(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); I will post my opinion later; but am curious with this forums ideals on marriage.

Which other ones would you dispute?

& Who needs children? Aventador Roadster/G550 fund > college fund

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99% of you will get married, so claim what you want now :p
Sharing a lifetime with another will be one of your greatest challenges, it can also be your most rewarding accomplismemt.

Forming a union and keeping it strong enough to last a lifetime is something worth doing. I don't see it as a trap you can escape it at any point in time and you wanted to go into it. Something that should not be done with quickness should think long and hard about it. For some it the final chain in linking you together , for others it worthless doing it. Me one day I'm fine doing it but only when the time is right.

Well said!

Am probably in a group of few on this site that has been married twice. The funny thing about marriage is either will/can/might display traits that the other is looking for but when that ring is put on that finger then it all might change.

Yes you can/can't drive nice cars or have nice things if you have a family to support but boils down to how you manage your money.

I have been married twice and what I learnt from my previous marriage was:
I love being a family
Having someone to cook for is cool
Never feel lonely if you need emotional support
Happy times to be had on any giving day
Pre-nuptial's are nice
Never get involved if your spouse will never let you have legitimate fun

Most guys aren't ready for it because they have that mommy or I complex. Basically it's not for everyone.

Not trying to dis you at all, but you don't necessarily have to be married to get the "Pros" you listed. Do you?

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This may be the best topic here at this time, It"ll take me some time to gather my thoughts and try to explain them. I'll give it a day or so then attempt this thread again.

Well I mean you could have a girlfriend and some of the pros, but eventually she will want to get married. Women need security and they do it through marriage.

Spoken like a true pimp.



Security huh? Well why the hell can't we as men get security too? There should be a fallback on the crazy bitch fund, because it seems like everytime a woman gets herself some security in a man or even in her own family, theres always more bullshit that gets added in and we're at the center of it, which is why marriage in itself is a very big deal.



Thats actually bullshit my friend, not many men get married in the first place- or even stick around to find out! But wishful thinking is always nice yea?
Sure it may work in theory, but theory is just that, doing it in actuality takes serious work, and marriage was never anything funny, you have people who get married just for the monetary aspect, so enjoy the butchery of typical societal customs.
Most rewarding accomplishment? Perhaps, but another would counter saying playing a childrens card game is more of an accomplishment in the long run.

Marriage has it's pros and cons.

You get to be with the love of your life, have someone who can support you on your worst days, have sex without condoms unless you really don't want to be a parent, etc.
While on the other hand, you may end up with the wrong woman who had a different personality before marriage and ends up showing her true colors after marriage leaving you with a divorce that will have a big impact on your future.

I don't think too hard on it though, and I shouldn't be even giving it that much thought as I'm in my teenage years.