Post: if i share with you my story will you share some advice with me?
10-11-2011, 06:07 PM #1
Superchunk
Are you high?
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I'm disabled (physically not mentally) so i really like this girl and I think she likes me, she likes hugging me and she kissed me (not on the cheek) I don't know if i should ask her out or not cause she also says im her bffl so i think being in the "Friend zone" is a bad thing I'm also scared her friends will tell her your goin out with a disabled dude so she'll break up with me. now my questions are

1.shud i ask her out?
2. if yes then do you have a good way to do so?
3.what if she says no?

thanks =D

Edit: she also keeps saying that i'm "cute"
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10-13-2011, 01:42 PM #47
ic0de
Hurah!
Gtfo dude, if you don't have anything positive to say then just leave.
Originally posted by MikeOxBig View Post
Probably ugly anyway so who gives a shit..
You all think you're the ****ing love gurus, lawl.

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10-17-2011, 04:27 PM #48
Superchunk
Are you high?
Ok I'm gonna ask her out tommorrow
10-17-2011, 04:40 PM #49
El Violador
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Ask her out. If she says no, it's better that than "what if?" You never want to miss your chance bro.
10-17-2011, 04:43 PM #50
Astro Zombie
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Originally posted by Superchunk View Post
Ok I'm gonna ask her out tommorrow


good luck and go get her bro
10-17-2011, 06:41 PM #51
Neymar
I dunno what to say anymore?
Originally posted by Superchunk View Post
Ok I'm gonna ask her out tommorrow


Good luck. Smile

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Superchunk
10-17-2011, 08:56 PM #52
Hey man, right i thought id comment on this because if done alot of work with couples and im very good at this kind of thing, so i hope you listen to my advice closely, and i hope it helps you as much as it has other people....

1st of all, your disability is irrelevant, real love is about the heart and mind as one, and as youve said, your mind and heart are fine. What im implying by this is that it does not matter if you can walk or not, if she loves you, then all of the parts of you that she loves, are like any other person's. If she has kissed you on the lips, then she obviously likes you to some degree, people dont just kiss you on the lips because your a good friend. I would avise you to speak to her, and drop small hints, not too obvious and not too descreet, this will gain her intrest without her thinking "woah this guys ebing too full on" after this conversation, post back on here or pm me telling me what she said, and ill tell you where to go from there.

You do not have to listen to this advice, i am not telling you what to do, but if you do choose to take my advice, i can almost guarantee a good result (either a relationship with the girl, or a rejection with the strong friendship still in tact). Thank you for listening, and i hope this helped Smile

Regards,

H3NDO.
10-17-2011, 09:58 PM #53
M.Mac
Lacrosse<3
Originally posted by Superchunk View Post
so here goes...

I'm disabled (physically not mentally) so i really like this girl and I think she likes me, she likes hugging me and she kissed me (not on the cheek) I don't know if i should ask her out or not cause she also says im her bffl so i think being in the "Friend zone" is a bad thing I'm also scared her friends will tell her your goin out with a disabled dude so she'll break up with me. now my questions are

1.shud i ask her out?
2. if yes then do you have a good way to do so?
3.what if she says no?

thanks =D

Edit: she also keeps saying that i'm "cute"


Originally posted by JordanCarr View Post
Well 1st, if you build the courage to ask her out then yes, you should
2nd I actually dont, Get drunk and tell her, then when she speaks about it the next day, just say the truth comes out when your drunk.
3rd What's the worst that can happen, if she says no then its not gonna happen, but nvm what her friends say, if she likes you... she wont care what everyone else thinks

ahah thats what i did told her drunk best news back was she was drunk too they call it liquid courage for a reason. And i was in the friendzone situation too. But just remember you wont get any where enless you ask. If theres a no on to the next one! ( enless you wana stay her friend )
10-18-2011, 04:09 AM #54
ic0de
Hurah!
What happen?
10-18-2011, 04:18 AM #55
Forgive
[MOVE]I am a independent black woman. [/MOVE]
Well..it depends.A lot of girls tend to like guys with disabilities.I don't know why though.You figure when you break your arm all the girls hug you and stuff,am I right?That's just girls being girls...

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