Post: Is it ever okay to hit a woman?
02-16-2015, 12:53 AM #1
(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Simple question. What reason would you give to justify hitting a woman? Personally, I only have two, plus one dark one.

One is if it is playfully, like punching them in the arm of something like that.

Another is in self-defense. I've only ever had to do this once, but I pissed off some girl in my neighborhood when I was about 15 and she wanted to fight. I told her that I wasn't going to fight a girl, and she sucker punched me. Told me these exact words "You see how hard I hit. Don't be sexist. I'm not a woman, I'm the bitch that just fucking punched you!" So I took that to heart and hit her back, same sucker punch she gave me. She fell down and called it off. Today she is actually my best friend and I love her like family.
TLAwesome faceR In a fight, gender doesn't matter.

Finally because I just watched 50 shades of gray (with that woman from above) the final context I will give is in the event that people are into some really weird sexual stuff. If she asks for it, and you are both okay with it, than go for it.
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02-16-2015, 07:57 PM #20
kciN
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It all depends, but she's putting herself in a male situation. If a female was to hit me once or twice I'd let it slide and tell her that if she continues I'm going to return hits. But if she continues to hit me I'm turning into Chris Brown.

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02-16-2015, 10:16 PM #21
Lopez.
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Originally posted by Natsu View Post
Due to me being a man of God, I would never hit a woman.


Originally posted by MLB View Post
Due to me being a man of God, I would never hit a woman.


I call bs. :madsal:
02-16-2015, 11:58 PM #22
Stunz
Former Staff
Originally posted by Laim
Due to me not giving a fuck, if a girl hits me back, I'm smacking her back.

They want equal rights? Shit, fine, have them, but that means you get back what you give us.

If she hasn't done anything, then no, you should never hit a female, but that also applies to females hitting males.
Damn you bad bad man.
02-17-2015, 01:19 AM #23
Originally posted by Solo View Post
Nah I don't think it's ever okay. As men we're stronger and bigger than women and should be the protectors of women, not the aggressors. It doesn't matter if she hits your first or if she's making you angry, because it's not going to be a fair fight. You got to control your emotions and use your physical ability to dodge her hits and your words to calm her down.

Obviously there's extreme cases where she could have a weapon and your life and well-being could be in danger, then you can defend yourself. But if it's just hands on hands, that doesn't give you cause to fight her fairly, because it wouldn't be a fair fight.


My only two responses to your first paragraph are not all women are smaller than men. Also women are tougher than guys tend to give them credit for. I agree that men shouldn't be the aggressors, hence the self defense argument. However just to name one example, look at women in the U.S. Armed Forces. They are tougher than the average american man hands down.

Originally posted by kciN View Post
It all depends, but she's putting herself in a male situation. If a female was to hit me once or twice I'd let it slide and tell her that if she continues I'm going to return hits. But if she continues to hit me I'm turning into Chris Brown.


Reminds me of a convo I had with a few friends on PSN...
"On a scale of 1 to Chris Brown, how awesome was that?!"
"Chris Brown - mid swing"
*Entire chat loses their shit laughing.
02-17-2015, 04:08 AM #24
NNS
Grunt
Lol, some of these responses...
"Oh women are inferior, smaller than us big husky men and that's why I don't hit womens"

Or could you just not hit them because it's fucking wrong to be doing that shit in the first place? To anyone.

Women are not all little fragile beings made of glass who would shatter if you laid a hand on them, but at the same time you shouldn't be laying your hands on anyone to begin with.

Domestic abuse by the female companion has grown a lot more popular in recent years, and honestly if a woman were to come at me swinging with full fists, I'm going to defend myself, just as anyone should. If she slaps you or something petty like that then you are wrong to take it so deep as to feel the need to hit her back, in any way, but if she starts beating the hell out of you, you better buck up.
02-17-2015, 07:20 AM #25
jawbreaker4
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Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
02-17-2015, 09:32 AM #26
Some women get too aggressive and need to be restrained!
02-19-2015, 10:16 AM #27
Justy5w
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If she hits u first then yes
02-19-2015, 04:46 PM #28
Kyra
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Though I can't really say this from a guys point of view, mine would be:

I think that in certain situations that it is okay, especially when it comes to self defense.
If a girl (or boy) slaps you, and you can easily walk away from it, then there is no reason to continue.
But no one, girl or boy, should be hitting anyone. If you want to hit someone, then expect to be hit back. But you should not give more than you receive.

Play fighting is different and there is nothing wrong with it as long as both of you are careful.

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