This has been happening to me since the patch came out, and yes my PS3 is clean and wasn't hot when I recorded this video. So lets discuss this BullSh*t
Remove all your messages
Check your connection is stable e.g not wireless 50% to 40%
What causing it quite simple not enough space in the RAM for it to process all the items at once. Most likely caused by the XMB needed more resources than it has.
This has been happening to me since the patch came out, and yes my PS3 is clean and wasn't hot when I recorded this video. So lets discuss this BullSh*t
Let me clarify somewhat on what some people said. It doesn't matter how many friends or messages sent you have. What matters is how many game invites you have in your inbox. When you open the friend's list on MW3 by pressing triangle(ps3) it tries to search through your messages and load all the game invites from the memory of your machine.
my friends with a fat 80 gig ps3 has this same problem and so do I on my 80 gig fat. On my ps3 slim I do not have this problem. I think it depends on the PS3 you have (old/new)