Post: I need help.....serious answers only!
07-27-2011, 06:33 PM #1
Mudkip
Retired Moderator
(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Hey guys, now this may sound strange at first but I need to get this off my chest, it's driving me crazy :\

trust me this is not too long to read :FU:

P.S. before you read this, I am not a cybey (cyber person, always on their phone, only speak to girls on their phone, that sort of ****) I have a nice social life Smile

so there's this girl, yes a girl Smile I met her on holiday last year, I fought off some Hungarians in front of her and made her laugh doing so Cool Man (aka Tustin) like a boss Winky Winky so anyway, I went home and she had added me on Facebook (she only did because my dumb ass friend added her before I did), I forgot who she was and she said I met you on holiday, great, I forgot about it for a while and later on my friend asked me about her, this jogged my memory, so I added her on this thing called BBM (Blackberry messenger if you don't know Winky Winky) We've talked a lot, it was awkward because I am not the smoothest guy in the world and I didn't have much to say, anyway, time went by, we spoke on the odd occasion, and I forgot about her again for a while, until June (last month Winky Winky), I went to a music concert at wembly, a few weeks before, i put as my BBM status, going to this concert, she then told me she was going, and standing like I was =D (p.s. I am in north west London, she is south east, an hour away by car or train), when she told me, I got all prepared, got my hair cut so it would look perfect for the concert Winky Winky yeah I know Winky Winky anyway I got there and I was in the stands and I BBMed her asking where she was, thanks to Wembly, there was no ****ing signal and the BBM only sent after the ****ing concert, I asked where she was standing, turns out she was standing 10 ****ING YARDS AWAY FROM ME :FU: so that really got me pissed, I looked forward to it so much :\ and now I can't stop thinking about her, lol, sounds cheesy, I can't exactly meet up with her, because I must seem like a right cybey (cyber person), I keep on thinking about a situation where we meet up by chance, you know, there is also a concert in December, it's like the winter version of the concert we both went to in the summer, should I wait until then and ask if she's going and "randomly" meet her there? or do something else? May sound ****ing weird but in the past 3 nights I've had 2 dreams about her (not dirty ones) this is pissing me off and I need SERIOUS advise, please help Smile

oh, and if you're confused, the last time we met in person was on holiday, when we met :\!

-Mudkip(the cybeyWinky Winky)
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07-28-2011, 01:14 PM #56
Mr.Kane
Greatness
Originally posted by Mudkip View Post
do that mate! let me know how it goes Winky Winky


I will do mate, thing is the girl im going to see and the one i "like" used to be best mates but lately all they do is argue so I will try persuade the one im seeing to let us knock on her Winky Winky

Im guessing your 15-16?

BTW I dont think I have you on psn, add me xT-g-K and we can do shangrilla or how ever its spelt Winky Winky
07-28-2011, 02:34 PM #57
PressXForSex
Big Sister
Originally posted by Mr.KANE View Post
I will do mate, thing is the girl im going to see and the one i "like" used to be best mates but lately all they do is argue so I will try persuade the one im seeing to let us knock on her Winky Winky

Im guessing your 15-16?

BTW I dont think I have you on psn, add me xT-g-K and we can do shangrilla or how ever its spelt Winky Winky

add me too :carling: odoerfer on psn
07-28-2011, 03:56 PM #58
<Jimbo>
</Jimbo>
What a dilemma you have... However I do know from personal experience that you have two options, the first of which being ignore it and let 'love' take its path, and hope that eventually, you will get over the strong feelings of regret...

The other option, and in my eyes the better (if you know them in real-life, not the interwebz) would be for you to call her, let her know that she's been on your mind lately and how you remember how you enjoyed spending your time with her when on holiday. I think I can remember you're around 16/17? Still young, therefore you should for sure not worry about how she may react, and well... If you feel as though the two of you get on, this girl will have no problem with meeting up with you, SO LONG AS YOU ASK (before it's too late). In my opinion, you're quite lucky with how close the two of you are (location wise). :L

However, holidays are all about one night stands etc. imo... So, to be honest it's kind of unfortunate that you've started to develop such feelings for her, but yeah no harm in asking her to meet up with you. Smile

Originally posted by Mudkip View Post
Hey guys, now this may sound strange at first but I need to get this off my chest, it's driving me crazy :\

trust me this is not too long to read :FU:

P.S. before you read this, I am not a cybey (cyber person, always on their phone, only speak to girls on their phone, that sort of ****) I have a nice social life Smile

