Well I really don't care what gays do in their private space and time, but what I do care is what some do to other non gays. Take my friend for example, when I was around 14 There was this gay boy in my year, he had a crush on my friend which was straight. He admitted it to everyone that he liked my friend and constantly tried to get along with him (flirting, talking, etc) nobody included my friend talked to him at all apart from the girls, because he was gay. My friend because of the gay guy was constantly harassed by other people because of this guy, since he told everyone. If the gay guy just told my friend in person then it wouldn't of went out of hand. If gay people want to find their 'partners' then they should at least look for other gays and not try to change straight people into gays. I'm not afraid to admit that I'm homophobic because of my upbringing (parents, neighborhood, etc) but I don't mind what gays do behind closed doors. If I see a gay couple kiss on the park bench for example then I would be disgusted, however I wouldn't comment on about it. Thats just how I feel of gays through my own personal experience.