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I'm disabled (physically not mentally) so i really like this girl and I think she likes me, she likes hugging me and she kissed me (not on the cheek) I don't know if i should ask her out or not cause she also says im her bffl so i think being in the "Friend zone" is a bad thing I'm also scared her friends will tell her your goin out with a disabled dude so she'll break up with me. now my questions are

1.shud i ask her out?
2. if yes then do you have a good way to do so?
3.what if she says no?

thanks =D

Edit: she also keeps saying that i'm "cute"

To be honest, Every girl likes to hug and kiss people on cheek etc, And thats just normal.
But if u want straight answer, Well.. No

Dude she kissed me not on the cheek

Well 1st, if you build the courage to ask her out then yes, you should
2nd I actually dont, Get drunk and tell her, then when she speaks about it the next day, just say the truth comes out when your drunk.
3rd What's the worst that can happen, if she says no then its not gonna happen, but nvm what her friends say, if she likes you... she wont care what everyone else thinks

harsh bastard

Well, being disabled has nothing to do with love, I know some guys who are fit and healthy, and they never talked to a girl, so please take this "disabled" thing out of your mind.

Now, I think you are the only one who could judge if you should ask her out or not. When someone kisses/hugs you, it's obvious if he is doing it as your BF/GF or just a close friend.

If I were you, I'd just ask her out. :y:

Good luck!

Before I go onto answering your questions. Do you mind expanding on your disability? It doesn't matter if you don't want to, it just could help the situation. Beware, if she always says 'You're a really good friend' in a translator to reality it means 'I'd never go out with you'.

1] If you have the guts to ask her out, go for it. Just think of these before you do:
> Will your friendship with her break if she says no?
> If she does say yes and you break up, would you remain friends?

2] The only good way to ask someone out it definitely in person, never ask someone out over text or a social networking site. Just ask her when no-one is around so you nor her feel pressured.

3] If she says No, lets hope it doesn't come to that. If she does say no, don't been feeling down. Just accept it and remain friends, although it may seem awkward if you're her 'bffl' then she shouldn't really be bothered.

But anyways, Good luck man!

thanks man do you have any ideas of how?

thank you!!!!

ps i'm basically very weak that i cant walk (i have SMA type 2)

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my dick does work lol but wouldnt that be classed as ummmmmmmmm... maby ABUSE?

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