Originally posted by Superchunk
thanks dude I think I'll go for it but where and how?
I don't know the extent of your disabilty but she does.
Best policy is to be completely honest with her and do something that will not highlight your disabilty.
If you can't drive ask her to your home and you make a dinner and watch a movie.
If you can get around, take her to a movie or out for something to eat.
Do what you like and are comfortable doing.
Maybe you can double date with a friend who can help you get around if needed.
If you are not ready , then don't ask, but be completely honest with her and your feelings about yourself and her.
It is hard enough, as you've seen from other posts here, but imagine how good you will feel about yourself if you use the courage to ask her...