Post: I need help.....serious answers only!
07-27-2011, 06:33 PM #1
Mudkip
Retired Moderator
(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Hey guys, now this may sound strange at first but I need to get this off my chest, it's driving me crazy :\

trust me this is not too long to read :FU:

P.S. before you read this, I am not a cybey (cyber person, always on their phone, only speak to girls on their phone, that sort of ****) I have a nice social life Smile

so there's this girl, yes a girl Smile I met her on holiday last year, I fought off some Hungarians in front of her and made her laugh doing so Cool Man (aka Tustin) like a boss Winky Winky so anyway, I went home and she had added me on Facebook (she only did because my dumb ass friend added her before I did), I forgot who she was and she said I met you on holiday, great, I forgot about it for a while and later on my friend asked me about her, this jogged my memory, so I added her on this thing called BBM (Blackberry messenger if you don't know Winky Winky) We've talked a lot, it was awkward because I am not the smoothest guy in the world and I didn't have much to say, anyway, time went by, we spoke on the odd occasion, and I forgot about her again for a while, until June (last month Winky Winky), I went to a music concert at wembly, a few weeks before, i put as my BBM status, going to this concert, she then told me she was going, and standing like I was =D (p.s. I am in north west London, she is south east, an hour away by car or train), when she told me, I got all prepared, got my hair cut so it would look perfect for the concert Winky Winky yeah I know Winky Winky anyway I got there and I was in the stands and I BBMed her asking where she was, thanks to Wembly, there was no ****ing signal and the BBM only sent after the ****ing concert, I asked where she was standing, turns out she was standing 10 ****ING YARDS AWAY FROM ME :FU: so that really got me pissed, I looked forward to it so much :\ and now I can't stop thinking about her, lol, sounds cheesy, I can't exactly meet up with her, because I must seem like a right cybey (cyber person), I keep on thinking about a situation where we meet up by chance, you know, there is also a concert in December, it's like the winter version of the concert we both went to in the summer, should I wait until then and ask if she's going and "randomly" meet her there? or do something else? May sound ****ing weird but in the past 3 nights I've had 2 dreams about her (not dirty ones) this is pissing me off and I need SERIOUS advise, please help Smile

oh, and if you're confused, the last time we met in person was on holiday, when we met :\!

-Mudkip(the cybeyWinky Winky)
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07-27-2011, 11:23 PM #20
Mudkip
Retired Moderator
Originally posted by The1TheOnly View Post
August is a long time ago, if you have her on Facebook or bbm and you see shes online, just ask her how she is. No I don't have a blackberry (got an iPhone) but i do know what bbm is.


well my friend sent a broadcast just to her (so it was in purple, she didn't know it was just to her) asking if they were single, she didnt reply, but my point is, if im embarrassed, like i am, is it a bad idea sending a broadcast to only her asking for chats or saying something that will make her write back? im pretty shy :embarrassed: Winky Winky
07-27-2011, 11:50 PM #21
I Like Turtles
Who’s Jim Erased?
Originally posted by Mudkip View Post
Hey guys, now this may sound strange at first but I need to get this off my chest, it's driving me crazy :\

trust me this is not too long to read :FU:

P.S. before you read this, I am not a cybey (cyber person, always on their phone, only speak to girls on their phone, that sort of ****) I have a nice social life Smile

so there's this girl, yes a girl Smile I met her on holiday last year, I fought off some Hungarians in front of her and made her laugh doing so Cool Man (aka Tustin) like a boss Winky Winky so anyway, I went home and she had added me on Facebook (she only did because my dumb ass friend added her before I did), I forgot who she was and she said I met you on holiday, great, I forgot about it for a while and later on my friend asked me about her, this jogged my memory, so I added her on this thing called BBM (Blackberry messenger if you don't know Winky Winky) We've talked a lot, it was awkward because I am not the smoothest guy in the world and I didn't have much to say, anyway, time went by, we spoke on the odd occasion, and I forgot about her again for a while, until June (last month Winky Winky), I went to a music concert at wembly, a few weeks before, i put as my BBM status, going to this concert, she then told me she was going, and standing like I was =D (p.s. I am in north west London, she is south east, an hour away by car or train), when she told me, I got all prepared, got my hair cut so it would look perfect for the concert Winky Winky yeah I know Winky Winky anyway I got there and I was in the stands and I BBMed her asking where she was, thanks to Wembly, there was no ****ing signal and the BBM only sent after the ****ing concert, I asked where she was standing, turns out she was standing 10 ****ING YARDS AWAY FROM ME :FU: so that really got me pissed, I looked forward to it so much :\ and now I can't stop thinking about her, lol, sounds cheesy, I can't exactly meet up with her, because I must seem like a right cybey (cyber person), I keep on thinking about a situation where we meet up by chance, you know, there is also a concert in December, it's like the winter version of the concert we both went to in the summer, should I wait until then and ask if she's going and "randomly" meet her there? or do something else? May sound ****ing weird but in the past 3 nights I've had 2 dreams about her (not dirty ones) this is pissing me off and I need SERIOUS advise, please help Smile

oh, and if you're confused, the last time we met in person was on holiday, when we met :\!

