Originally posted by DUBSTEP
I want to know what you think about them.
im asking this because ive got myself in a little situation. i recently started doing some not so good stuff which im not regretting, but i kind of feel like people are avoiding me because of it :/ i know i shouldnt care what others think about it but when my freinds invite me over to "talk" and it turns out its an intervention, im starting to see what they are saying
To the people that dont do dont do drugs, do u avoid people that do, or does it not change your opinion of the person?
doesnt mater if you do them or you dont, just want to know what people think about it
Honestly, the "you shouldn't care what other people think", line is a croc of shit. You should DEFINITELY care what other people think, especially when it's your friends and family. When it comes down to it, people who say that line are often doing it to excuse doing something they know they shouldn't.
Now, when it comes to drugs, I say do whatever you want, but honestly, I avoid people who do drugs completely. I even avoid people who drink large amounts of alcohol and I dislike socialising with smokers. Why? Because someone under the influence of a drug is unpredictable, they're usually less pleasant to be around and often it can become violent or tiresome. I see little value is sitting with a stoned guy who's laughing at the funny pattern on the ceiling, I find it pathetic. Likewise I don't want to be with someone who'd drunk either, I don't care about your pub-philosophy that only makes sense when you're pissed and I don't want to stagger around the street singing.
In the long run, and this is coming from someone who's high as a fúcking kite as I'm saying this due to the pain meds I take... drugs are a barrier to social activities, if you want to do drugs, do them in moderation and away from your friends, because someone on drugs isn't fun to be around. I know this is true, my moods change rapidly because of my meds, and my friends are good enough to put up with it, but I guarantee they'd rather I didn't need to take them.