Post: I need help.....serious answers only!
07-27-2011, 06:33 PM #1
Mudkip
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(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Hey guys, now this may sound strange at first but I need to get this off my chest, it's driving me crazy :\

trust me this is not too long to read :FU:

P.S. before you read this, I am not a cybey (cyber person, always on their phone, only speak to girls on their phone, that sort of ****) I have a nice social life Smile

so there's this girl, yes a girl Smile I met her on holiday last year, I fought off some Hungarians in front of her and made her laugh doing so Cool Man (aka Tustin) like a boss Winky Winky so anyway, I went home and she had added me on Facebook (she only did because my dumb ass friend added her before I did), I forgot who she was and she said I met you on holiday, great, I forgot about it for a while and later on my friend asked me about her, this jogged my memory, so I added her on this thing called BBM (Blackberry messenger if you don't know Winky Winky) We've talked a lot, it was awkward because I am not the smoothest guy in the world and I didn't have much to say, anyway, time went by, we spoke on the odd occasion, and I forgot about her again for a while, until June (last month Winky Winky), I went to a music concert at wembly, a few weeks before, i put as my BBM status, going to this concert, she then told me she was going, and standing like I was =D (p.s. I am in north west London, she is south east, an hour away by car or train), when she told me, I got all prepared, got my hair cut so it would look perfect for the concert Winky Winky yeah I know Winky Winky anyway I got there and I was in the stands and I BBMed her asking where she was, thanks to Wembly, there was no ****ing signal and the BBM only sent after the ****ing concert, I asked where she was standing, turns out she was standing 10 ****ING YARDS AWAY FROM ME :FU: so that really got me pissed, I looked forward to it so much :\ and now I can't stop thinking about her, lol, sounds cheesy, I can't exactly meet up with her, because I must seem like a right cybey (cyber person), I keep on thinking about a situation where we meet up by chance, you know, there is also a concert in December, it's like the winter version of the concert we both went to in the summer, should I wait until then and ask if she's going and "randomly" meet her there? or do something else? May sound ****ing weird but in the past 3 nights I've had 2 dreams about her (not dirty ones) this is pissing me off and I need SERIOUS advise, please help Smile

oh, and if you're confused, the last time we met in person was on holiday, when we met :\!

-Mudkip(the cybeyWinky Winky)
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07-27-2011, 07:13 PM #2
Mr-Speedy
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Whoa, that's some deep shit. All I have to say is try to make arrangements to meet with her somewhere, like between where you both live, make a day out of it.

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07-27-2011, 07:14 PM #3
NeedaLifeSoon
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Mudkip,

Honestly, I would sent her a copy of that text.
It describes perfectly what you are feeling, If she doesn't get that, she is not worth it.
Not sure if you want to say it was to a gaming site, but screw it, tell her the truth, What do you have to lose??

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07-27-2011, 07:16 PM #4
Mudkip
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Originally posted by Speedy40 View Post
Whoa, that's some deep shit. All I have to say is try to make arrangements to meet with her somewhere, like between where you both live, make a day out of it.


I could, but again like I said in the text, it would we bare awkward and I would seem like a proper cybey!

---------- Post added at 08:16 PM ---------- Previous post was at 08:15 PM ----------

Originally posted by NeedaLifeSoon View Post
Mudkip,

Honestly, I would sent her a copy of that text.
It describes perfectly what you are feeling, If she doesn't get that, she is not worth it.
Not sure if you want to say it was to a gaming site, but screw it, tell her the truth, What do you have to lose??


I couldn't do that, thanks for the advice but that would be waaay to embarrassing for me :embarrassed: I have her to lose, you know? some of the guys she is with in the photo look....yeah, they also look older :confused:
07-27-2011, 07:16 PM #5
Winning
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That is the biggest run on sentence I have ever seen. Try and fuck her.

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07-27-2011, 07:19 PM #6
Mudkip
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Originally posted by Winning View Post
That is the biggest run on sentence I have ever seen. Try and fuck her.


you are no help at all, and you aren't even funny.

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07-27-2011, 07:21 PM #7
you have to meet up with her, its the only way, don't wait until a concert in december thats 4 months away! She could meet someone else by then and you will feeling like such an idiot. All you have to do is be yourself, dont try and be someone your not as if it goes further she may find out that its just an act your putting on.

Meet up with the girl!!!!!!!
07-27-2011, 07:22 PM #8
Winning
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Originally posted by Mudkip View Post
you are no help at all, and you aren't even funny.

Why don't you just ask her to go to the December concert with you?

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07-27-2011, 07:27 PM #9
Mudkip
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Originally posted by The1TheOnly View Post
you have to meet up with her, its the only way, don't wait until a concert in december thats 4 months away! She could meet someone else by then and you will feeling like such an idiot. All you have to do is be yourself, dont try and be someone your not as if it goes further she may find out that its just an act your putting on.

Meet up with the girl!!!!!!!


but because I haven't seen her for so long, how do I know if she isn't with someone now, or she is? :\

---------- Post added at 08:27 PM ---------- Previous post was at 08:26 PM ----------

Originally posted by Winning View Post
Why don't you just ask her to go to the December concert with you?


Now that was helpful Smile I will ask her if she is going later, if she is, I will ask her to sit near me Winky Winky because you can specify where you want to sit Smile thanks Winky Winky
07-27-2011, 07:34 PM #10
Originally posted by Mudkip View Post
but because I haven't seen her for so long, how do I know if she isn't with someone now, or she is? :\


you just have to ask, might sound a bit weird but you don't get anywhere by not asking, try to get to know her a bit better first like asking what she does, job/education, just the usual conversation stuff, like when you haven't seen a friend for a really long time. As you both live in London, could you not arrange to meet somewhere like leicester square (any public/touristy part of London)

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