel like fighting doesn't solve anything. Anyways, what I'm asking is what should I do?
Go hangout with her (he lives down the road from where we hangout [also lives close to me] also risk going to jail by fighting)
Not talk to her anymore (lose a possible relationship)

I'm really stuck on this guys, I don't know what to do in this situation. Please refrain from trolling, I'm only wanting serious comments.

Thanks


Never ever get back with your ex. It's a horrible idea that will only hurt you in the long run. My ex a few weeks back told me she still loved me and broke up with her boyfriend. I started to feel the same way about her, then last week she was flirting with other guys in front of my face so I called her out on it. Now she told me she just wants to be friends and ignores me. So im here with only a lonely broken heart full of love.

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TheUnexpected
08-01-2013, 01:40 AM #19
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Israeli/Palestinian Unity
A 14 year old really? Knock his ass out.

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