Post: I need help with my social issues can anyone help?
06-03-2012, 04:33 AM #1
caleb01
Little One
(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); I've never ever been very social. I hardly ever spoke in school even to the teachers. In kindergarten children would avoid me because I was so silent and I was eventually sent to a social worker that i've had to go to for six years. I hardly ever even talk to my parents. I am now thirteen and I go to middle school, but things are still the same. I wouldn't necessarily say i'm depressed, but yes I am sad a lot inside. The most words I usually say in a day are about 10 although I speak very fluent with a well built vocabulary. When people talk to me I have no idea on what I should say and when I do say something i'm afraid of people judging me. When I say something people stare at me as if it's a miracle of some sort and I feel as though everyone staring at me....I then get really embarrassed, hot, and red in the face. Is there anything I can do or perhaps any pills I can take? I've thought about trying (cannabis) weed...(just once every week or so), since everyone I know is doing it. I'm really smart for my age (as most people say) and adept to learning. I'm 13, studying mathematics, physics, programming, and hardware engineering...will something like weed really effect me in a bad way? I just want to be more sociable and more able to talk to people...i'm sick of being an outcast to people. I just want to be happy and more capable of making friends. The most i've ever had were 3 or 5 and I get really lonely.
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MelissaMollin
06-27-2012, 06:16 AM #38
Epic?
Awe-Inspiring
Originally posted by Dman93 View Post
No doctor who values his practice would release anything. Please remember the English government fired Professor David Nutt just because he criticized there decision to move cannabis from a class c drug, to a class b drug. Also if you read my original post you would see I said I did not want him nor advise him to smoke weed I advised against it. Also with weed you would need a extremely large amount to 'overdose' but you can't really say that too much of anything will kill you. I read that if it took you three hits to get high it would take nearly 100,000 hits to kill you or overdose on it making it virtually impossible. Also I definitely did not tell that kid to smoke weed, please read I advised against it and he thanked the post so you can see. I don't think anyone should smoke it but if it can help from a doctor legally then I am all for it and I think people should be allowed to use it.


Well, first of all, your arguments are blatantly supporting marijuana usage. Additionally, in your first post, regarding marijuana usage, you literally stated "go ahead." While you may not have advised him to take marijuana for medical purposes (which is illogical, since it's the only good reason to be taking any sort of drug for any reason) but rather for "shits and giggles", that's still criminal! Using - or even possessing - marijuana is illegal in many areas, and requires some sort of license or certification virtually everywhere.

My source for this is from your own original post:

Originally posted by another user

Yeah, put down weed! If you smoke you'll be a fuck up, like current president "Barry" Obama, former presidents Bush, Clinton, Former Presidential candidates Newt Ginrich and Al Gore, Mayor of New York Michael Bloomberg, and even Governator Schwarzenegger. I mean, come on, there's nothing wrong with weed. There's something wrong with both abuse and criminalization of weed. When we group weed with cocaine and meth, it links the two. It basically tells the 43% of Americans who admit to smoking weed that if you like weed, you'll LOVE cocaine! Abuse, such as daily, or doing it on a schedule (once a week every friday at 7, for example) will make your body used to weed, and could make you have withdraws if you miss a dose. I personally recommend changing your behavior before doing drugs to fix it, but if you want to have a smoke for shits and giggles go ahead. I mean, think about it. Why medicate so you don't notice the problem instead of just fixing it? Imagine you're in a beat with a small hole in it. You could close your eyes to make the leak go away, or you could just fix the damn leak so you don't have to worry about it!

Fix the problem through actions. If you want to just smoke a little for the hell of it, read my above post. But change who you are. Assuming that's you in your avatar, get a buzz cut, buy some khakis and a few polos, and be social. Watch sports. (I know you hate them) Half of what I talk about a day is sports, like, did you see Lebrons amazing shot during the XXX quarter? (Don't call me a heat dickrider, I live in Florida I've liked them since I was 7...)

Also, if you happen to go for the weed idea, think shit through. A Gram is $20, don't let anyone tell you different. Make sure you weigh it when you buy it. My friend deals, and he's a little 5 foot 9 130 lb twig. I come along as his enforcer Winky Winky (He's been robbed 3 times for over $1000 of weed combined...) He shorts people BAD. Never trust a dealer...

Also, clutch hunter, depending where he is he could easily have most of his friends smoking. Depending where he lives, it's very likely.


