(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Well I felt the need to write this thread because it probably applies to most of us here and recently someone in my area got in trouble for having sex with someone underage. It was on his eighteenth birthday and he was out with his girlfriend, she's fourteen (I know right, gag central). He was going out with his GF for a long time and from what I hear he genuinely loved her, lets just assume he did. They were out drinking and went back to the GF's house and one thing led to another and they ended up having sex. During sex the GF's mother walked in and caught them and she wasn't impressed to say the least! The mother immediately rang the police and reported the BF as a rapist (it's technically statutory rape as anyone under 17 in Ireland cannot give sexual consent). To make matters worse the mother is forcing the GF to say her boyfriend had sex against her will, which was untrue as far as I know.

So how would you feel in this situation? Try to focus on all sides of the story. How would you feel as the boyfriend, more than likely about to face a jail sentence, your name on a sex offenders register and a break-up with the girl you love (the break-up is what I predict will happen).

How would you feel as the girlfriend? You're about to lose the person you love for a long time, probably forced not to see them again and being put under huge amounts of pressure to lie in court.

How would you feel as the girlfriend's mother? You just caught your little baby in bed with someone far older than her, you have the power to make his life a misery, does he really deserve that?

How would you feel as the boyfriend's parents? Your son is just eighteen, his life is only beginning and now he is abut to be weighed down. Would you try and get him out of the country, would you threaten the girlfriend's mother?

It's quite a sticky situation and for all of you who think the law is the law so let him have it here is something else to consider. Nature intends us to be sexually active at a young age(from when girls have their first periods and boys can produce sperm), that's a fact you can't ignore. Can you blame these two horny, drunk teens for having sex when every fiber of their bodies is telling them to, after all they are in love.

I think we can get a good debate going on this, there are a lot of things to consider and this situation will apply to most of us so let me know how you feel.

EDIT: By the way, don't just reply to this situation, how do you feel about underage sex in general? Does age really matter when you're in love? Have you had underage sex and did it have a negative or positive effect on your life? Just no more fúcking discussions on whether god is real or not (unless they are somewhat intelligent and add to the thread in some way). Kthanx.

-My reply to Needa, it may tie up some loose ends:

Originally posted by another user

Sorry Needa but most of those questions are going to have to stay unanswered because I don't know the people involved personally, I don't even know anyone who knows them personally to be honest. I just thought this was an interesting subject that would get a bit of a discussion going, you would be surprised how often this kind of thing happens, in Ireland at least.

Anyways on to your questions, I believe they were together for two/three months. I'm not sure if this was their first time having sex with one another, I think the boyfriend had sex before but I'm not sure about the girlfriend. I really can't tell you if the mother was trying to break them up before this, I can tell you, though, that the boyfriend is a bit of an asshole.

As for the middle schooler and high schooler thing they were both in the same school. In Ireland teens from the ages 12-18 go to the same secondary level school, I understand that as an American this might seem odd but that's just the system we have. How did they meet? Your guess is as good as mine, maybe a poke on facebook lead to a conversation and an exchanging of numbers, maybe a friend introduced them, to be honest I don't think it's that relevant to the situation but I can see why you find the story questionable with my hazy details. I'll try to find out more but don't hold your breath.

She isn't claiming physical rape, the mother is forcing her to. The mother obviously wasn't happy seeing her daughter growing up too quick so she just wants the boyfriend to be gone as long as possible, which is understandable. Although it's extremely unfair and dishonest because, as far as I know, the girlfriend intended to have sex.

I would definitely agree with your last statement but when you're young, drunk and in love it's hard to think clearly. Teens do stupid and impulsive things all the time so saying that the boyfriend was exceptionally stupid would be unfair I think.

And how could the world and life have come about. Poof, something exploded and now there is life. :lol: :lol: :lol:

Get back on topic dude, I'm pretty sure there is another thread that you can debate this subject, if there isn't then make one.

I'll try answer your question, though, my knowledge on this subject is limited. It wasn't as simple as an explosion and then life, there were multiple unexpected chemical reactions and mutations eventually leading to life on a cellular level. This obviously continued for a few billion years and the end result is us humans. Now do you really think that a man on a cloud is a more plausible explanation? If you do then you are either, incredibly stubborn, brainwashed, dangerously stupid or trolling us. Now back to the topic of shagging please. :p

If he truly loved her and respected her he would not have slept with her. there are laws for a reason its wrong a 14 yr old is a child and has not developed maturity yet god I know people in there thirty's who haven't even developed maturity yet. but I do think its wrong for the mother to make her child lie . He will still be charged and still be on the diddler list right beside Michael Jackson . And if that was my son I slap the shit out of him . Cause I would never raise my son to diddle young girls

Actually I was using that to debate back

Haha the use of the word diddler made me laugh. I don't really think he is a pedophile, his girlfriend just happens to be younger than him by quite a bit. I've seen this guy on a night out before and he doesn't go after young girls, I think he just trys with anyone he can get it off.

It being the law is not a great argument because, as someone said in a previous post, it's only really at seventeen because it's such a taboo subject. In a couple of years time I guarantee it will be lowered, people just need to accept that their little angels are people with sexual needs too.

I think he did respect her and love her and I don't see how sleeping with her would be disrespectful, could you please elaborate?

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I suppose I agree with you that the age difference is a bit much but that could be the only difference between them, they could be great together in every other way.

I'm sixteen so I can enlighten you on her hotness and she's hot enough for a fourteen year old, she would pass for a sixteen year old too. I also realize that many people might want pics but that's not really the point of this thread and it's not really fair to be putting up pics of a fourteen year old who's going through a lot.

And I didn't read the rest. So, where did these "chemicals" come from so they could react?

I know where you're going with this and so did clutch so just read his post. I'll add something though, who created god? What explains his existence? What evidence is there of his existence? if you're just going to spew bullshit all over my thread then I'll just ask a mod to remove your posts, the majority of which are off topic.