(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Well I felt the need to write this thread because it probably applies to most of us here and recently someone in my area got in trouble for having sex with someone underage. It was on his eighteenth birthday and he was out with his girlfriend, she's fourteen (I know right, gag central). He was going out with his GF for a long time and from what I hear he genuinely loved her, lets just assume he did. They were out drinking and went back to the GF's house and one thing led to another and they ended up having sex. During sex the GF's mother walked in and caught them and she wasn't impressed to say the least! The mother immediately rang the police and reported the BF as a rapist (it's technically statutory rape as anyone under 17 in Ireland cannot give sexual consent). To make matters worse the mother is forcing the GF to say her boyfriend had sex against her will, which was untrue as far as I know.

So how would you feel in this situation? Try to focus on all sides of the story. How would you feel as the boyfriend, more than likely about to face a jail sentence, your name on a sex offenders register and a break-up with the girl you love (the break-up is what I predict will happen).

How would you feel as the girlfriend? You're about to lose the person you love for a long time, probably forced not to see them again and being put under huge amounts of pressure to lie in court.

How would you feel as the girlfriend's mother? You just caught your little baby in bed with someone far older than her, you have the power to make his life a misery, does he really deserve that?

How would you feel as the boyfriend's parents? Your son is just eighteen, his life is only beginning and now he is abut to be weighed down. Would you try and get him out of the country, would you threaten the girlfriend's mother?

It's quite a sticky situation and for all of you who think the law is the law so let him have it here is something else to consider. Nature intends us to be sexually active at a young age(from when girls have their first periods and boys can produce sperm), that's a fact you can't ignore. Can you blame these two horny, drunk teens for having sex when every fiber of their bodies is telling them to, after all they are in love.

I think we can get a good debate going on this, there are a lot of things to consider and this situation will apply to most of us so let me know how you feel.

EDIT: By the way, don't just reply to this situation, how do you feel about underage sex in general? Does age really matter when you're in love? Have you had underage sex and did it have a negative or positive effect on your life? Just no more fúcking discussions on whether god is real or not (unless they are somewhat intelligent and add to the thread in some way). Kthanx.

-My reply to Needa, it may tie up some loose ends:

Originally posted by another user

Sorry Needa but most of those questions are going to have to stay unanswered because I don't know the people involved personally, I don't even know anyone who knows them personally to be honest. I just thought this was an interesting subject that would get a bit of a discussion going, you would be surprised how often this kind of thing happens, in Ireland at least.

Anyways on to your questions, I believe they were together for two/three months. I'm not sure if this was their first time having sex with one another, I think the boyfriend had sex before but I'm not sure about the girlfriend. I really can't tell you if the mother was trying to break them up before this, I can tell you, though, that the boyfriend is a bit of an asshole.

As for the middle schooler and high schooler thing they were both in the same school. In Ireland teens from the ages 12-18 go to the same secondary level school, I understand that as an American this might seem odd but that's just the system we have. How did they meet? Your guess is as good as mine, maybe a poke on facebook lead to a conversation and an exchanging of numbers, maybe a friend introduced them, to be honest I don't think it's that relevant to the situation but I can see why you find the story questionable with my hazy details. I'll try to find out more but don't hold your breath.

She isn't claiming physical rape, the mother is forcing her to. The mother obviously wasn't happy seeing her daughter growing up too quick so she just wants the boyfriend to be gone as long as possible, which is understandable. Although it's extremely unfair and dishonest because, as far as I know, the girlfriend intended to have sex.

I would definitely agree with your last statement but when you're young, drunk and in love it's hard to think clearly. Teens do stupid and impulsive things all the time so saying that the boyfriend was exceptionally stupid would be unfair I think.

Actually, I was trying to make a point bro, I was going somewhere. Since you don't want me to, then delete my posts, idc

Just make your goddamn point so we can all get on with our lives. I know you're just going to say "who created that" to every post I make and then eventually when I can't say anymore (because I have limited knowledge on the subject) you will just burst out in a righteous ball of ignorance and say "god created this and that because he is almighty...blah", I've heard it all before kid. However, if you have another, more intriguing argument then, by all means, fire ahead son.

If her age is on the clock she's old enough for the cock.
If there's hair on the muff she's old enough.
etc

My view: Something about the age 14 seems a bit young, I wouldn't feel comfortable myself nailing a 14yo. 16+ is fine though. Anyway's Fire I respect your decision and opinion, for many including myself we view your opinion as letting something good go to waste but hey that's your opinion. I agree with River wtf is the 18yo doing with the 14yo, I'm 17 and 6'2 even I think 14yo's are too small/undeveloped for sex just seeing some randomers in a nightclub.

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Ah hardcore religionists. Tell me do you believe we were each created by perfect design ?

You said they were going out for some time, how long exactly is that? 2 Years at least I would assume.
If so she would have been 12 when he was 16?

All I was going to say is there is science is all about proof, when they have to create something in their heads to justify 50% of what they say.

This whole conversation is just ****ed the law says hes a diddler so im calling him a diddler god the kid still smells like pee she just got out of diapers if i was her dad he be sorry she would be off to boot camp its wrong period .

What the hell is wrong with proving that things are true?



Wow I really love this, it's called making an educated guess, something the creators of religions obviously haven't heard of. Also, at least science doesn't make up huge lies to justify 100% of what they say.

Okay I'm done with you and your off-topic posts, get back on the subject of sex before marriage or then go You must login or register to view this content. and be proven wrong like many other religious-types before you.

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Please don't reproduce.

That is fine too
No right or wrong view when it comes to sex. I hope you keep a open mind about it and not just your environment which makes you think that.
Believe me my environment made me have some very different views to sex compared to now.
It was only when i questioned it and my environment along with going to a new one i changed my mind.

Your young enjoy it whatever way you want but make sure it safe.


The act of mating


Sorry just had to link that video

Not much else to say , i stand by my view even with more details

Finally someone doesn't flame me for my belief! That takes character