(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); So, I'll try to make this short. *Notice* I'm pretty desperate and will do anything to get her.
This girl used to like me.
And we made out once.
But then a week later she said she was gay and had a girlfriend.
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So I was stuck on the fact of making her straight.
Apparently before me, this guy basically forced himself on her and she didn't like it so she gave males one last chance with me and apparently didn't like it.
So she's dating this girl.
They dated for 6 months.
And did a bunch of sexual things to each other.
All the while her family is pissed that she's gay so basically they tell her to not be gay or they'll disown her.
So they break up.
Then this other guy was talking to her but he tries to make a move and he gets denied lol.

SO.
A month ago I tried to kill myself and I only told her I was gonna do it so she called the cops and I got sent to the hospital and that sucked so I was pissed and didn't talk to her for 2 weeks cause I was trying to forget about her but then I was like fuck I really need her so I told her that and then she said I gotta work on myself first and she says she's got stuff to work on but said the whole girlfriend situation fucked her up mentally and is 100% over it.
Should I believe that? How do I bring it up without bringing it up...?

ALSO.
I'm working on bettering myself. How do I prove that to her?

I KNOW.
I should just get over her but I can't. I can't move on.




TL; DR

I'm a fa.ggot who's in love with a lesbian, how do I win her over.

Oh and suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem...would suicide even be really worth it?

I don't believe you can "turn" people. We like what we like. Guys aren't turning lesbians into straight women, they're just dating a bisexual.

pls i like to think im that fukin smooth i can make lesbians str8

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I lol'd.

Committing suicide is the most cowardly thing you can do, just man up and face your problems, by killing yourself you just bring more problems to your family. First of all, they have to see you however you finished yourself off, most people will be scarred for the rest of their lives, they will resent you for doing what you did, they will have a shit ton of funeral bills, and will constantly blame themselves for what you did. Now if you did that cause of family problems then just move out, get yourself away from them. If you cannot afford to move out then seek help. There are lots of hotlines that you can call and talk to, sometimes you just need to let it all out. Now about the girl, she said shes lesbian, from what you have said in your post i can tell you have a weak mind (not trying to bash) but think about this. She likes men and women, your competition is basically everyone now, not just guys, but also girls. Unless you have alot of self confidence or think you can trust her that much then go for it. But do you really want to be in a relationship where your constantly thinking she might leave you for another guy/girl? if you are the jealous type then that is definitely not gonna work. I'm not trying to be mean to you, I'm just stating what i can see from this post. It might seem harsh what I'm telling you but you need someone to tell you how it is. My advice would be to let her know how you feel, if she doesn't want anything with you then take her out of your life. Try to forget about her, yeah it will take time and it will suck cause you will always be thinking about her but the only way your gonna forget about her is by taking her out of your life, delete her from all social media her number and avoid all contact. Block her number cause you might get dunk and call her and then that will just get you back to where you started. You will move on eventually and hopefully find someone who accepts you how you are. Might sounds like a cliche but there are shit load of girls out there man. You'll find yours one day, might be today, tomorrow, or years from now.

For a start, don't ask a bunch of internet virgins to help with girls.

Harsh. Dude's hurting. Getting some advice from outsiders isn't such a bad thing. Granted, this place could do with a Love & Relationships forum. There has been quite a few related posts.

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