Originally posted by Venom
Have a quick Guy Court case id like to share and i need your opinions on guilty or not.
My arguement: I have a a couple friends who have a bonfire tomorrow night. They argue its a TEAM Bonfire but realistically they're both going for girls. I asked my friends to hang out tomorrow night. Theyre choosing the girls over their bro. Therefore breaking guy code as they are going hoes over bros. If you ever go bros over hoes youre breaking guy code. Guy code is staying loyal to your bros at all times especially if theres a girl in the way.
Their argument: They say they already had it planned before i asked. Its one night and you can hang out with your bros anytime.
My counterargument to that^: If youre a real bro you ditch the girls and hang out with your bros. And you can hang out with a girl anytime just like you can with your bros. Youre not hanging out 24/7 so if you have balls you can ask them out another day just like with your bros.
Please no smartasses saying how hot are they etc.
Guilty or not guilty of breaking guy code?
I've lost a few friends over this, except it wasn't just one night. It led on for months, ditching me over their girls. I understand ditching a friend for a few days or so to hang with your girl, but for months? No, that's wrong. I still haven't spoken to them in over a year. I'd rather have new friends that treat me well or none at all, than friends like my old ones that ditched me.
No answer your question, no. Your friends just want to hang out and get some, don't beat yourself up over one night. If it leads on weeks then just get new friends. Also, yes they are breaking bro code.