-Mudkip(the cybeyWinky Winky)

Send her everything you just typed, she doesn't like then she isn't worth your effort.
07-28-2011, 09:35 AM #22
Mudkip
Retired Moderator
Originally posted by I
Send her everything you just typed, she doesn't like then she isn't worth your effort.


everyone is saying that, yes it may be a good idea to do that, tell her how I feel, but since I haven't met her since we met I hardly know her?! if only we had met at that concert :\ advise?
07-28-2011, 09:55 AM #23
Wondoh
Former Staff
Originally posted by Mudkip View Post


Now that was helpful Smile I will ask her if she is going later, if she is, I will ask her to sit near me Winky Winky because you can specify where you want to sit Smile thanks Winky Winky


Yeah that seems like the best thing to do :y:
But my only concern is does she feel the same way about you?
You have gone through all this trouble and its clear how you feel about her....But does she feel the same about you :confused:
07-28-2011, 09:57 AM #24
Mudkip
Retired Moderator
Originally posted by Wondoh View Post
Yeah that seems like the best thing to do :y:
But my only concern is does she feel the same way about you?
You have gone through all this trouble and its clear how you feel about her....But does she feel the same about you :confused:


THIS IS WHAT IM TRYING TO SAY TO EVERYONE! The last time I met her was when I met her!! Because we haven't met since, I hardly know her! I'm so confused, I know she doesn't hate me, and when we talk she seems very friendly but....urgh :\ I dunno.
07-28-2011, 10:02 AM #25
Frog
Gotta risk it for the biscuit
Dude, just grow a pair of balls and ask. Since you're saying you don't know her too well, you don't have much to lose, if you knew her well and were friends in school or whatever that would be a different story. Stop being shy, shyness never gets you anywhere, only -> :fa:. If she says not thats her problem, you sound like a pretty decent dude. If she says yes, then sweet, you got to go do your thing with her. The risk is worth the reward, most girls like an outgoing guy. If you're shy she'll think you're a pussy and move on to next guy. Trust me dude, take a shot, it's worth it Awesome face.

Bro-vice
-SexyFrog
07-28-2011, 10:05 AM #26
Mudkip
Retired Moderator
Originally posted by SexyFrog View Post
Dude, just grow a pair of balls and ask. Since you're saying you don't know her too well, you don't have much to lose, if you knew her well and were friends in school or whatever that would be a different story. Stop being shy, shyness never gets you anywhere, only -> :fa:. If she says not thats her problem, you sound like a pretty decent dude. If she says yes, then sweet, you got to go do your thing with her. The risk is worth the reward, most girls like an outgoing guy. If you're shy she'll think you're a pussy and move on to next guy. Trust me dude, take a shot, it's worth it Awesome face.

Bro-vice
-SexyFrog


Do you not think we should meet up once before I go for it?!
07-28-2011, 10:08 AM #27
Frog
Gotta risk it for the biscuit
Originally posted by Mudkip View Post
Do you not think we should meet up once before I go for it?!

Yeah, it would be kind of weird just asking her out after only meeting. Just ask if she'd like to meet up with you Awesome face
07-28-2011, 10:13 AM #28
Mr.Kane
Greatness
Originally posted by Mudkip View Post
Hey guys, now this may sound strange at first but I need to get this off my chest, it's driving me crazy :\

trust me this is not too long to read :FU:

P.S. before you read this, I am not a cybey (cyber person, always on their phone, only speak to girls on their phone, that sort of ****) I have a nice social life Smile

so there's this girl, yes a girl Smile I met her on holiday last year, I fought off some Hungarians in front of her and made her laugh doing so Cool Man (aka Tustin) like a boss Winky Winky so anyway, I went home and she had added me on Facebook (she only did because my dumb ass friend added her before I did), I forgot who she was and she said I met you on holiday, great, I forgot about it for a while and later on my friend asked me about her, this jogged my memory, so I added her on this thing called BBM (Blackberry messenger if you don't know Winky Winky) We've talked a lot, it was awkward because I am not the smoothest guy in the world and I didn't have much to say, anyway, time went by, we spoke on the odd occasion, and I forgot about her again for a while, until June (last month Winky Winky), I went to a music concert at wembly, a few weeks before, i put as my BBM status, going to this concert, she then told me she was going, and standing like I was =D (p.s. I am in north west London, she is south east, an hour away by car or train), when she told me, I got all prepared, got my hair cut so it would look perfect for the concert Winky Winky yeah I know Winky Winky anyway I got there and I was in the stands and I BBMed her asking where she was, thanks to Wembly, there was no ****ing signal and the BBM only sent after the ****ing concert, I asked where she was standing, turns out she was standing 10 ****ING YARDS AWAY FROM ME :FU: so that really got me pissed, I looked forward to it so much :\ and now I can't stop thinking about her, lol, sounds cheesy, I can't exactly meet up with her, because I must seem like a right cybey (cyber person), I keep on thinking about a situation where we meet up by chance, you know, there is also a concert in December, it's like the winter version of the concert we both went to in the summer, should I wait until then and ask if she's going and "randomly" meet her there? or do something else? May sound ****ing weird but in the past 3 nights I've had 2 dreams about her (not dirty ones) this is pissing me off and I need SERIOUS advise, please help Smile

oh, and if you're confused, the last time we met in person was on holiday, when we met :\!

-Mudkip(the cybeyWinky Winky)


Talking to her online would be an easy way to talk, but not the best. If you like her try and see her sometime for a day and see how it goes.

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