Also, based on your grammar, I believe that you may have smoked one too many joints.
06-27-2012, 06:18 AM #39
Dman93
Crawl to your cross
Originally posted by Epic
Well, first of all, your arguments are blatantly supporting marijuana usage. Additionally, in your first post, regarding marijuana usage, you literally stated "go ahead." While you may not have advised him to take marijuana for medical purposes (which is illogical, since it's the only good reason to be taking any sort of drug for any reason) but rather for "shits and giggles", that's still criminal! Using - or even possessing - marijuana is illegal in many areas, and requires some sort of license or certification virtually everywhere.

My source for this is from your own original post:



Also, based on your grammar, I believe that you may have smoked one too many joints.



Thats not my post you quoted stare
06-27-2012, 06:21 AM #40
Epic?
Awe-Inspiring
Originally posted by Dman93 View Post
Thats not my post you quoted stare


That is true, that's my bad. You were making his argument, so I assumed you agreed with it, but I see now that you stated that you did not. Either way, I don't understand why you would repeatedly aid his argument, which you disagreed with.
06-27-2012, 06:27 AM #41
Dman93
Crawl to your cross
Originally posted by Epic
That is true, that's my bad. You were making his argument, so I assumed you agreed with it, but I see now that you stated that you did not. Either way, I don't understand why you would repeatedly aid his argument, which you disagreed with.


No I wasn't aiding his argument, as a matter of fact I never read it to be honest. I was replying to another guy who was posting false information about cannabis. Although I didn't condone the use to celeb 'threads owner' I was however replying to a guy who seemed to think weed was as serious as heroin and thats kinda annoying, that most people are scared into thinking its this class A drug when in fact it is not.
06-28-2012, 12:07 AM #42
Pricey91
Professor of trollology
I've written this post three or four times now, not quiet sure what the most solid advice is that I could give you, so here we go again. There is no need to change who you are as a person. These characteristics are what make you unique and ultimately make you interesting. It's these characteristics that you need to show off to be good at making friends. When talking to people, it's essential that you look them in the eyes. Or, as I like to do, look at their nose. It's a lot easier to look at somebodies nose than it is to look into their eyes. Imagine a triangle, the two eyes and the centre of the top lip are the points. If you're looking anywhere in that area it will appear to the other person that you are looking into their eyes. Be careful however, because it's easier to look at the persons nose, it's also easier to look their longer and appear as if you're staring. Two or three seconds at most, then look away and back again.

Smile! Which girl do you want to be friends with? This one
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or this one

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Don't pick on how attractive you think they are! I know your teenage mind works, it was only a few years ago I was a teenager Happy

Dude, there is not a lot more I can say than when you meet people, they want to be your friend. It's just natural for people to want to be friends with every person they come into contact with. As long you don't give people a reason to dislike you, they won't think any less of you for talking. Awesome way to keep a conversation going is to remember that people love to talk about themselves. How was their day, what did they get up to last night, what are their plans for tonight or the weekend, if they have a pet, talk about the pet!

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07-10-2012, 06:41 PM #43
Bush.
Long Gone Day
I think your really confused, I know where your coming from because I had the same problem, what you should do is i find some that looks like a chill person (preferably a girl because there a gateway to more socialness) in class, and talk a light conversation and build on it more everyday, but dont do it so awkwardly, i know its hard, but trust me it gets easier, and if you keep pushing yourself to meet people, you'll find yourself with good friends and enjoying youself. :y:
07-10-2012, 06:46 PM #44
Media907
League Champion
if you do weed once you will get addicted and wont stop
so just hire a hooker to suck your dick that will making you feel happy (no joke)
07-11-2012, 08:17 AM #45
Originally posted by Clutch
Skimming through your post I really wouldn't recommend doing drugs to make friends. You say everyone you know is doing it; Either they're stupid or they're lying. You'd best be neither for your own integrity.



Weed isn't a drug No

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Originally posted by Groudon View Post
Mate, that is bad. Cannibus,"weed", will kill your brain cells. If not significantly in the long run. Don't do it. You don't want to end up like a bum on the street asking for change do you? Just pull through...


No it won't. Don't be ignorant :dumb:
07-11-2012, 08:53 AM #46
Originally posted by GAMER View Post
Weed isn't a drug No


The definition of drug; "You must login or register to view this content."

Weed does this. End of discussion.

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