I GOT IT TO WORK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This is what is did.
i first removed the battery and shorted the circuit.
next i removed the hdd from my laptop and then put it in my ps3. i then went to the recovery menu. at the recovery menu i removed the laptop hdd and put back my original ps3 hdd. than i went to restore ps3 system. this will format your original hdd so the update loop will be removed. than i turned it off while it was restoring (not from the back!). after i went back to recovery and went to option 2 (restore default settings). after 2 minutes the ps3 wast restored and the sony logo and date, time came up. luckily my data was not deleted and my profiles were still there.
the only think is that i cant connect to the internet and the controller only works when plugged in but at least i have an os. and psn is still down so i can just play games offline. i will buy a replacement ribbon cable.
My ps3 had been bricked (dec 2010) and today (5 months later) i was able to fix.
SO TRY THIS IT SHOULD WORK.