(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Okay, so there's this girl I've liked since the 6th grade (now in 9th) and we've been talking since then and we've even been talking about getting married and shit(I know, I'm only in the 9th grade).. I've asked her out twice, or maybe three times, but she always says she doesn't want a boyfriend. Now, I've started to take that in and we hang out almost everyday after school.. But here comes the other problem.. There's this other guy that gets in the way of us two.. Like tonight for example, me and her were hanging out at her best friend's house and he started texting her and told her to come over to his house to shoot his paintball gun with him. She wanted me to go with her over there so I did.. The next thing I know there were both wrestling with each other and to me, I call that flirting. So I left out of frustration.. My question is, what should I do with this guy? I don't want to ask her out, I don't want to get shot down.. I come to you guys for advise, not to get made fun of or any other thing you guys could direct this into..

tell him to quick cockblocking, well actually if she doesnt want a boyfriend and is clinging to many guys...she might be a homie hopper(ho), but if your not with her then you really cant do anything...if you talk to the guy and be like back off then you look like a controlling prick. just let things play out talk to her about going out(like why not and shit, dont be desperate though)

Thank you. The guy is like one of my good friends. And I don't want to tell him to lay off, because like you said, I don't want to be a controlling prick. I understand that we are going out or anything, but I don't want her to be with any other guy that would cause a stalemate for the both us you know?

Thanks, but I can't let her go. She's everything to me. I have to keep pushing until I have her. I can't give up now.

I know over time, we will date, because we've talked about it. The only thing is, I want to date her now. But I don't want her to freak out and not want to hang out with me anymore if she doesn't want to date me.. Only time will tell unfortunately. I will never give up on her.. ever.

This will happen the rest of your life-its really how you act now that will decide if bugs you the rest of your life, I mean when it happens again. The best thing you could do is be honest with her-tell her how you feel and that you want to take it to the next level. You are going to have to be prepared to accept her answer. If you do not accept it, then it will either end your relationship or it will eat at you for a long long time. If you are friend with the guy, you need to tell him to back off.

The other thing you can do is ignore it and stay friends with her, don't say anything. If you do this you need to find a girl that likes you and start hanging out with her more and more.
It may be too late, if you have already established the best friend role, your chance at taking it to the next step is GONE. You might aswell be gay.

I hope you end up on top-and best of luck to you.

No.. I mean everyone at school thinks we're like the "perfect couple" and all of that.. She's never had a boyfriend in her life. And she said she likes me. I think she might be scared of having a boyfriend.. I mean we've talked about EVERYTHING. Getting married, how many kids, what colleges we're going to go to together, going to HS Prom, and even renting an apartment so we can stay with each other during college..

I think I'm going to just let things flow. Hopefully, things will work out for the best..

good luck little buddy; just remember-you make your own future. No one else can do it for you, so the decissions you make today will be with you for the rest of you life. Be wise and try to make the best decission for you