Originally posted by Millz59
I know that society requires them, and there will always be people like that. I'm not in a position to be able to change that and I understand what you mean. Society will always have those types of people doing those jobs and that's okay. Some people enjoy it, others don't. I'm not saying that receiving a public education is bad or anything.
In regards to discipline, I would not like to see my kids walking around with their boxers showing, and talking like an idiot. I wouldn't like to see my child get C's in class if he was a fully capable person and chose not to work hard. That's what I mean by discipline. I know some people are just not that capable mentally, and that's fine.
Also, children who have wealthy parents don't exactly get a head start in life. If the child is not strong academically it is going to be very difficult to change that. If he is just born a C student who does not pay attention in class then there's no money that could make that child intelligent again. The money that they earned is their money. If they want to spend it on their kids then they have every right to do so, however what I'm trying to drive at here is that public education should take things from private schools and implement them into their schools as well.
Realistically a dual system works the best. You can never have a fully private system or a fully public system. Having both works the best if you ask me.
While it's true that some people are naturally more capable than others (and there may be little one can do to change that), children who have wealthy parents do get a head start in life (although, I suppose that depends on your definition of success). First off, begin with the extremely disadvantaged. Young learners in countries like Iraq, Qatar, Haiti, Sudan, Burundi, or Somalia face a host of challenges.
Take Burundi, for example, which has a GDP per capita of $487 (in America, the GDP per capita is around $48,500) with approximately 80% of the population living in poverty. In terms of educational standards, Burundi only has a 67% adult literacy rate (compared to 99% in the United States). According to the US Department of Labor, the gross primary education enrollment rate was 62% with a net primary enrollment rate of 37% in 1998. According to a report published by Burundi in late 2000, only 47% of school age children attended school. Burundi only supports five universities, only one of which is public, and none are rated highly. Healthcare in Burundi is vastly inadequate, with egregiously high death and infant mortality rates and illnesses (especially HIV/AIDS) run rampant. This has a very clear effect on the outcome of lives in Burundi. Not a single Burundian has won a Nobel Prize nor, according to Forbes, are any of the top 100 richest people in the world citizens of Burundi. While certainly wealth and number of Nobel laureates aren't the only indicators of success (some might go as far as arguing they aren't indicators of success whatsoever), they are popular indicators of success - and I believe that if you were to observe many other measures of success, you'd find that very few list citizens of Burundi (or even people that hail from Burundi).
Of course, in first world countries, when we think of "poor" we think of "first world poor." We don't consider what it means to live in a war-torn, poverty-stricken, disease-ridden land - where everybody is poor (and vastly more poor than the "poor" of America). Yet, the poor of first world countries are still hit with many academic disadvantages. To begin with, generally, wealthier parents choose to send their children to schools offering a particularly high quality of education, while poorer parents (assuming a child has parents, or parents of any quality whatsoever) might send their child to a public school, perhaps even a poor, city school (or even a particularly rural school) with inadequate funding, supplies, and facilities. Obviously, kids who attend better schools with better facilities, better teachers, and more supplies will have a greater advantage (as learning will be made easier). Furthermore, consider who they'll meet at those schools. Kids who attend expensive private schools will meet other kids who also have parents that are likely wealthy and in positions of power. Even though kids, especially very young kids, may not fully intuit the necessity and importance of networking, they're doing it anyways (and they're making all the right contacts); at the same time, kids who attend poorer schools are much more likely to make the
wrong contacts (for example, gang activity is much more prevalent in poor areas, so obviously more gang members - or future gang members - will attend poor schools or generally be in the area of poor schools). Even generally innocent, but not wealthy contacts are less useful as they generally won't get you that top job or other opportunity.
Finally, just consider overall safety. People from wealth are generally much less likely to live in dangerous areas (places with high rates of crime, war, disease, etc.) for the simple fact that they are wealthy and as such, can choose to live in safer places. Living in a safe environment alone provides you with a great advantage in life.
Originally posted by OVOXO
What Millz is getting at is that paying for a better education will give kids more knowledge and not necessarily increase their intelligence level, their work habits, etc. Money can't buy grades-- it's ultimately down to the child's willingness to succeed for that to happen.
That may have been the intent of what he said, but he did also quite clearly state "children who have wealthy parents don't exactly get a head start in life." While I agree that money cannot buy grades, it can make good grades much more attainable. While it does come down to one's willingness to succeed, there are other factors that may increase or decrease (sometimes quite drastically) one's chance to succeed (and as such, in some circumstances, even with all the willingness in the world, one may ultimately fail).
In summation, while the wealth of one's family does not guarantee success and that success must be achieved through one's own volition, it does give one greater chance at success. To say otherwise is simply foolish.