Post: Awkward situation?
08-18-2015, 01:01 PM #1
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(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Ok so, it's a pretty long story, but I'll keep it short :p

Basically, in high school, me and this girl both had a 'thing' for each other and we both knew it, but we were both too shy to ever make it 'official'.
I moved cities a few years ago and I now live ~2 hours away from her. After I left, I never really spoke to her again, but she added me on Facebook yesterday, so of cause I accepted, and I sent her a message, pretty much just saying how I haven't seen her in ages, she replied and we started talking, just talking about the last 3 years etc.

Now, I can defiantly feel a spark between us, and honestly, she's extremely cute lol, and I would obviously like to talk more, but I really suck at small talk, and I hate having awkward situations haha

So I was thinking, would it be too early to ask if she has a boyfriend? She posted a photo like 2 monthes ago saying something about being single etc, but obviously that could've changed :p

Tl;dr:
Is it too early to ask if she has a boyfriend? And if not, how the fuck do I go about asking that without making it awkward between us? Sal
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08-19-2015, 05:22 AM #11
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Originally posted by Alpaca View Post
Ok so, it's a pretty long story, but I'll keep it short :p

Basically, in high school, me and this girl both had a 'thing' for each other and we both knew it, but we were both too shy to ever make it 'official'.
I moved cities a few years ago and I now live ~2 hours away from her. After I left, I never really spoke to her again, but she added me on Facebook yesterday, so of cause I accepted, and I sent her a message, pretty much just saying how I haven't seen her in ages, she replied and we started talking, just talking about the last 3 years etc.

Now, I can defiantly feel a spark between us, and honestly, she's extremely cute lol, and I would obviously like to talk more, but I really suck at small talk, and I hate having awkward situations haha

So I was thinking, would it be too early to ask if she has a boyfriend? She posted a photo like 2 monthes ago saying something about being single etc, but obviously that could've changed :p

Tl;dr:
Is it too early to ask if she has a boyfriend? And if not, how the fuck do I go about asking that without making it awkward between us? Sal


You're way over thinking it. Grow a pair and just ask. If you don't you're just delaying and stressing yourself out. Women need men with confidence!
08-19-2015, 06:05 AM #12
Originally posted by Alpaca View Post
Well guys I bit the bullet tears

Told her that she was still beautiful, and that her boyfriend must be proud... She can either answer with "yea he is, thanks" etc. or "I don't have a boyfriend" Know what I mean


follow up pussy
08-19-2015, 06:15 AM #13
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Originally posted by LADY View Post
You're way over thinking it. Grow a pair and just ask. If you don't you're just delaying and stressing yourself out. Women need men with confidence!


Sure, it's never worried me any other time (this isn't the first time haha), just that I obviously don't want to lose an old friend :p

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08-19-2015, 08:40 AM #14
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Just get straight to the point and ask her if she wants to be donkey punched Drack
08-19-2015, 08:53 AM #15
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Originally posted by Alpaca View Post
Well guys I bit the bullet tears

Told her that she was still beautiful, and that her boyfriend must be proud... She can either answer with "yea he is, thanks" etc. or "I don't have a boyfriend" Know what I mean


If she has a boyfriend call me bb :borat:
08-19-2015, 10:59 AM #16
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Originally posted by Alpaca View Post
Well guys I bit the bullet tears

Told her that she was still beautiful, and that her boyfriend must be proud... She can either answer with "yea he is, thanks" etc. or "I don't have a boyfriend" Know what I mean


orrr she could choose option3 - "seen" with no reply Them feels.... fuck Drack

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08-19-2015, 11:02 AM #17
Originally posted by Alpaca View Post
orrr she could choose option3 - "seen" with no reply Them feels.... fuck Drack


Well that's probably the worst option. I can't give you any advice on what to do but sometimes just go by this. Fuck it. That's what I do. Good luck though
08-19-2015, 10:22 PM #18
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Originally posted by Alpaca View Post
Ok so, it's a pretty long story, but I'll keep it short :p

Basically, in high school, me and this girl both had a 'thing' for each other and we both knew it, but we were both too shy to ever make it 'official'.
I moved cities a few years ago and I now live ~2 hours away from her. After I left, I never really spoke to her again, but she added me on Facebook yesterday, so of cause I accepted, and I sent her a message, pretty much just saying how I haven't seen her in ages, she replied and we started talking, just talking about the last 3 years etc.

Now, I can defiantly feel a spark between us, and honestly, she's extremely cute lol, and I would obviously like to talk more, but I really suck at small talk, and I hate having awkward situations haha

So I was thinking, would it be too early to ask if she has a boyfriend? She posted a photo like 2 monthes ago saying something about being single etc, but obviously that could've changed :p

Tl;dr:
Is it too early to ask if she has a boyfriend? And if not, how the fuck do I go about asking that without making it awkward between us? Sal


Hahahaha you actually made a thread about this? You are friend zoned as fuck dude save yourself the pain Sal
08-19-2015, 10:26 PM #19
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Originally posted by Midnight View Post
follow up pussy


Originally posted by Alpaca View Post
orrr she could choose option3 - "seen" with no reply Them feels.... fuck Drack


Sky you got friendzoned as fuck haha, seriously she has been messaging you for 2days now way to soon to be laying the moves on her , message her for a couple weeks before you start that shit

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