Post: if i share with you my story will you share some advice with me?
10-11-2011, 06:07 PM #1
Superchunk
Are you high?
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I'm disabled (physically not mentally) so i really like this girl and I think she likes me, she likes hugging me and she kissed me (not on the cheek) I don't know if i should ask her out or not cause she also says im her bffl so i think being in the "Friend zone" is a bad thing I'm also scared her friends will tell her your goin out with a disabled dude so she'll break up with me. now my questions are

1.shud i ask her out?
2. if yes then do you have a good way to do so?
3.what if she says no?

thanks =D

Edit: she also keeps saying that i'm "cute"
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10-11-2011, 07:02 PM #20
Its horible cus you get raly used to seing each other talking and enjoying our company and then it vanishes
Originally posted by Slut View Post
that's what i was gonna say.

if she says no, the friendship is pretty much over.
10-11-2011, 07:04 PM #21
I Like Turtles
Who’s Jim Erased?
Originally posted by Superchunk View Post
so here goes...

I'm disabled (physically not mentally) so i really like this girl and I think she likes me, she likes hugging me and she kissed me (not on the cheek) I don't know if i should ask her out or not cause she also says im her bffl so i think being in the "Friend zone" is a bad thing I'm also scared her friends will tell her your goin out with a disabled dude so she'll break up with me. now my questions are

1.shud i ask her out?
2. if yes then do you have a good way to do so?
3.what if she says no?

thanks =D

Edit: she also keeps saying that i'm "cute"

If you do go that far and she eventually breaks up with you because you're disabled then she is a waste of air, smack that bitch.
should just ask her, what's the worst that could happen =D.
10-11-2011, 07:07 PM #22
NeedaLifeSoon
Retired Life
Originally posted by Superchunk View Post
thanks dude I think I'll go for it but where and how?


I don't know the extent of your disabilty but she does.
Best policy is to be completely honest with her and do something that will not highlight your disabilty.
If you can't drive ask her to your home and you make a dinner and watch a movie.
If you can get around, take her to a movie or out for something to eat.

Do what you like and are comfortable doing.

Maybe you can double date with a friend who can help you get around if needed.

If you are not ready , then don't ask, but be completely honest with her and your feelings about yourself and her.

It is hard enough, as you've seen from other posts here, but imagine how good you will feel about yourself if you use the courage to ask her...

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10-11-2011, 07:46 PM #23
Superchunk
Are you high?
Originally posted by NeedaLifeSoon View Post
I don't know the extent of your disabilty but she does.
Best policy is to be completely honest with her and do something that will not highlight your disabilty.
If you can't drive ask her to your home and you make a dinner and watch a movie.
If you can get around, take her to a movie or out for something to eat.

Do what you like and are comfortable doing.

Maybe you can double date with a friend who can help you get around if needed.

If you are not ready , then don't ask, but be completely honest with her and your feelings about yourself and her.

It is hard enough, as you've seen from other posts here, but imagine how good you will feel about yourself if you use the courage to ask her...


dude, she doesnt even know my disability how should i tell her
10-11-2011, 07:55 PM #24
NeedaLifeSoon
Retired Life
Originally posted by Superchunk View Post
dude, she doesnt even know my disability how should i tell her

You said earlier that she has met you and kissed you. How could she not know of your condition?
10-11-2011, 08:21 PM #25
Originally posted by MikeOxBig View Post
Get on one knee and propose...


Now that sir was uncalled for, and had no purpose other than you trying to be funny. He stated he was disabled and you tell him to get on one knee. I don't think he is like in a wheel chair disabled because of a few posts up but still. This is especially wrong in my eyes as my dad is disabled. No how would you feel if you was disabled you pathetic c*unt.

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10-11-2011, 08:22 PM #26
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It's up to you tbh, If you have other BBFL then yeah, do it, but it may not be worth the risk if you don't have many BFFL, if thats the case then you have to find out for sure (preferably from another close friend of hers) weather or not she actually does like you. Good luck :y:
10-12-2011, 04:58 PM #27
Superchunk
Are you high?
Originally posted by NeedaLifeSoon View Post
You said earlier that she has met you and kissed you. How could she not know of your condition?


she nows im in a weelchair obv but she deosnt exactly know what ive got.
10-12-2011, 05:08 PM #28
-Luke
Former Staff
Bro, just ask her. What's the worst that can happin? Seriously? The worst thing that will happin is she says "No, let's just be friends". I mean just think deep down in your heart and stop living in that "I can't do this" zone. Get in the life that you say "I can do whatever I want". No matter if your disabled mentally or physically. Your heart is never disabled, so follow your heart bro and give her a soft smile and just straight up ask her.

Just always have faith in yourself. Your just as strong as everyone else is by your sole. If she breaks up with you because your disabled, then that's just wrong. Life shouldn't be based on if your disabled or not or if your good looking. It should be based on your heart and your heart only. Just talk to her, make small talk before you ask her so it won't be all of the sudden.

Glad I could help bro, and best of luck to you! Winky Winky

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