Originally posted by HeroWin
Okay so i need to let out some steam about my uncle lately. Every time we talk we tend to be at ease and talk in a comfortable manner. But every time i touch something or do something he doesn't like. He remarks or bluntly tells me in regards to stop like an asshole. Like im 18 and my mother pays the bills as well so i can do anything I want or you can move the fuck out. I can pick up vibes really quickly and when I look away I see at the corner of my eyes that not only does he make face after the fact I do something he doesn't like but I also see a another persona of him that he is hiding.
He's been a carpenter all his life and is the type of person to drink 3 bottles of rum and get fucked up every now and then and blasts music out loud and hates the government and doesn't like shopping. He lives in the past reflecting on the 70s
But today I went to the door and saw a bat and picked it up and said "why is there a bat tom?" He goes on saying "I need it for protection around the house" now we do live in a rich neighbor TBH... sorry to sound ignorant or cocky but it's true. And I theorize why it's a stupid idea to put it next to the door and just put it in his room. He then tells " I'm not gonna say it again, put it down" i got offended by this because I'm 18 old enough to take care of myself, i dont need some one to talk me down like that. I can pick the bat all I want... My family pays half of the bills so if you don't like it, fuck off.
Overall yeah am i being to sensitive or is he just an ass hole?
i just hate it when people treat me like a child.. treat me with some respect you fuck.
oh and he never cares what others have to say he only like people to pay attention to him...
annnd during the mornings... he never eats in the living room when im in the living room
Well in my opinion there is a fine line between getting someone to earn your respect and being a downright dickhead
I'm sure ur uncles intentions will be right in his head they might not be in the real world, to me he seems like the type of person to not care what anyone says or will not take a hint. If I were u I'd at least try gain his respect, just do the odd thing to try and make him feel better about you, I know you probably don't want to as you are an alpha male to and so is he but you have got nothing to loose by trying, and if that doesn't work then maybe take it up with someone else in the family and then at least you know u tried to get along with him and its not ur fault