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Once the diagnosis is made, it helps to share the news with those close to you. Whenever possible, you should be accompanied to the doctor by a family member, or friend. Having company actually serves two purposes: the second person can give you much needed moral support, and he or she can help you remember the information you are given. If often helps to take a small notebook along to write down the information and to keep a record
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What Can We Expect?The effects of a brain tumor are many and varied. Some of these effects may appear before the reason for them is known. Or the reason for them may never be known.
Some Effects are Emotional
You may experience several generalized symptoms. (Family members and close friends may also experience some of these problems.) These can be due to the emotional or physical stress caused by treatments, or surgery, or by the tumor itself. Lack of appetite, depression, irritability, fatigue, sleeplessness, an erratic memory, and restlessness are common complaints. Stress reduction strategies are usually helpful. Nausea, bladder problems, or constipation can also occur. Your doctor usually can help you deal with these problems.
Some Effects are due to Tumor
There is a limited amount of space inside the hard confines of the skull; therefore, the growth of anything that doesn't normally belong there causes changes in normal brain functions. These changes may be temporary or permanent, depending on the cause. As tumors grow, the pressure they exert may affect areas near or far from the tumor itself, causing a wide variety of symptoms.
The tumors which may occur in about half the people with VHL are usually found in the cerebellar area (posterior fossa), or brain stem.
Cerebellar-pontine tumors cause pressure on the cranial nerves. Ringing in the ears or hearing loss (especially in using the telephone) can occur. Other effects may include changes in balance or coordination.
Brain stem tumors can affect tongue movements and cause difficulty in swallowing or speaking. Unusual eye movements can cause dizziness or unsteadiness in walking.
Posterior fossa tumors (cerebellar tumors) may cause tremors or a lack of coordination in walking. Headaches and nausea also may occur.
Side Effects of Treatment
While headache is the most common discomfort associated with brain tumors, some distress may be caused by the procedures necessary to treat the tumor. Chemotherapy and radiation therapy are generally not effective in VHL; stereotactic radiation may be an appropriate therapy for some tumors, and has fewer side effects than conventional radiation therapy.
If you are experiencing more intense degrees of pain, medications can make these discomforts tolerable. There are pain management clinics in most major medical centers, and new techniques based on yoga and meditation for mentally managing some degrees of pain without drugs.
Swelling of the brain often occurs following surgery or radiation, and it may cause temporary difficulty in walking or thinking clearly. As the swelling decreases, these side effects should fade. Steroid medications, which are often prescribed to reduce the swelling, may cause a swollen appearance or hormonal disturbances. One of the "positive" side effects of steroid therapy can be temporary control of headaches.
About Recurrence
Some brain tumors tend to reoccur, either because they are in a surgically difficult area and cannot be removed in their entirety, or because tiny cells, too small to be seen even with an operating microscope, may remain following surgery or other treatment, or because VHL may cause additional tumors in the area. While the goal of treatment is to reduce the number of these "left behind" cells to an insignificant amount, this is not always possible. The first sign of recurrence is emotionally devastating. You may blame your doctor or yourself for choosing a particular treatment plan over another. The choice you made at the time was the correct one for you. No one is to blame — it just happens.
Conclusion
No matter what the eventual outcome, a brain tumor and the treatment necessary to deal with it will cause drastic changes in the lives of those affected. Friends, relatives, and even acquaintances will amaze you with their generosity. Priorities will change, and new relationships will begin.
This can be a very enriching time, a time for growth, a time for closeness, a time for sharing with others. You need not be alone.