(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Okay so i need to let out some steam about my uncle lately. Every time we talk we tend to be at ease and talk in a comfortable manner. But every time i touch something or do something he doesn't like. He remarks or bluntly tells me in regards to stop like an asshole. Like im 18 and my mother pays the bills as well so i can do anything I want or you can move the fuck out. I can pick up vibes really quickly and when I look away I see at the corner of my eyes that not only does he make face after the fact I do something he doesn't like but I also see a another persona of him that he is hiding.

He's been a carpenter all his life and is the type of person to drink 3 bottles of rum and get fucked up every now and then and blasts music out loud and hates the government and doesn't like shopping. He lives in the past reflecting on the 70s

But today I went to the door and saw a bat and picked it up and said "why is there a bat tom?" He goes on saying "I need it for protection around the house" now we do live in a rich neighbor TBH... sorry to sound ignorant or cocky but it's true. And I theorize why it's a stupid idea to put it next to the door and just put it in his room. He then tells " I'm not gonna say it again, put it down" i got offended by this because I'm 18 old enough to take care of myself, i dont need some one to talk me down like that. I can pick the bat all I want... My family pays half of the bills so if you don't like it, fuck off.

Overall yeah am i being to sensitive or is he just an ass hole?

i just hate it when people treat me like a child.. treat me with some respect you fuck.


oh and he never cares what others have to say he only like people to pay attention to him...


annnd during the mornings... he never eats in the living room when im in the living room

I think it's him. My dad was like that. (He's dead now)

Honestly, this seems like it's one of those situations where the old adage, "It takes two to tango" comes into play. From an outside and objective perspective it seems like you guys know which buttons to press and in what order to cause a confrontation - if you want to call it that. I usually tell people who ask if they're overly sensitive about something to take things with a grain of salt. Most of the time they usually do overreact or are hyper sensitive about shit. Regarding the bat ordeal. You're probably right about it's location but in the end it's probably his bat and he can put it wherever he wants and I think that is why he got so salty about you touching it.

When I was in crazy situations like that I kept the peace, took the nonsense for my parents sake so they'd have an easier time dealing with relatives. Ultimately after talking about it with my parents they saw that I was keeping my respect and holding my tongue but the in-laws were being disrespectful and mouthing off intentionally trying to push my buttons.

Your uncle might be staying with you temporarily until he finds a place of his own, I don't know your arrangement but I doubt at his age he feels great living with his sister and her family and not having a place of his own. I noticed in those situations people are just cranky because they don't have it their way, so over nothing they try to assert themselves.

Respect is earned not given you're still a kid even if your 18.

WIthout knowing more details sounds like you may have over stepped the line. We all have habits even if they don't make much sense to each over. And sounds like you decided to press a button.

earn some respect boy

So much this. I don't know where it started but it seems like everyone is entitled to respect. I think people confuse decency with respect.

He's been a carpenter all his life and is the type of person to drink 3 bottles of rum and get fucked up every now and then and blasts music out loud and hates the government and doesn't like shopping. He lives in the past reflecting on the 70s



He sounds awesome

Suck his cawk while he's sleeping. that'll show him