Post: I need advice.
09-05-2015, 05:58 PM #1
Sempiternal
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(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); I'm in love with my best friend. I guess that's all this really comes down to. Her name is Ruth and she's the most beautiful, genuine and awesome girl i've ever met. We have so much in common and she is any guys dream girl. She supports Manchester United, Drinks beer, plays guitar, signs and isn't a stuck up bitch like most girls. I've never felt so connected with anyone ever.

However she's going to University in Manchester in a week meaning i'm not going to get to see her at all until she's back for holidays, etc. I need to know whether or not it's a good idea to tell her that I have feelings for her? We are best friends and i'm not sure if it would ruin things in that sense.

I was also wondering what would be good to get her as a gift before she goes?
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09-05-2015, 06:06 PM #2
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Originally posted by Sempiternal View Post
I'm in love with my best friend. I guess that's all this really comes down to. Her name is Ruth and she's the most beautiful, genuine and awesome girl i've ever met. We have so much in common and she is any guys dream girl. She supports Manchester United, Drinks beer, plays guitar, signs and isn't a stuck up bitch like most girls. I've never felt so connected with anyone ever.

However she's going to University in Manchester in a week meaning i'm not going to get to see her at all until she's back for holidays, etc. I need to know whether or not it's a good idea to tell her that I have feelings for her? We are best friends and i'm not sure if it would ruin things in that sense.

I was also wondering what would be good to get her as a gift before she goes?


Fuck it. Tell her that you have feelings for her before it's too late and also get her something you'd think would be cute. Just remember that whatever you get her doesn't have to cost alot of money as the thought usually counts the most. Smile
09-05-2015, 06:10 PM #3
Dude you have no idea how true this rings for me. I mean the girl I'm falling for is obviously different, but she is no doubt my best friend and I know your pain. My advice, which I plan to take myself at some point here soon, is tell her. Explain to her that you part of you wants something more but you don't want to fuck up what you already have.
09-05-2015, 06:28 PM #4
avatar1o1234
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Originally posted by Sempiternal View Post
I'm in love with my best friend. I guess that's all this really comes down to. Her name is Ruth and she's the most beautiful, genuine and awesome girl i've ever met. We have so much in common and she is any guys dream girl. She supports Manchester United, Drinks beer, plays guitar, signs and isn't a stuck up bitch like most girls. I've never felt so connected with anyone ever.

However she's going to University in Manchester in a week meaning i'm not going to get to see her at all until she's back for holidays, etc. I need to know whether or not it's a good idea to tell her that I have feelings for her? We are best friends and i'm not sure if it would ruin things in that sense.

I was also wondering what would be good to get her as a gift before she goes?


Just say fuck it and go ask her out. If she says no then Move On or try to win her heart.
09-05-2015, 06:53 PM #5
YouAppreciateMe
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Don't get Friend Zone

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09-05-2015, 06:59 PM #6
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Originally posted by Sempiternal View Post
I'm in love with my best friend. I guess that's all this really comes down to. Her name is Ruth and she's the most beautiful, genuine and awesome girl i've ever met. We have so much in common and she is any guys dream girl. She supports Manchester United, Drinks beer, plays guitar, signs and isn't a stuck up bitch like most girls. I've never felt so connected with anyone ever.

However she's going to University in Manchester in a week meaning i'm not going to get to see her at all until she's back for holidays, etc. I need to know whether or not it's a good idea to tell her that I have feelings for her? We are best friends and i'm not sure if it would ruin things in that sense.

I was also wondering what would be good to get her as a gift before she goes?



Some people say the best relationships are the ones where they started out as friendships but others say relationships where you were friends first don't work.

You could say how you feel towards her but she might be really put off by it and you put your friendship 'on the rocks' or she feels the same way too.

Get her something meaningful, if you have a photo of a time you shared get it printed and framed with a nice message on the back of it.
09-05-2015, 10:28 PM #7
JB
[i]Remember, no Russian.[/i]
Originally posted by Sempiternal View Post
I'm in love with my best friend. I guess that's all this really comes down to. Her name is Ruth and she's the most beautiful, genuine and awesome girl i've ever met. We have so much in common and she is any guys dream girl. She supports Manchester United, Drinks beer, plays guitar, signs and isn't a stuck up bitch like most girls. I've never felt so connected with anyone ever.

However she's going to University in Manchester in a week meaning i'm not going to get to see her at all until she's back for holidays, etc. I need to know whether or not it's a good idea to tell her that I have feelings for her? We are best friends and i'm not sure if it would ruin things in that sense.

I was also wondering what would be good to get her as a gift before she goes?


She supports Manchester United?

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But seriously, just tell her. I mean yeah it could jeopardize your friendship completely, but on the other hand if it's how you truly feel, you can't hide that, and it could be the best thing for you both. It's a calculated risk you'll have to take.
09-05-2015, 11:28 PM #8
Joel
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Originally posted by YouAppreciateMe View Post
Don't get Friend Zone


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09-05-2015, 11:35 PM #9
DS
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Dude fucking go for it don't be that person that ends up staying in the friend zone. If you to have an connection together u should totally go for it :p.. wish all the best for ya man GO GET HER :p

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09-06-2015, 04:25 AM #10
Joel
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