(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); I'm in love with my best friend. I guess that's all this really comes down to. Her name is Ruth and she's the most beautiful, genuine and awesome girl i've ever met. We have so much in common and she is any guys dream girl. She supports Manchester United, Drinks beer, plays guitar, signs and isn't a stuck up bitch like most girls. I've never felt so connected with anyone ever.

However she's going to University in Manchester in a week meaning i'm not going to get to see her at all until she's back for holidays, etc. I need to know whether or not it's a good idea to tell her that I have feelings for her? We are best friends and i'm not sure if it would ruin things in that sense.

I was also wondering what would be good to get her as a gift before she goes?

Don't say anything at all. Not saying it is a bad idea to tell her and take a chance, but let's examine the variables here. What if she feels the same way, things get put out in the open and she leaves for college. Long distance is hard on tried and tested relationships, but I wouldn't invite all of that into a brand new one. I just think as a whole complete bad timing to alter the dynamics of your relationship.

how did it turn out for you man? I still haven't told her yet and don't think I will to be honest.

Yes man that's my HF account. If I post a thread here I usually post the same one on HF and vise versa. they've a great section on this particular topic.

I dont see why you shouldnt tell her, if my best friend had feelings for me i wouldnt have a problem, it would be weird and id never date her but i wouldnt look at her any differently, go ahead and tell her!

Well shit Semp, I'm going to University of Manchester and support United In all seriousness, you should tell her. You'll regret her just disappearing into the distance. Give it your all and just show her how much she means to you. It could ruin your friendship, yes, but its better than just not even trying. They say hindsight is a beautiful thing but it can eat away at you if you don't take your chance. So take it.

It's a long story shit, hmu Ina pm or skype if you really wanna know.