so there's this girl, yes a girl Smile I met her on holiday last year, I fought off some Hungarians in front of her and made her laugh doing so Cool Man (aka Tustin) like a boss Winky Winky so anyway, I went home and she had added me on Facebook (she only did because my dumb ass friend added her before I did), I forgot who she was and she said I met you on holiday, great, I forgot about it for a while and later on my friend asked me about her, this jogged my memory, so I added her on this thing called BBM (Blackberry messenger if you don't know Winky Winky) We've talked a lot, it was awkward because I am not the smoothest guy in the world and I didn't have much to say, anyway, time went by, we spoke on the odd occasion, and I forgot about her again for a while, until June (last month Winky Winky), I went to a music concert at wembly, a few weeks before, i put as my BBM status, going to this concert, she then told me she was going, and standing like I was =D (p.s. I am in north west London, she is south east, an hour away by car or train), when she told me, I got all prepared, got my hair cut so it would look perfect for the concert Winky Winky yeah I know Winky Winky anyway I got there and I was in the stands and I BBMed her asking where she was, thanks to Wembly, there was no ****ing signal and the BBM only sent after the ****ing concert, I asked where she was standing, turns out she was standing 10 ****ING YARDS AWAY FROM ME :FU: so that really got me pissed, I looked forward to it so much :\ and now I can't stop thinking about her, lol, sounds cheesy, I can't exactly meet up with her, because I must seem like a right cybey (cyber person), I keep on thinking about a situation where we meet up by chance, you know, there is also a concert in December, it's like the winter version of the concert we both went to in the summer, should I wait until then and ask if she's going and "randomly" meet her there? or do something else? May sound ****ing weird but in the past 3 nights I've had 2 dreams about her (not dirty ones) this is pissing me off and I need SERIOUS advise, please help Smile

oh, and if you're confused, the last time we met in person was on holiday, when we met :\!

-Mudkip(the cybeyWinky Winky)
07-28-2011, 04:32 PM #59
Mudkip
Retired Moderator
Originally posted by Mr.KANE View Post
I will do mate, thing is the girl im going to see and the one i "like" used to be best mates but lately all they do is argue so I will try persuade the one im seeing to let us knock on her Winky Winky

Im guessing your 15-16?

BTW I dont think I have you on psn, add me xT-g-K and we can do shangrilla or how ever its spelt Winky Winky


yes I am mate and I'm iiJG? I don't have the maps, game share? :love: you know me and u got demoted on PG :\ lol

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Originally posted by lt
What a dilemma you have... However I do know from personal experience that you have two options, the first of which being ignore it and let 'love' take its path, and hope that eventually, you will get over the strong feelings of regret...

The other option, and in my eyes the better (if you know them in real-life, not the interwebz) would be for you to call her, let her know that she's been on your mind lately and how you remember how you enjoyed spending your time with her when on holiday. I think I can remember you're around 16/17? Still young, therefore you should for sure not worry about how she may react, and well... If you feel as though the two of you get on, this girl will have no problem with meeting up with you, SO LONG AS YOU ASK (before it's too late). In my opinion, you're quite lucky with how close the two of you are (location wise). :L

However, holidays are all about one night stands etc. imo... So, to be honest it's kind of unfortunate that you've started to develop such feelings for her, but yeah no harm in asking her to meet up with you. Smile


I am a shy guy, so this advice was very good, but I just don't think I can do it :\ I knew her on holiday but haven't seen her since, I don't know why I'm all of a sudden feeling for her, I feel my best option is to wait until that December thing, and try and build a better friendship before it, then ask her to go, she should say yes, but I don't know if she is single or not :\ I also found out she went to Portugal today, and I'm going away tomorrow, I'll think about it when I'm away, may even meet another girl, but I'll let time decide whats happening with this one :(
07-28-2011, 04:37 PM #60
PressXForSex
Big Sister
Originally posted by Mudkip View Post
do that mate! let me know how it goes Winky Winky


To get somebody you dont always have to build a friendship first i mean ya you want to know them on some sort of level but you dont always have to be good friends i mean i use to go out with my gfs friend :S.......
07-28-2011, 04:38 PM #61
Mudkip
Retired Moderator
Originally posted by PressXForSex View Post
To get somebody you dont always have to build a friendship first i mean ya you want to know them on some sort of level but you dont always have to be good friends i mean i use to go out with my gfs friend :S.......


haha, I know friends that get drunk to go for girls, they aren't embarrassed when they're drunk :fa:
07-28-2011, 05:13 PM #62
Mr.Kane
Greatness
Originally posted by Mudkip View Post
yes I am mate and I'm iiJG? I don't have the maps, game share? :love: you know me and u got demoted on PG :\ lol

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I am a shy guy, so this advice was very good, but I just don't think I can do it :\ I knew her on holiday but haven't seen her since, I don't know why I'm all of a sudden feeling for her, I feel my best option is to wait until that December thing, and try and build a better friendship before it, then ask her to go, she should say yes, but I don't know if she is single or not :\ I also found out she went to Portugal today, and I'm going away tomorrow, I'll think about it when I'm away, may even meet another girl, but I'll let time decide whats happening with this one :(


Oh I forget who is who sometimes lol, and yh i did. Tbh its good I can now work on some clips for my montage Smile, I bought them from someone, if you can find someone who is selling them for vbux PM me and i'll help you if you dont have enough.
07-28-2011, 05:28 PM #63
Mudkip
Retired Moderator
Originally posted by Mr.KANE View Post
Oh I forget who is who sometimes lol, and yh i did. Tbh its good I can now work on some clips for my montage Smile, I bought them from someone, if you can find someone who is selling them for vbux PM me and i'll help you if you dont have enough.


cheers man Winky Winky which PSN should I use? iiJG (personal), Fat_boys_alg, or itfunnycozhesfat


help me decide =D
07-29-2011, 12:10 AM #64
El Violador
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You won't be a creep for asking her to meet you somewhere... Just go meet her and have a good time..

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